Rape is a crime of power not sex. Graendal's rape is actually the best way to punish her... It was Mesaana and Moghedien who had no reason to be raped. I do agree that being the 3rd rape victim of SH is rather unimaginative though. At least RJ (or Bsand) cooked have come up with fitting punishments for each of them. Seemed like were going to see more of that when her made Aran'gar a woman and Osan'gar unimpressive and possibly Cyndane being short... The new bodies seemed to be their own forms of punishments.