I don't know the full details of the first marriage...
Missa Sedai Send a noteboard - 03/11/2009 11:28:41 PM
Although a significant part of me is wondering about said deadbeat kid, how he's really that vile, etc. I don't doubt you, Missa, it just seems like a painful situation for anyone. I guess I always wonder about/have sympathy for such people because I've done some pretty bad things myself.
But from what my sister-in-law has told me, she cried hysterically when she found out she was pregnant (while still married) because she knew she would be going through it alone. She wasn't sure what was worse: going through the pregnancy and parenthood alone because the husband wouldn't be a part of it, or bringing a child into that marriage with the husband's involvement.
~ Missa
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"Those were the days my friends, we thought they'd never end. We'd sing and dance forever and a day..."
This message last edited by Missa Sedai on 03/11/2009 at 11:30:39 PM
Changing your child's name...
02/11/2009 11:07:40 PM
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Is your brother going to actually adopt the child?
02/11/2009 11:54:20 PM
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My brother wants to, but...
03/11/2009 11:18:20 PM
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Does he pay child support?
04/11/2009 12:38:33 AM
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Never paid a dime.
04/11/2009 12:44:40 AM
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I'd only change the name if he adopted the son legally.
03/11/2009 12:23:08 AM
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I'm more interested in the feelings/needs of the child than the feelings of adults.
03/11/2009 01:16:49 AM
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I really like this reply and agree with everything in it...
03/11/2009 01:23:15 AM
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I don't know the full details of the first marriage...
03/11/2009 11:28:41 PM
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My sister changed her name when she ascended to the Crystal Throne, may she live forever.
03/11/2009 02:52:35 AM
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I personally believe the boy should keep his biological fathers last name no matter what *NM*
03/11/2009 03:18:24 AM
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Are they changing his name to Clark Kent? If so, I don't think the kid will have a problem. *NM*
03/11/2009 04:04:35 AM
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I gave She her dad's last name, we weren't married, had no real intentions of getting married,
03/11/2009 05:10:31 AM
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Here are my thoughts (I have been in a somewhat similar situation).
03/11/2009 06:52:17 AM
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