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Yeah, eggshells and glass suck. Tashmere Send a noteboard - 16/03/2010 02:34:10 AM

It's all very strange. Like treading on glass. Trying to keep the moral high ground, not be mean or hurtful (even though part of me wants to be) and to keep lines of communication open.

Uggh. I'm no good at dancing on eggshells. I'm much better at smashing through shield walls. Light footwork is not my forte.


The silver lining - if you can learn to to it, it is incredibly useful in all walks of life. (no pun intended) If you can learn to hide how insane it makes you to do it, that is also very useful.

You can be pretty tactful already. It may not come natural but that doesn't mean that you can't be good at it. I am just glad that she has someone that recognizes... well what you said in the next to last paragraph. And that sometimes the hardest way is the best way in the long run.

I have been in your place but I have felt like her too. At least the trapped part. So I am glad she has you and that whatever you have been through in life to make you the way you are has happened, even if it sucked. Because it prepared you to have the patience you need to succeed here. Am I making sense? It is late and the words are starting to swirl around on the page and I can't tell if I am saying what I am trying to. I may have to edit tomorrow when I have some more time and sleep.

Good night.

Love,
Tash
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how scary. StarrBecca - 13/03/2010 05:27:09 PM 894 Views
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I wouldn't call that nothing. That could make it better. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 02:59:49 AM 801 Views
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How utterly selfish and childish of her ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 07:06:34 PM 868 Views
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Oh, I'm so sorry. Rebekah - 13/03/2010 07:41:48 PM 824 Views
Holy shit, man. cabbage - 13/03/2010 08:31:49 PM 763 Views
I know exactly what you are going through. MightyYT - 13/03/2010 11:19:47 PM 758 Views
There is a little hope here... Tashmere - 14/03/2010 12:24:19 AM 781 Views
In Case I haven't said it enough, I <3 you, Tashmere!! *NM* StarrBecca - 14/03/2010 06:33:31 AM 330 Views
Some, yes. SilverWarder - 14/03/2010 06:43:49 AM 837 Views
at least she's only worried about the important things in life LadyLorraine - 14/03/2010 06:53:43 AM 754 Views
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That is a tough little girl there. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 05:43:51 PM 904 Views
Oh yes indeed. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:05:22 AM 808 Views
Yeah, eggshells and glass suck. Tashmere - 16/03/2010 02:34:10 AM 756 Views
I am so sorry *NM* Roland00 - 14/03/2010 03:49:38 AM 330 Views
How in touch were you? Helene - 14/03/2010 08:14:57 AM 795 Views
Not as much as we could be SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:11:28 AM 868 Views
That's a tough hurdle Helene - 15/03/2010 08:06:07 PM 815 Views
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Dear God that's awful - I don't know how I missed this earlier. Tom - 14/03/2010 01:40:24 PM 825 Views
Thanks, Tom SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:15:50 AM 739 Views
from what I have seen in 57 years of life.... damookster - 14/03/2010 02:02:24 PM 790 Views
I pretty much agree SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:16:48 AM 889 Views
I just read Helene's, Tom's and Damookster's replies. Tashmere - 15/03/2010 01:53:17 AM 806 Views
It's why one of the first things I did was post here when I was together enough to do so. SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:18:54 AM 777 Views
*HUGS* *NM* globug0822 - 15/03/2010 04:34:33 AM 352 Views
I know what you are going through *hugs* Beqi - 15/03/2010 06:36:30 AM 757 Views
Really sorry, man, hopes and prayers things work out for you. Joel - 15/03/2010 09:05:11 AM 744 Views
aw man, sorry to hear that! *NM* ironclad - 15/03/2010 10:29:16 AM 333 Views
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Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:13:03 PM 734 Views
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Hmm. Those were supposed to be edits. Admin? Clean up in aisle SW! SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:18:13 PM 814 Views
Lose that zero and take her to court for abducting your child *NM* BlackAdder - 15/03/2010 05:14:26 PM 352 Views
Sounds like things have calmed down a bit now, but that was a shitty thing to do, that's for sure. Legolas - 16/03/2010 01:09:00 AM 775 Views
oh wow, Mike, I'm sorry. That's aweful LaSombra - 18/03/2010 10:33:06 PM 738 Views
Thanks LS - we're working on it. SilverWarder - 23/03/2010 04:37:27 AM 722 Views
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