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Re: Kindly blow it out your ass until the other side returns the favor. Aisha Send a noteboard - 25/03/2010 11:11:05 PM
and work for a OBGYN, then you better not judge women that choose to have abortions. I met a nurse today that admitted she likes to be rude to women that have abortions at her doctors office. Thats like working for a plastic surgeon and not liking women that get breasts implants. As a nursing student I feel nurses should be above that, or if you dont agree, condemn it in your heart but treat them kindly like all patients deserve to be treated after undergoing a surgery.


It is perfectly legal to teach that condoms are not as effective as absintence in preventing the spread of disease, and has the advantage of being demonstrably true, but people are allowed to disrupt religious gatherings to throw condoms at people. It is absolutely legal to wear fur and eat meat, but people are allowed to be rude and harass people who do as such (though I note that few such activists have the cojones to bother a Hell's Angel clad head to toe in cow skin). It is perfectly legal to cut down trees, but people physically interfere with, and sabotage such activity, which costs far more money than the rudest OB/GYN nurse ever cost her patients.

If her employer does not have a problem with her attitude, or thinks that her abilities as a nurse compensate for her quirks regarding a potential infanticide, that is his business. Go to a different doctor if you don't like the service.


first of all a patient didnt complain to me about the rudeness. the nurse who is an acquaintance told me herself that she treats women that have abortions rudely, and its nothing over the top like not giving them their pain meds when they ask, but just general rudeness that a patient might just think of a the nurse as always being a bitch and thats how she treats everyone. the truth is she is a relatively nice and happy person and a good nurse in my opinion as far as knowing her clinical stuff, but not a good nurse if she treats women who had an abortion with disdain. Besides its not like these women have abortions every month and should go to another doctor with nice nurses the next time they want to have one. This nurse works in Greenwich, CT which is a pretty nice town and the clients are more wealthy and most of the women that had abortions at her OBGYN had genetic tests done to see if there was anything wrong with the baby (down syndrome, etc...)

Nurses and doctors are not there to judge people they are there to help and cure sick people.
Aisha - formerly known as randschicka
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If you choose to be a healthcare professional... - 25/03/2010 02:20:53 AM 885 Views
additionally (pet peeve of my OB/GYN nurses) - 25/03/2010 02:30:47 AM 666 Views
Re: additionally (pet peeve of my OB/GYN nurses) - 25/03/2010 02:54:40 AM 504 Views
Don't take this the wrong way, but the world would be a better place if stupid people reproduce less - 25/03/2010 03:46:12 AM 460 Views
That's fine, but they don't need to baby talk. - 25/03/2010 12:00:46 PM 437 Views
Re: That's fine, but they don't need to baby talk. - 25/03/2010 09:52:06 PM 405 Views
Kindly blow it out your ass until the other side returns the favor. - 25/03/2010 05:07:35 AM 598 Views
Bull. - 25/03/2010 06:17:17 AM 573 Views
Then she gets fired. If it is fine with the employer, then that's it. *NM* - 25/03/2010 09:50:16 PM 191 Views
With that I'm inclined to agree, on all counts. - 29/03/2010 12:50:40 PM 532 Views
Wow. Just wow. - 25/03/2010 07:50:44 AM 576 Views
Er... who's talking about legality? - 25/03/2010 07:58:37 AM 423 Views
To the contrary, - 25/03/2010 01:38:34 PM 462 Views
Re: To the contrary, - 25/03/2010 05:09:51 PM 430 Views
Re: To the contrary, - 25/03/2010 05:35:29 PM 434 Views
Re: To the contrary, - 25/03/2010 11:02:30 PM 444 Views
Re: To the contrary, - 25/03/2010 09:48:25 PM 440 Views
Re: Kindly blow it out your ass until the other side returns the favor. - 25/03/2010 11:11:05 PM 585 Views
- 25/03/2010 09:47:32 AM 431 Views
Now that is a healthcare unprofessional. - 25/03/2010 07:25:41 PM 424 Views
Heh... You said it. - 25/03/2010 11:41:54 PM 475 Views
indeed i shall be that - 26/03/2010 02:03:35 AM 416 Views
As long as the required service is being provided... - 26/03/2010 10:20:22 AM 448 Views
Gah... That's trash talk even Shaq would not condone - 26/03/2010 11:51:48 AM 427 Views
What I'm suggesting is this: - 26/03/2010 01:12:56 PM 408 Views
Not really - 26/03/2010 01:34:10 PM 428 Views
I agree - 26/03/2010 01:41:31 PM 457 Views
That's just stupid. - 26/03/2010 02:33:02 PM 423 Views
Do you understand what "service" is? - 26/03/2010 03:04:24 PM 453 Views
Not really. She's going there for the abortion, not the attitude. - 26/03/2010 03:13:06 PM 373 Views
So no you don't then? - 26/03/2010 03:21:13 PM 430 Views
Since when was nursing part of the service industry? - 26/03/2010 04:06:31 PM 500 Views
Since they started providing a service? - 26/03/2010 04:44:18 PM 588 Views
It says it right here: - 26/03/2010 07:41:23 PM 709 Views
Snoop, - 26/03/2010 08:29:04 PM 409 Views
...you do understand the concept of a "service" right? - 26/03/2010 07:11:10 PM 428 Views
By that definition... - 26/03/2010 07:44:04 PM 405 Views
okay then, if they are not offering a service - 26/03/2010 08:13:54 PM 401 Views
Thank you for mocking the fact that my first language is not english. - 26/03/2010 09:46:03 PM 433 Views
nothing in the health care industry is "free", not anywhere - 26/03/2010 11:44:49 PM 452 Views
It may be well known, but it works. How about this one, porca inglese? - 27/03/2010 02:40:04 AM 420 Views
something YOU seem to be too stupid to understand - 27/03/2010 03:06:53 AM 400 Views
Right. - 27/03/2010 04:56:29 AM 510 Views
Um. - 27/03/2010 10:24:31 AM 479 Views
So, you really don't think employers should/could fire people for being rude? - 26/03/2010 05:56:05 PM 430 Views
And somehow it never happens. - 26/03/2010 07:45:48 PM 410 Views
how do you define service? - 26/03/2010 12:33:37 PM 375 Views
And yet there is no body to enforce this new view amung doctors. - 26/03/2010 01:14:11 PM 437 Views
so because there's no enforcement... - 26/03/2010 02:44:58 PM 391 Views
Well, no. - 26/03/2010 03:11:47 PM 406 Views
we aren't saying that the nurse is breaking laws or anything. - 26/03/2010 03:37:56 PM 364 Views
And yet... - 26/03/2010 04:08:05 PM 392 Views
so you're fine with a doctor treating you like crap? - 26/03/2010 07:07:33 PM 390 Views
Re: so you're fine with a doctor treating you like crap? - 26/03/2010 07:49:15 PM 374 Views
Re: so you're fine with a doctor treating you like crap? - 26/03/2010 08:20:56 PM 392 Views
Learn to read your own language. - 26/03/2010 09:47:54 PM 417 Views
You're being as rude as a doctor - 27/03/2010 12:48:52 AM 403 Views
When she mocks my english repeadatly, it's what she gets. - 27/03/2010 02:43:49 AM 549 Views
your english is not mocked more than a native speakers would be - 27/03/2010 03:08:16 AM 381 Views
Re: your english is not mocked more than a native speakers would be - 27/03/2010 04:54:04 AM 375 Views

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