In I think CoT Cadsuane mentioned how she would have bonded an Asha'man as a warder herself if only she had come to the shawl 50 years later, but that if she had (some person's name) would be dead already in her little home in the Black Hills and that would have altered A LOT of history.

Now, I don't have this person's name, but it sounded like a woman's name. Could it have been her mother? Her daughter? Her lover? I'm just wondering who this person was and what effect their death would have had on Cadsuane so much as to alter A LOT of history.

Also, about a sentence or so later she mentioned how she 'earned' her angreal/ter'angreal ornaments there in the Black Hills.

Does anyone know anything more, hear anything said by RJ/Sanderson or have any theories on what all she meant?