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For the future Tom Send a noteboard - 24/01/2018 07:26:28 PM

You shouldn't be having conversations with a girl about the subject of whether she's ready for a relationship. That's already friend-zone discussion. If you see her, you like her, and you think she's interesting, you don't try to have heart-to-heart discussions. You say, "Hey, [x], what are you doing Thursday? I'd like to take you to dinner." It's pretty damn direct, she knows exactly what you're doing and you're not putting yourself in a position where she is unclear what you think about her. The worst thing that happens is she says "no" and you don't waste any more time on her. Or, I suppose, if you're really into her, you don't take no for an answer and tell her you're going to change her mind, and then just call once a week (no more often) until she either says you should stop calling or agrees. Any more and you're starting to be a stalker. Any less and you don't really care.

Political correctness is the pettiest form of casuistry.

ἡ δὲ κἀκ τριῶν τρυπημάτων ἐργαζομένη ἐνεκάλει τῇ φύσει, δυσφορουμένη, ὅτι δὴ μὴ καὶ τοὺς τιτθοὺς αὐτῇ εὐρύτερον ἢ νῦν εἰσι τρυπώη, ὅπως καὶ ἄλλην ἐνταῦθα μίξιν ἐπιτεχνᾶσθαι δυνατὴ εἴη. – Procopius

Ummaka qinnassa nīk!

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Just have to get this off my chest (and don't want to do it with my own name) - 23/01/2018 10:43:31 PM 980 Views
Yeah, it's good to let it out - 24/01/2018 05:27:44 AM 607 Views
Re: Yeah, it's good to let it out - 24/01/2018 08:40:54 AM 577 Views
... - 25/01/2018 01:11:51 AM 599 Views
This is sort of stupid. You snooze, you lose. - 24/01/2018 03:58:03 PM 600 Views
You're not wrong. - 24/01/2018 06:03:07 PM 607 Views
For the future - 24/01/2018 07:26:28 PM 654 Views
Re: For the future - 24/01/2018 07:40:45 PM 638 Views
Sorry to hear about this. - 24/01/2018 05:25:46 PM 599 Views
Re: Sorry to hear about this. - 24/01/2018 06:06:09 PM 586 Views
She a ho. You've been friend-zoned. Stay her friend, but move on romantically. *NM* - 24/01/2018 06:00:46 PM 331 Views
Never really liked that term, jest or not. - 24/01/2018 06:08:23 PM 611 Views
STBY *shrugs* *NM* - 24/01/2018 07:01:22 PM 324 Views
I do appreciate the opinion, just not convinced of existence of the friend-zone (I could be wrong). *NM* - 24/01/2018 07:38:16 PM 317 Views
Oh. I thought you meant "ho". My reply would have been the same whichever word it was, though. *NM* - 24/01/2018 10:01:25 PM 322 Views
Me too - 25/01/2018 03:11:24 AM 594 Views
Staying friends with a romantic interest who friendzoned you is bad. - 24/01/2018 07:28:26 PM 663 Views
She already was my friend before she became romantic interest though. *NM* - 24/01/2018 07:33:10 PM 325 Views
That doesn't matter. Tom is right, time to move on. - 24/01/2018 10:00:20 PM 599 Views
Man, I'm glad I don't follow this advice. - 25/01/2018 11:40:11 AM 685 Views
This is not fleeting! - 25/01/2018 12:04:05 PM 682 Views
Uh oh. - 25/01/2018 12:39:55 PM 592 Views
I know i wnated to sleep with most my female friends - 25/01/2018 03:14:22 PM 604 Views
Could be both, I suppose *NM* - 25/01/2018 06:18:01 PM 316 Views
This. *NM* - 25/01/2018 07:09:53 PM 303 Views
yup - 25/01/2018 03:21:19 AM 574 Views
His. He wrote "I'm a grown man". - 25/01/2018 06:10:14 AM 594 Views
Re: His. He wrote "I'm a grown man". - 25/01/2018 08:45:58 AM 589 Views
It's juvenile because adult men face problems directly and resolve them. - 25/01/2018 02:19:54 PM 662 Views
harsh but true - 25/01/2018 03:24:07 PM 636 Views
anonymity is a two-edged sword - 25/01/2018 04:31:19 PM 666 Views
That's for a fact - 03/02/2018 06:33:04 PM 760 Views

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