Everyone has basic light and understanding of right and wrong. I experience pain and have a desire to not cause that same pain to other people. That has nothing to do with culture.

But.

Lets say for a second that it is cultural in that we say a gender reveal party is less extreme than rioters burning and killing.

Its also of a different cultural understanding to say that the 2 ARE equal in any way.

We have 2 opposing cultures. Okay.

That there is any place in "your culture" that someone can loot, burn, murder, and riot. And that is equally bad or equally not bad to a gender reveal party that starts a field on fire. That you ignore the intents of the parties involved. I posit that THAT proposed culture is absolute garbage.