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Just tell her what you said in the first paragraph there.... Brian Send a noteboard - 26/01/2010 04:57:55 PM
And stress to her that just because you aren't ready to say something like that, that it doesn't mean that you don't care for her. Stress to her that you like her a lot, and that your guys' relationship is still very important to you, but that you just need time before you're going to feel like saying it is right.

If all else fails....just blame your ex-wife. I'm sure you can come up with a good tale that explains how she has ruined your "I love you" saying ability for a while.
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Why do people say it? MightyYT - 26/01/2010 08:43:26 AM 868 Views
I totally see what you mean and agree on all accounts ironclad - 26/01/2010 08:53:16 AM 540 Views
I knew I loved Tim quite early on. Rebekah - 26/01/2010 02:04:01 PM 438 Views
I dunno ironclad - 26/01/2010 02:19:49 PM 427 Views
Re: I dunno Amys - 27/01/2010 01:02:16 AM 438 Views
Just stand your ground ßelals Girl - 26/01/2010 09:24:25 AM 459 Views
That is my plan so far. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:01:03 PM 410 Views
Dunno. nossy - 26/01/2010 11:44:56 AM 424 Views
My exact words to her were.. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:06:31 PM 398 Views
I would go with my usual line Hobgoblin - 26/01/2010 12:47:59 PM 469 Views
I know people can fall fast... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:08:33 PM 365 Views
Eesh. Elaine - 26/01/2010 01:26:06 PM 433 Views
The problem isn't them wanting you to say it is them wanting you to prove it random thoughts - 26/01/2010 01:54:16 PM 417 Views
That type of emotional blackmail does not work on me. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:10:37 PM 410 Views
isn't pretty much what she is doing now? random thoughts - 26/01/2010 05:55:41 PM 393 Views
If I were you... Lici - 26/01/2010 02:05:04 PM 489 Views
agreed, although anything "if you X, you would X" should be avoided LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 03:16:11 PM 404 Views
Lici - 26/01/2010 03:28:59 PM 565 Views
I agree but we happen to know the day LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 03:52:20 PM 398 Views
I wish I knew the day...would make things easier. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:35:55 PM 405 Views
oh shut up LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 10:55:22 PM 438 Views
Lici - 26/01/2010 11:29:23 PM 433 Views
I don't find it that odd that it was the boyfriend's idea random thoughts - 26/01/2010 04:05:21 PM 435 Views
mine doesn't LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 04:25:26 PM 434 Views
Not in this case. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:32:00 PM 451 Views
teenagers are just wierd random thoughts - 26/01/2010 11:48:14 PM 433 Views
She's not a teenager. Lici - 26/01/2010 11:51:06 PM 411 Views
That is why God invented dark random thoughts - 27/01/2010 01:02:44 AM 407 Views
Hmm. Lici - 27/01/2010 01:06:04 AM 401 Views
it was close random thoughts - 27/01/2010 01:35:54 AM 385 Views
I knew a couple that did that Brian - 26/01/2010 04:50:41 PM 385 Views
Wow. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:33:21 PM 395 Views
Women are mysterious creatures. Tigr - 26/01/2010 02:18:10 PM 421 Views
They way all wise men handle advice about women. *NM* MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:13:36 PM 174 Views
It sucks, but there's nothing else you can do. Sareitha Sedai - 26/01/2010 03:02:42 PM 581 Views
This isn't somehting I can compromise on... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:18:45 PM 389 Views
Just tell her what you said in the first paragraph there.... Brian - 26/01/2010 04:57:55 PM 394 Views
It's a good tale of not just that...but of... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:21:29 PM 404 Views
We don't by any chance have the same ex-wife do we?? Brian - 26/01/2010 05:49:59 PM 500 Views
Not unless you got married and divorced in the last 3.5 years. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 06:32:34 PM 559 Views
I have a question. Tashmere - 27/01/2010 01:49:18 AM 375 Views
She is 26. MightyYT - 27/01/2010 08:22:41 AM 431 Views
Ah. So she wasn't pressuring you. She was just being open about how she was feeling and why she Tashmere - 27/01/2010 12:30:01 PM 473 Views
Hmmm...that may be MightyYT - 27/01/2010 06:05:14 PM 386 Views
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