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Don't call her, or anyone else for that matter.... Milla Send a noteboard - 19/11/2009 06:04:11 AM
Unless you need someone to help you with anything. You are not going on a vacation or anything, you are giving birth. No one will know how long it'll take, and you'll need your privacy. A friend of mine sent out texts as soon as she went to the hospital, assuming the baby would arrive pretty soon. She ended up with a 60 hour birth, and they got so bothered by all the calls and text that continued to pour in. People asking "are you done yet?" continuously. It's stressing enough, you don't need the family making you more worried.

Just go to the hospital, and think of your self, and the family that you are starting. No one else matters. And who knows, maybe you'll end up like me, where everything will happen so fast, there will not be any time for calls or texts until you have the baby in your arms. And if you are like me, you can't call then either... I had to make my hubby do all the calls, cause when I tried to talk after the birth I just ended up in tears, I was so tired, happy and full of hormones.

Bring a camera, take pictures, and show them to your sister. She has no place in the hospital with you until the baby is out. And if she can't see it, well, it is her problem, not yours.

A birth is a intimate thing, don't let her make you feel guilty because you only want to share it with your hubby.
CaMilla
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You probably can't, from her viewpoint. - 19/11/2009 05:22:49 AM 456 Views
Excellent advice. Redirection is probably best. - 19/11/2009 05:58:39 AM 518 Views
"Fuck off and die" - 19/11/2009 05:43:02 AM 403 Views
Don't call her, or anyone else for that matter.... - 19/11/2009 06:04:11 AM 518 Views
ugh. why do people use babies as an excuse for privacy invasion?? - 19/11/2009 02:26:13 PM 410 Views
I think it's more about making oneself important to the situation than specifically to invade privac - 19/11/2009 03:54:27 PM 407 Views
i more just mean in general - 20/11/2009 02:16:19 AM 376 Views
You've already told her that it's only going to be your hubby - 19/11/2009 03:16:27 PM 398 Views
You may just have to decapitate her and steal her powers. *NM* - 19/11/2009 03:19:34 PM 166 Views
I'm afraid you may be right. *NM* - 19/11/2009 03:59:23 PM 158 Views
except what powers would it possible give her? *NM* - 20/11/2009 02:17:14 AM 143 Views
You already have enough on your mind. - 19/11/2009 03:37:00 PM 403 Views
Sounds like you have already tried the nice way - 19/11/2009 03:42:19 PM 387 Views
Violence. Swift and brutal. - 19/11/2009 03:58:36 PM 377 Views
I'm preg with my second right now - I feel for you. - 20/11/2009 01:41:31 AM 476 Views

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