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I have this a lot. Legolas Send a noteboard - 04/10/2017 11:35:08 PM

View original postThere is a quote by someone (African woman and we already talked about my memory!) that is along the lines of "blah blah, it's your second thought that shows the kind of person you are." We all do stupid things if we're not paying attention, but if you think twice, change your reaction, you're probably not going to hell.

Where my initial, instinctive reaction is racist or discriminatory in some other way, but then my conscious thinking steps in and mentally scolds the subconscious, hopefully in time to avoid actually doing or saying anything too bad.

No doubt it would be better to just not have that instinctive reaction in the first place, but eh, still better than just running with it.

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Microaggressions: Have you ever committed one? aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 06:42:55 PM 941 Views
Bah! damookster - 04/10/2017 06:52:28 PM 502 Views
Confession is good for the soul aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 07:03:19 PM 448 Views
My memory sucks nossy - 04/10/2017 06:57:31 PM 541 Views
Of course your memory sucks, ma'am aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 07:08:56 PM 560 Views
nossy - 04/10/2017 07:14:29 PM 551 Views
Ok then, on second thought... aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 07:29:03 PM 397 Views
But, does that exist? nossy - 04/10/2017 07:41:47 PM 533 Views
Re: But, does that exist? aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 07:51:44 PM 425 Views
I have this a lot. Legolas - 04/10/2017 11:35:08 PM 537 Views
People are hardwired to prejudge random thoughts - 05/10/2017 04:01:34 AM 585 Views
We truly are. nossy - 05/10/2017 11:00:33 AM 532 Views
Using suck as a negative term is a microagression against those of us who like to suck. LiterateDog - 04/10/2017 08:23:17 PM 491 Views
Even people who don't like sucking usually like getting sucked. *NM* Tom - 04/10/2017 09:12:55 PM 254 Views
Calm down, Samantha! nossy - 05/10/2017 10:58:31 AM 502 Views
*NM* LiterateDog - 05/10/2017 06:55:11 PM 267 Views
Maaaaaybeeeeee.......??? LiterateDog - 04/10/2017 08:26:45 PM 507 Views
Yes. Yeah... I think yes. aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 08:47:27 PM 495 Views
You have made elevators complicated. That isn't easy. *NM* random thoughts - 05/10/2017 04:04:47 AM 267 Views
Hopefully, I commit them multiple times a day, every damn day Tom - 04/10/2017 09:11:08 PM 464 Views
So I was not wrong to treat her like she couldn't do her job. aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 09:19:12 PM 451 Views
Oh the drama and the hyperbole! Tom - 04/10/2017 11:11:36 PM 493 Views
Yeah, good luck with all that. *NM* aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 11:17:21 PM 313 Views
You can be such a little liar! nossy - 05/10/2017 10:56:54 AM 467 Views
You're talking about two completely independent notions Tom - 05/10/2017 02:05:44 PM 502 Views
Literally! nossy - 05/10/2017 03:19:47 PM 511 Views
Yes, literally! Tom - 05/10/2017 04:51:44 PM 492 Views
I've beaten the shit out of a few people in my day... Larry - 04/10/2017 10:33:28 PM 473 Views
I laughed at a co-worker's assertion that "non-white people can't be racist". Vodalus - 04/10/2017 11:23:35 PM 483 Views
Probably aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 11:27:29 PM 543 Views
"I guess I would say Im lazy. I dont want to repeat same task so I just do it right the first time." Hieshyn - 05/10/2017 12:17:09 AM 477 Views
I don't do well with that one... damookster - 05/10/2017 12:39:32 AM 552 Views
I answered that I didn't like people and got the job. *NM* random thoughts - 05/10/2017 04:08:08 AM 288 Views
I try and stick to macro aggression random thoughts - 05/10/2017 03:56:25 AM 446 Views
I'm sure I have, though nothing springs to mind. It wouldn't, though, by definition. Ghavrel - 05/10/2017 09:56:08 AM 465 Views
I'm glad you said this nossy - 05/10/2017 10:53:10 AM 502 Views
One presumes you could become aware later, as I did. *NM* aerocontrols - 05/10/2017 09:17:28 PM 231 Views
Being micro-agressed is a choice. Nargs - 06/10/2017 03:59:05 AM 538 Views
It's really not nossy - 06/10/2017 11:45:40 AM 560 Views
I think you're both right aerocontrols - 06/10/2017 02:25:48 PM 538 Views
Re: I think you're both right damookster - 06/10/2017 03:36:26 PM 476 Views
There is a difference. nossy - 06/10/2017 05:45:33 PM 483 Views
It has become an oppressive tool of the culture of victimhood damookster - 06/10/2017 07:32:36 PM 488 Views
As I said to Narg nossy - 06/10/2017 07:54:50 PM 503 Views
We will have to agree to disagree. damookster - 06/10/2017 08:21:25 PM 527 Views
I suppose so. nossy - 06/10/2017 09:09:24 PM 457 Views
good thing damookster - 06/10/2017 09:29:49 PM 483 Views
I was going for gold. nossy - 06/10/2017 09:45:13 PM 456 Views
damn *NM* damookster - 06/10/2017 09:29:49 PM 248 Views
I am 100% certain I never have Urza - 07/10/2017 09:59:41 PM 498 Views
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