people simply do not walk away from a relationship, especially one involving a child, without some sort of motivating agenda. Basically, the "I feel trapped, I need space, we aren't getting along, I'm not happy" blah, blah, blah, are surface-level excuses. What is the real reason? Tash suggested depression. Your implication that the house was already a wreck tends to lend credence to that. People going through a major depressive episode tend to have difficulty motivating themselves to do anything. If that's it, it is treatable but it will require a lot of patience and understanding on your part. Of course, there could be many other agendas that would not necessarily portend a favorable outcome, but hopefully that's not it.
My thoughts are with all three of you.
My thoughts are with all three of you.
Mook
*MySmiley*
"Bustin' makes me feel good!"
Ghostbusters, by Ray Parker Jr.
*MySmiley*
"Bustin' makes me feel good!"
Ghostbusters, by Ray Parker Jr.
And then, yesterday - the world came apart
13/03/2010 02:09:42 PM
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Oh my goodness.
13/03/2010 04:40:30 PM
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Thanks Jen
16/03/2010 12:58:22 AM
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There is a little hope here...
14/03/2010 12:24:19 AM
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Some, yes.
14/03/2010 06:43:49 AM
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That is a tough little girl there.
14/03/2010 05:43:51 PM
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How in touch were you?
14/03/2010 08:14:57 AM
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from what I have seen in 57 years of life....
14/03/2010 02:02:24 PM
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I just read Helene's, Tom's and Damookster's replies.
15/03/2010 01:53:17 AM
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It's why one of the first things I did was post here when I was together enough to do so.
15/03/2010 06:18:54 AM
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Jesus.
15/03/2010 01:44:18 PM
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It's looking up a bit
15/03/2010 03:50:25 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
15/03/2010 05:12:02 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
15/03/2010 05:13:03 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
15/03/2010 05:13:30 PM
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Hmm. Those were supposed to be edits. Admin? Clean up in aisle SW!
15/03/2010 05:18:13 PM
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Lose that zero and take her to court for abducting your child *NM*
15/03/2010 05:14:26 PM
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Sounds like things have calmed down a bit now, but that was a shitty thing to do, that's for sure.
16/03/2010 01:09:00 AM
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