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There's bad things, and there's bad things. Sareitha Sedai Send a noteboard - 03/11/2009 01:46:33 PM
Although a significant part of me is wondering about said deadbeat kid, how he's really that vile, etc. I don't doubt you, Missa, it just seems like a painful situation for anyone. I guess I always wonder about/have sympathy for such people because I've done some pretty bad things myself.


Their son abandoned his own (innocent) child. I give them tons of credit for forging a relationship with the child's mother and new father to stay connected to and bonded with their grandchild.
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Changing your child's name... Missa Sedai - 02/11/2009 11:07:40 PM 855 Views
I'm an observer. nossy - 02/11/2009 11:16:50 PM 635 Views
Is your brother going to actually adopt the child? Tashmere - 02/11/2009 11:54:20 PM 644 Views
My brother wants to, but... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:18:20 PM 581 Views
Does he pay child support? Sareitha Sedai - 04/11/2009 12:38:33 AM 510 Views
Never paid a dime. Missa Sedai - 04/11/2009 12:44:40 AM 515 Views
Re: Never paid a dime. Beqi - 04/11/2009 03:24:02 AM 541 Views
Re: Never paid a dime. Angel Barchild - 05/11/2009 07:35:05 AM 498 Views
I'd only change the name if he adopted the son legally. Beqi - 03/11/2009 12:23:08 AM 529 Views
I agree with you and Tash... Antigone - 03/11/2009 03:22:28 AM 527 Views
The thing is... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:19:45 PM 488 Views
Concur Isaac - 03/11/2009 06:56:54 PM 562 Views
I'm more interested in the feelings/needs of the child than the feelings of adults. Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:16:49 AM 525 Views
I really like this reply and agree with everything in it... Lupine - 03/11/2009 01:23:15 AM 548 Views
There's bad things, and there's bad things. Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:46:33 PM 473 Views
I don't know the full details of the first marriage... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:28:41 PM 507 Views
True... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:23:55 PM 553 Views
Yes. Sareitha Sedai - 04/11/2009 12:36:24 AM 567 Views
My situation was almost the same. mapthis - 03/11/2009 02:10:24 AM 588 Views
My sister changed her name when she ascended to the Crystal Throne, may she live forever. Blaine - 03/11/2009 02:52:35 AM 614 Views
Not me, but..... Kat - 03/11/2009 03:07:28 AM 623 Views
I personally believe the boy should keep his biological fathers last name no matter what *NM* Aisha - 03/11/2009 03:18:24 AM 238 Views
I'm curious why you believe this. Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:54:40 PM 520 Views
I'm a bit curious too...explain. *NM* Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:31:02 PM 228 Views
personal belief Aisha - 04/11/2009 03:44:35 PM 485 Views
Are they changing his name to Clark Kent? If so, I don't think the kid will have a problem. *NM* callandor1000 - 03/11/2009 04:04:35 AM 235 Views
I gave She her dad's last name, we weren't married, had no real intentions of getting married, StarrBecca - 03/11/2009 05:10:31 AM 516 Views
Happened to my dad (kinda). Craig - 03/11/2009 05:25:52 AM 498 Views
Here are my thoughts (I have been in a somewhat similar situation). everynametaken - 03/11/2009 06:52:17 AM 584 Views
Curious Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:59:30 PM 530 Views
Re: Curious everynametaken - 03/11/2009 06:46:52 PM 590 Views
I am in a similar position. Seriana Sedai - 03/11/2009 07:18:57 AM 534 Views
I'd wait until the child is old enough to want to himself Monkey - 03/11/2009 07:29:36 AM 507 Views
I think I kind of agree here... Tashmere - 06/11/2009 03:28:31 AM 559 Views
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