The scene at the manor in KOD, with Rand finally channeling like LTT in combat situation, and the circles of Asha'man/AS rapidly copying him is ample proof that Demandred didn't really need the whole strength of Shara behind him, and would have done much better with a small army with vastly superior training than their foes, and massive, massive armies of Shadowspawn.. He would have wreck plenty of havoc on Egwene's armies and the armies on non-channelers before Mat took over with only the dreadlords from the BT in circles with the turned sisters and the survivors from the Black Ajah. The full contigent of WO, the Windfinders not required for the weather, the surviving Asha'man, the AS would have had a sizeable challenge facing Demandred behind the lines with Taim as his field commander.
This is really well stated. I was quite disappointed with how Brandon wrote the LB and your points above really highlight why. Honestly I didn't like much of of his work, TGS was ok, but ToM and AMoL just didn't feel like WoT books to me and the flare for the dramatic Brandon showed didn't seem to fit with RJs world. I'm going to do a re-read of the whole series eventually, but I've needed a break since AMoL.