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Don't hate her too much, okay? ironclad Send a noteboard - 24/11/2009 08:26:53 PM
Alternative title: Grrrrrrrr.

So there's a girl at work I like. Which yes, unprofessional blah blah blah, I'm trying really hard to not to let myself get out of hand. But it's bloody hard to do that when she's flirting quite so much.

Ok, I admit that it could be just me. I've had a tendency in the past to apply reciprocating feelings to my crushes. But I don't think so. She gives a decent amount of lingering looks, both when I'm looking and when I'm not. She acts out to get my attention. She banters. Today she made a joke about us being married, for Christ's sake. You don't say that to just anyone, do you?

I'm not really looking for advice on what to do, cause as her manager I can't really do anything. But I would like to know this: am I crazily making it up or is she legit into me?

Blooming 'eck, I hate work crushes.


Sometimes people flirt for the darnest reasons. For attention, affirmation, just to see if they are still desirable, or simply out of boredom. That doesn't mean they'd pick just anyone to flirt with, and maybe they'd even go for it, given the right person and situation, despite of a gf/bf back home...the thing is, they are not the ones to take a first step.
But yeah, annoying situation, I imagine.
*MySmiley*

You mustn't be afraid to dream a little bigger, darling.
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