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Of course your memory sucks, ma'am aerocontrols Send a noteboard - 04/10/2017 07:08:56 PM

if there's one thing I know about wimmins, it's that they can't remember anything. Actually, I think the stereotype runs the other way: Women forgive, but never forget, while men forget, but never forgive.


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But there is no way I've not done that sort of thing. We're all raised certain ways, and it's hard to remember to think for yourself all. The. Damn. Time. It's tiring.

I can remember several instances where it happened to me, because I'm a woman in a man's world - the easiest description is skilled landscaping.


It can be tiring to try to be aware of how everyone around you might react, and I'm worried about it when interacting with people, particularly people I don't know well. I'm pretty introverted, maybe primarily because casual gatherings of my peers are exhausting.

Hollywood has the best moral compass, because it has compassion.
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Microaggressions: Have you ever committed one? aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 06:42:55 PM 1004 Views
Bah! damookster - 04/10/2017 06:52:28 PM 559 Views
Confession is good for the soul aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 07:03:19 PM 516 Views
My memory sucks nossy - 04/10/2017 06:57:31 PM 597 Views
Of course your memory sucks, ma'am aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 07:08:56 PM 619 Views
nossy - 04/10/2017 07:14:29 PM 613 Views
Ok then, on second thought... aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 07:29:03 PM 454 Views
But, does that exist? nossy - 04/10/2017 07:41:47 PM 581 Views
Re: But, does that exist? aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 07:51:44 PM 481 Views
I have this a lot. Legolas - 04/10/2017 11:35:08 PM 604 Views
People are hardwired to prejudge random thoughts - 05/10/2017 04:01:34 AM 648 Views
We truly are. nossy - 05/10/2017 11:00:33 AM 593 Views
Using suck as a negative term is a microagression against those of us who like to suck. LiterateDog - 04/10/2017 08:23:17 PM 552 Views
Even people who don't like sucking usually like getting sucked. *NM* Tom - 04/10/2017 09:12:55 PM 283 Views
Calm down, Samantha! nossy - 05/10/2017 10:58:31 AM 559 Views
*NM* LiterateDog - 05/10/2017 06:55:11 PM 292 Views
Maaaaaybeeeeee.......??? LiterateDog - 04/10/2017 08:26:45 PM 561 Views
Yes. Yeah... I think yes. aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 08:47:27 PM 555 Views
You have made elevators complicated. That isn't easy. *NM* random thoughts - 05/10/2017 04:04:47 AM 290 Views
Hopefully, I commit them multiple times a day, every damn day Tom - 04/10/2017 09:11:08 PM 517 Views
So I was not wrong to treat her like she couldn't do her job. aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 09:19:12 PM 508 Views
Oh the drama and the hyperbole! Tom - 04/10/2017 11:11:36 PM 557 Views
Yeah, good luck with all that. *NM* aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 11:17:21 PM 334 Views
You can be such a little liar! nossy - 05/10/2017 10:56:54 AM 525 Views
You're talking about two completely independent notions Tom - 05/10/2017 02:05:44 PM 562 Views
Literally! nossy - 05/10/2017 03:19:47 PM 576 Views
Yes, literally! Tom - 05/10/2017 04:51:44 PM 555 Views
I've beaten the shit out of a few people in my day... Larry - 04/10/2017 10:33:28 PM 533 Views
I laughed at a co-worker's assertion that "non-white people can't be racist". Vodalus - 04/10/2017 11:23:35 PM 538 Views
Probably aerocontrols - 04/10/2017 11:27:29 PM 601 Views
"I guess I would say Im lazy. I dont want to repeat same task so I just do it right the first time." Hieshyn - 05/10/2017 12:17:09 AM 532 Views
I don't do well with that one... damookster - 05/10/2017 12:39:32 AM 621 Views
I answered that I didn't like people and got the job. *NM* random thoughts - 05/10/2017 04:08:08 AM 310 Views
I try and stick to macro aggression random thoughts - 05/10/2017 03:56:25 AM 501 Views
I'm sure I have, though nothing springs to mind. It wouldn't, though, by definition. Ghavrel - 05/10/2017 09:56:08 AM 523 Views
I'm glad you said this nossy - 05/10/2017 10:53:10 AM 558 Views
One presumes you could become aware later, as I did. *NM* aerocontrols - 05/10/2017 09:17:28 PM 252 Views
Being micro-agressed is a choice. Nargs - 06/10/2017 03:59:05 AM 600 Views
It's really not nossy - 06/10/2017 11:45:40 AM 617 Views
I think you're both right aerocontrols - 06/10/2017 02:25:48 PM 598 Views
Re: I think you're both right damookster - 06/10/2017 03:36:26 PM 536 Views
There is a difference. nossy - 06/10/2017 05:45:33 PM 544 Views
It has become an oppressive tool of the culture of victimhood damookster - 06/10/2017 07:32:36 PM 554 Views
As I said to Narg nossy - 06/10/2017 07:54:50 PM 565 Views
We will have to agree to disagree. damookster - 06/10/2017 08:21:25 PM 601 Views
I suppose so. nossy - 06/10/2017 09:09:24 PM 524 Views
good thing damookster - 06/10/2017 09:29:49 PM 551 Views
I was going for gold. nossy - 06/10/2017 09:45:13 PM 519 Views
damn *NM* damookster - 06/10/2017 09:29:49 PM 275 Views
I am 100% certain I never have Urza - 07/10/2017 09:59:41 PM 558 Views
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