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The operative word IS mostly LadyLorraine Send a noteboard - 03/03/2010 04:33:20 AM
While I certainly agree with you that homeschooling does not mean a child is not well socialized, it is possible for a home school kid to have socialization deficits if the parents does not create the opportunity to socialize. Just pointing that out to be a pain, though, I really do agree with you for the most part

A little girl I used to babysit was homeschooled for a while in an interesting set up. She's OCD, Bipolar and Tourettes, so needless to say, public or even private school was a big struggle for her when she was really young. So for a while she was home schooled. But she went to kind of a "home school" school. She did most her work and learning at home, but once or twice a week, she'd go to "school" and have to show she'd been working, spend some time with her classmates, and stuff like that. I thought that was a very nice compromise.

Of course, I've always thought most of her "problems" were learned behavior. Not to say she did not have serious problems (because anyone who's seen this girl go into a panic attack cannot deny that she has some mental problems), but a lot of the interpersonal issues she has are because her mom is an idiot and doesn't understand the meaning of "discipline" or "parenting", and tended to let her daughter just run ragged all over her.
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ahh mk *NM* - 03/03/2010 03:09:39 PM 378 Views
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Re: Yep, exactly. - 03/03/2010 03:12:48 AM 431 Views
Re: Yep, exactly. - 03/03/2010 03:34:33 AM 677 Views
Re: Yep, exactly. - 03/03/2010 04:34:30 AM 670 Views
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The operative word IS mostly - 03/03/2010 04:33:20 AM 629 Views
'Mostly' is all that matters - 03/03/2010 05:46:01 AM 659 Views
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I'm a homeschooling parent. - 03/03/2010 07:09:03 PM 603 Views
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please do not get me started on statistis. - 03/03/2010 07:11:19 AM 528 Views
Re: please do not get me started on statistis. - 03/03/2010 07:28:41 AM 575 Views
you missed my point. - 03/03/2010 01:10:26 PM 594 Views
You seem to be ignoring the matter of qualified teachers. - 03/03/2010 01:29:01 PM 557 Views
Your comments on public school educations have rather limited relevance to other countries, though. - 03/03/2010 09:53:30 AM 659 Views
+ ^ *NM* - 03/03/2010 01:11:04 PM 346 Views
While I support homeschooling, this is ridiculous. - 03/03/2010 04:48:40 AM 716 Views
Meh. - 03/03/2010 05:20:50 AM 641 Views
one year in a public school - 03/03/2010 05:32:13 AM 660 Views
Re: one year in a public school - 03/03/2010 05:58:48 AM 459 Views
No, I think i will nitpick. - 03/03/2010 06:11:44 AM 576 Views
This is getting off track and wasting time. - 03/03/2010 06:26:36 AM 625 Views
I'm not even certain it's 100% legal. - 03/03/2010 06:34:44 AM 413 Views
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I only used Mexicans because I'm from Arizona - 03/03/2010 07:04:29 AM 627 Views
I think I have the gist of it, - 03/03/2010 07:17:40 AM 553 Views
we haven't heard anything about their beliefs for me to think they're stupid. - 03/03/2010 02:54:25 PM 634 Views
According to the Süddeutsche Zeitung... - 03/03/2010 03:38:13 PM 561 Views
they don't have private christian schools in germany? - 03/03/2010 03:54:07 PM 510 Views
Not many, I dare say, but a few probably. *NM* - 03/03/2010 03:59:11 PM 367 Views
Say what? - 03/03/2010 09:38:40 AM 506 Views
Being able raise your kids by your beliefs is a frivolous matter? - 03/03/2010 03:21:23 PM 432 Views
Germany is not saying "you can't raise your kids by your beliefs" - 03/03/2010 03:31:01 PM 556 Views
It's not a recent law, and supposedly other German families have moved to France and the UK. - 03/03/2010 03:45:56 PM 656 Views
figured that. - 03/03/2010 03:58:57 PM 564 Views
I think that would fly in very face of political assylum - 03/03/2010 04:12:48 PM 589 Views
Yes, but they did not need political asylum. - 03/03/2010 04:28:16 PM 624 Views
how is that different then other political refuges we allow in? - 03/03/2010 04:55:14 PM 518 Views
I believe Legolas linked an article - 03/03/2010 04:57:09 PM 499 Views
I never saw the link - 03/03/2010 05:08:21 PM 414 Views
I'm not sure if they offered "formal" assurances or some such - 03/03/2010 05:21:54 PM 337 Views
Compared to not being able to feed your kids, yes, it is. - 03/03/2010 03:42:58 PM 436 Views
yes but we don't grant political assylum for being hungry - 03/03/2010 04:34:23 PM 519 Views
no we don't. - 03/03/2010 04:50:31 PM 395 Views
Do you have a better system? - 03/03/2010 05:05:42 PM 683 Views
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The system sucks, big government typically does not function well - 03/03/2010 05:48:25 PM 417 Views
we probably would all be better off... - 03/03/2010 07:27:28 PM 532 Views
good because Texas is taken - 03/03/2010 07:47:46 PM 545 Views
No, true, that was about the illegal immigrants. - 03/03/2010 09:53:18 PM 638 Views
Absolutely. - 03/03/2010 09:32:41 AM 616 Views
Doesn't matter why, but all parents should have the right to homeschool..... - 03/03/2010 04:48:57 AM 452 Views
there are far worse faults for a country to have *NM* - 03/03/2010 05:14:11 AM 346 Views
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Re: socialising. - 03/03/2010 06:13:49 PM 663 Views
And then there are secular people like myself, who - 03/03/2010 06:44:13 PM 603 Views
I think I'd do that too, if I had the patience. - 03/03/2010 06:45:20 PM 467 Views
*agree* - 03/03/2010 07:41:56 PM 652 Views
That is the catagory I'm in. - 03/03/2010 07:46:12 PM 509 Views
Re: probably more likely - 04/03/2010 12:19:37 AM 662 Views
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but...but...parents can't educate their children outside of school!! - 03/03/2010 05:40:30 PM 576 Views
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The statistics are flawed, as I've noted above - 03/03/2010 07:07:11 PM 493 Views
Your views on this are not fact-driven - 03/03/2010 09:13:07 PM 655 Views
No, what you're saying is that my answer isn't driven by STATISTICS. - 03/03/2010 10:36:50 PM 584 Views
Granted, but there is no obvious source for bias - 03/03/2010 10:57:19 PM 508 Views
Again, I'm not saying it applies to everyone - 03/03/2010 11:51:17 PM 416 Views
Re: Again, I'm not saying it applies to everyone - 04/03/2010 12:16:29 AM 637 Views
You mean aside from the fact that you are already arguing about it? - 04/03/2010 12:14:02 AM 418 Views
Yes, I mentioned this in my reply to Tom, see below... - 04/03/2010 12:19:42 AM 557 Views
Fair enough - 04/03/2010 12:21:41 AM 483 Views
Re: Fair enough - 04/03/2010 12:37:06 AM 881 Views
Re: Fair enough - 04/03/2010 09:39:38 AM 595 Views
Umm Massachusetts did have slavery in 1717 - 03/03/2010 02:55:25 PM 509 Views
Wow....so this got the board going. A question for everyone... - 03/03/2010 06:02:57 PM 701 Views
I think it is incumbent on the state to show that kids are being in some way harmed - 03/03/2010 06:07:13 PM 610 Views
Interesting - 03/03/2010 06:25:43 PM 719 Views
I never said there should be no limits on what parents should be able to do - 03/03/2010 06:38:53 PM 666 Views
What you said was: - 03/03/2010 06:51:26 PM 657 Views
I think it's safe to say teaching your kids to be little sociopaths qualifies as harm. - 03/03/2010 09:17:48 PM 439 Views
I think so too - 03/03/2010 10:46:41 PM 666 Views
Yes they do. Provided... - 03/03/2010 07:04:46 PM 544 Views
One of the reasons... - 03/03/2010 07:40:54 PM 618 Views
that is fair enough - 03/03/2010 07:51:31 PM 516 Views
Hmmph. Inappropriate action on the part of the judge who allowed them to stay. - 03/03/2010 06:22:08 PM 558 Views
I agree completely with this. *NM* - 03/03/2010 06:42:01 PM 370 Views
agree. *NM* - 03/03/2010 06:49:01 PM 237 Views
You just skip the part where they have to show they are being persecuted - 03/03/2010 06:54:20 PM 671 Views
"Persecution" can be a matter of opinion, though. - 03/03/2010 07:04:46 PM 645 Views
officers will track down kids ditching school here. - 03/03/2010 07:17:57 PM 712 Views
I'm not sure what they do in Canada - 03/03/2010 10:49:00 PM 560 Views
Agrees - 03/03/2010 06:54:59 PM 534 Views
New Cosmic Powers of the admins - 03/03/2010 06:52:57 PM 444 Views
It is the Power of the Ben™ *NM* - 03/03/2010 08:48:11 PM 364 Views
*walks in, looks around* - 03/03/2010 07:52:09 PM 646 Views
Re: *walks in, looks around* - 03/03/2010 09:25:46 PM 412 Views
What, no defending Germany today? *NM* - 03/03/2010 10:03:01 PM 369 Views
Even I need a day off *NM* - 04/03/2010 01:02:17 AM 356 Views
Re: *walks in, looks around* - 03/03/2010 10:33:24 PM 459 Views
Interesting - 03/03/2010 11:02:27 PM 634 Views
Am I recalling correctly that you know some German? - 03/03/2010 11:07:00 PM 576 Views
Sorry, nope. - 04/03/2010 09:14:49 PM 421 Views
Oh. Ah well. - 04/03/2010 09:23:11 PM 566 Views
One thing all of us homeschooled kids are missing is... - 04/03/2010 01:53:22 AM 512 Views

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