I do, however, FB. It's strange. For some reason (apart from a couple of exceptions) I haven't wanted to mix RAFO w FB. I just remember wotmania being a place where I could be myself, learn, make mistakes, and it not come back to bite me...or something.

I don't know, I just feel it would take away something special if I mixed the two. Maybe a part of me doesn't like too much change, in spite of what I said about not being 'black and white' anymore. I guess it's why I don't like your username change . I attached a certain perception to 'chorabliss'. It's the same with others. Maybe it would change my perception of people, burst the little bubble I have created, if I got to know folks on FB. Maybe I'm just scared.

Am I making any sense?

You're making sense. You place higher emphasis on a certain subset of values that lead you to your logical conclusion. I place a different emphasis which leads me to my own logical conclusion. Whatever works for you.

From my perspective, I like the FB friending of wotmaniacs because it lets me "see" them more completely. I get to interact with them on a different level. And yes, it is still about what they want me to see, but it gives me a better picture of them too. Some of my better friends in life know me because of this site and because of FB. I am happy with the decision I made to friend them on there.