I'm sorry, Mike. I wish I had something to say that would make it even a bit better, but truly.. I have nothing.
First thoughts.. it sounds like something she was planning to do, not a spur-of-the-moment thing. See if she'll come over and talk to you, or at a neutral location, or over the phone as a last option. In my opinion, she owes you an explanation at the very least. If you can do your best to just listen, rather than try and have a discussion while she's talking, it might give you some insight at least. If she was thinking about it beforehand, she probably has a rational (maybe not to you but at least to her) reason for leaving.
Good luck.. i'll be hoping (and praying) for the three of you.
First thoughts.. it sounds like something she was planning to do, not a spur-of-the-moment thing. See if she'll come over and talk to you, or at a neutral location, or over the phone as a last option. In my opinion, she owes you an explanation at the very least. If you can do your best to just listen, rather than try and have a discussion while she's talking, it might give you some insight at least. If she was thinking about it beforehand, she probably has a rational (maybe not to you but at least to her) reason for leaving.
Good luck.. i'll be hoping (and praying) for the three of you.
Kel (formerly Tristan de Luna)
Si hoc legere scis nimium eruditionis habes.
Politics: A strife of interests masquerading as a contest of principles. -- Ambrose Bierce
Time is a confidence game invented by the Swiss.
Si hoc legere scis nimium eruditionis habes.
Politics: A strife of interests masquerading as a contest of principles. -- Ambrose Bierce
Time is a confidence game invented by the Swiss.
This message last edited by Kel on 13/03/2010 at 06:22:59 PM
And then, yesterday - the world came apart
13/03/2010 02:09:42 PM
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Oh my goodness.
13/03/2010 04:40:30 PM
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Thanks Jen
16/03/2010 12:58:22 AM
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wow..
13/03/2010 06:21:56 PM
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There is a little hope here...
14/03/2010 12:24:19 AM
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Some, yes.
14/03/2010 06:43:49 AM
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That is a tough little girl there.
14/03/2010 05:43:51 PM
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How in touch were you?
14/03/2010 08:14:57 AM
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I just read Helene's, Tom's and Damookster's replies.
15/03/2010 01:53:17 AM
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It's why one of the first things I did was post here when I was together enough to do so.
15/03/2010 06:18:54 AM
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Jesus.
15/03/2010 01:44:18 PM
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It's looking up a bit
15/03/2010 03:50:25 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
15/03/2010 05:12:02 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
15/03/2010 05:13:03 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
15/03/2010 05:13:30 PM
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Hmm. Those were supposed to be edits. Admin? Clean up in aisle SW!
15/03/2010 05:18:13 PM
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Lose that zero and take her to court for abducting your child *NM*
15/03/2010 05:14:26 PM
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Sounds like things have calmed down a bit now, but that was a shitty thing to do, that's for sure.
16/03/2010 01:09:00 AM
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