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Yeah, eggshells and glass suck. Tashmere Send a noteboard - 16/03/2010 02:34:10 AM

It's all very strange. Like treading on glass. Trying to keep the moral high ground, not be mean or hurtful (even though part of me wants to be) and to keep lines of communication open.

Uggh. I'm no good at dancing on eggshells. I'm much better at smashing through shield walls. Light footwork is not my forte.


The silver lining - if you can learn to to it, it is incredibly useful in all walks of life. (no pun intended) If you can learn to hide how insane it makes you to do it, that is also very useful.

You can be pretty tactful already. It may not come natural but that doesn't mean that you can't be good at it. I am just glad that she has someone that recognizes... well what you said in the next to last paragraph. And that sometimes the hardest way is the best way in the long run.

I have been in your place but I have felt like her too. At least the trapped part. So I am glad she has you and that whatever you have been through in life to make you the way you are has happened, even if it sucked. Because it prepared you to have the patience you need to succeed here. Am I making sense? It is late and the words are starting to swirl around on the page and I can't tell if I am saying what I am trying to. I may have to edit tomorrow when I have some more time and sleep.

Good night.

Love,
Tash
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how scary. StarrBecca - 13/03/2010 05:27:09 PM 614 Views
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Oh, I'm so sorry. Rebekah - 13/03/2010 07:41:48 PM 546 Views
Holy shit, man. cabbage - 13/03/2010 08:31:49 PM 501 Views
I know exactly what you are going through. MightyYT - 13/03/2010 11:19:47 PM 493 Views
There is a little hope here... Tashmere - 14/03/2010 12:24:19 AM 519 Views
In Case I haven't said it enough, I <3 you, Tashmere!! *NM* StarrBecca - 14/03/2010 06:33:31 AM 215 Views
Some, yes. SilverWarder - 14/03/2010 06:43:49 AM 524 Views
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Yeah, eggshells and glass suck. Tashmere - 16/03/2010 02:34:10 AM 484 Views
I am so sorry *NM* Roland00 - 14/03/2010 03:49:38 AM 212 Views
How in touch were you? Helene - 14/03/2010 08:14:57 AM 524 Views
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Thanks, Tom SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:15:50 AM 470 Views
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I just read Helene's, Tom's and Damookster's replies. Tashmere - 15/03/2010 01:53:17 AM 515 Views
It's why one of the first things I did was post here when I was together enough to do so. SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:18:54 AM 501 Views
*HUGS* *NM* globug0822 - 15/03/2010 04:34:33 AM 231 Views
I know what you are going through *hugs* Beqi - 15/03/2010 06:36:30 AM 477 Views
Really sorry, man, hopes and prayers things work out for you. Joel - 15/03/2010 09:05:11 AM 471 Views
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Hmm. Those were supposed to be edits. Admin? Clean up in aisle SW! SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:18:13 PM 541 Views
Lose that zero and take her to court for abducting your child *NM* BlackAdder - 15/03/2010 05:14:26 PM 211 Views
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oh wow, Mike, I'm sorry. That's aweful LaSombra - 18/03/2010 10:33:06 PM 462 Views
Thanks LS - we're working on it. SilverWarder - 23/03/2010 04:37:27 AM 453 Views
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