The Salvation message is hope. Would you ever look at a grieving famil of a non-believer and tell them they have no hope of seeing their family again?

The expanded context of the quote does not change the message... rather it intensifies it. It is curious to me that where I talk about hope and the overwhelming love of Christ, you hear me talking about license to do whatever we want. As if people who didn't do what you've done would somehow be getting off easy if God loved them, too.