Journal: Entry for StarEnight
So the guy I went out with a couple months ago and liked he never really went all the way away and I never fully blocked or deleted him. A few weeks back I was out with my BFF and he was texting me and asking me if I was on a date. I was in a frisky mood cause I'm like that around my BFF so I sent him back a text that said "If you're worried about me being out on a hot date you should ask me on one." So he did.
Last weekend he made the hour drive from his place to mine and we went to the movies. We then went back to my place and listened to music. We talked and I *think* things went well. We seem to enjoy one another's company.
So I opened myself up. I actually really like him but I get the feeling he doesn't like me. He still answers if I IM him but that's about it for communication. Tuesday I am supposed to meet him at the gym so he can help me with planks and a few other ab moves. He is very much in to working out and he offered to help me.
I also think I am going to ask him a few questions I may not like the answers to. I just dislike the not knowing. I also don't want to have that kind of a talk over the phone. I'm not trying to be clingy or psycho. I would just like to know if he'd be interested in seeing me on a more regular basis. If not then I know and I can move on.
Last weekend he made the hour drive from his place to mine and we went to the movies. We then went back to my place and listened to music. We talked and I *think* things went well. We seem to enjoy one another's company.
So I opened myself up. I actually really like him but I get the feeling he doesn't like me. He still answers if I IM him but that's about it for communication. Tuesday I am supposed to meet him at the gym so he can help me with planks and a few other ab moves. He is very much in to working out and he offered to help me.
I also think I am going to ask him a few questions I may not like the answers to. I just dislike the not knowing. I also don't want to have that kind of a talk over the phone. I'm not trying to be clingy or psycho. I would just like to know if he'd be interested in seeing me on a more regular basis. If not then I know and I can move on.
Don't rush it, hun!
Nothing wrong with asking if he wants to see you more regularly. But no more than that! Guys are really not into having to make a clear announcement at these early stages. I can relate to disliking uncertainty and being in need of answers about where things are going, but sometimes insisting on these ruins more than it accomplishes. Good luck 
Don't rush it, hun!
Nothing wrong with asking if he wants to see you more regularly. But no more than that! Guys are really not into having to make a clear announcement at these early stages. I can relate to disliking uncertainty and being in need of answers about where things are going, but sometimes insisting on these ruins more than it accomplishes. Good luck
Thanks
Okay so on one hand I've actually been out with him only twice but on the other we've been talking for about three months. I will try not to rush and not to push. I appreciate the advise ~hugs~
Go with your gut feeling.
If you suspect he doesn't like you, then he doesn't. At least not that way. Look at it this way - when a guy likes you and everything is going well, you wouldn't have any doubts.