but, if you remember, I'm someone who thinks that we (as a society) are doing a significant disservice to transgender individuals. So keep that factored into your mindset.
We, as a whole society, are still working out how to relate/behave around transgendered individuals. Much like how some are uncomfortable around disabled people. You can't stare....that's rude. You can't ignore....that's also rude. Do I accommodate? Yes, but only to a point, because then it can be perceived as pity or disingenuous.
So all that being said, you will note that there are many who cannot serve in the military....for a variety of reasons. This is another.
~Jeordam
Saving the Princess, Humanity, or the World-Entire since 1985