It's all very strange. Like treading on glass. Trying to keep the moral high ground, not be mean or hurtful (even though part of me wants to be) and to keep lines of communication open.
Uggh. I'm no good at dancing on eggshells. I'm much better at smashing through shield walls. Light footwork is not my forte.
The silver lining - if you can learn to to it, it is incredibly useful in all walks of life. (no pun intended) If you can learn to hide how insane it makes you to do it, that is also very useful.
You can be pretty tactful already. It may not come natural but that doesn't mean that you can't be good at it. I am just glad that she has someone that recognizes... well what you said in the next to last paragraph. And that sometimes the hardest way is the best way in the long run.
I have been in your place but I have felt like her too. At least the trapped part. So I am glad she has you and that whatever you have been through in life to make you the way you are has happened, even if it sucked. Because it prepared you to have the patience you need to succeed here. Am I making sense? It is late and the words are starting to swirl around on the page and I can't tell if I am saying what I am trying to. I may have to edit tomorrow when I have some more time and sleep.
Good night.
Love,
Tash
And then, yesterday - the world came apart
13/03/2010 02:09:42 PM
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Oh my goodness.
13/03/2010 04:40:30 PM
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Thanks Jen
16/03/2010 12:58:22 AM
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There is a little hope here...
14/03/2010 12:24:19 AM
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Some, yes.
14/03/2010 06:43:49 AM
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That is a tough little girl there.
14/03/2010 05:43:51 PM
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Oh yes indeed.
16/03/2010 01:05:22 AM
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Yeah, eggshells and glass suck.
16/03/2010 02:34:10 AM
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How in touch were you?
14/03/2010 08:14:57 AM
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I just read Helene's, Tom's and Damookster's replies.
15/03/2010 01:53:17 AM
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It's why one of the first things I did was post here when I was together enough to do so.
15/03/2010 06:18:54 AM
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Jesus.
15/03/2010 01:44:18 PM
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It's looking up a bit
15/03/2010 03:50:25 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
15/03/2010 05:12:02 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
15/03/2010 05:13:03 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
15/03/2010 05:13:30 PM
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Hmm. Those were supposed to be edits. Admin? Clean up in aisle SW!
15/03/2010 05:18:13 PM
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Lose that zero and take her to court for abducting your child *NM*
15/03/2010 05:14:26 PM
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Sounds like things have calmed down a bit now, but that was a shitty thing to do, that's for sure.
16/03/2010 01:09:00 AM
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