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I have a wife. Does that put me on the "no flirting"list? Yoduff Send a noteboard - 24/11/2009 07:12:45 PM
Alternative title: Grrrrrrrr.

So there's a girl at work I like. Which yes, unprofessional blah blah blah, I'm trying really hard to not to let myself get out of hand. But it's bloody hard to do that when she's flirting quite so much.

Ok, I admit that it could be just me. I've had a tendency in the past to apply reciprocating feelings to my crushes. But I don't think so. She gives a decent amount of lingering looks, both when I'm looking and when I'm not. She acts out to get my attention. She banters. Today she made a joke about us being married, for Christ's sake. You don't say that to just anyone, do you?

I'm not really looking for advice on what to do, cause as her manager I can't really do anything. But I would like to know this: am I crazily making it up or is she legit into me?

Blooming 'eck, I hate work crushes.


I seriously doubt that I'm the best one to give any relationship advice, bearing in mind the car wrecks I've left behind me. I could suggest mentioning you're going shopping after work and see if she wants to come along - find a common interest outside of the workplace and see how it goes
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