Yes, it's allowed. Unless the bouncer realizes how clumsy you are, then they might have something to say.
I've done it. I've taken a book, I've not taken a book. I've wall-flowered and people-watched, I've introduced myself. If you liked sports I'd tell you to go to a sporty bar on football day. People can't help talking to each other in a place like that.
It can be unnerving, but that's mostly all in your head. Everyone else in a bar is busy doing his/her own thing. They are very unlikely to care what you're doing there if you're not putting yourself in the middle of things. If you are putting yourself out there, it's not usually very difficult for a first timer to get a conversation going- what type of drinks you should try, what bars around are good places, etc. Start with the bartender if you're too freaked out. Tip well.
I've done it. I've taken a book, I've not taken a book. I've wall-flowered and people-watched, I've introduced myself. If you liked sports I'd tell you to go to a sporty bar on football day. People can't help talking to each other in a place like that.
It can be unnerving, but that's mostly all in your head. Everyone else in a bar is busy doing his/her own thing. They are very unlikely to care what you're doing there if you're not putting yourself in the middle of things. If you are putting yourself out there, it's not usually very difficult for a first timer to get a conversation going- what type of drinks you should try, what bars around are good places, etc. Start with the bartender if you're too freaked out. Tip well.
Need social advice. Is it... you know... allowed to go to a bar by yourself?
09/11/2009 03:57:51 AM
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If all you want is some place to have a good beer, then don't go to a LGBT bar.
09/11/2009 05:11:08 AM
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I think I can overcome the urge to dance, as long as it won't make me a pariah.
09/11/2009 02:20:46 PM
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Bring a book? *NM*
09/11/2009 11:01:54 AM
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... but which book?
09/11/2009 02:09:29 PM
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You could ask 'teh gay' that you know that lives in the same city as you do.
09/11/2009 02:16:12 PM
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I was being passive. Hoping you would see this and respond.
09/11/2009 02:18:59 PM
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No, I'll reply in full/send noteboard. We can arrange something so you don't go alone.
09/11/2009 02:22:44 PM
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<3
10/11/2009 02:26:04 AM
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Yes, it's allowed.
09/11/2009 02:43:18 PM
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"i just turned 21, it's my first time in a bar" sounds like the wrong thing to say somehow...
09/11/2009 04:17:12 PM
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Funniest title ever.
09/11/2009 04:54:46 PM
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