Active Users:1127 Time:22/11/2024 06:59:36 PM
Tell him to keep at it. Joel Send a noteboard - 09/10/2009 09:47:37 PM
Dunno...I agree with a lot of what's been said above and in other threads. A person makes a post that gets few, if any, replies. After that happens a few times, the person gets discouraged and stops posting. That's sort of what is happening with my husband right now.

Some folks say there are cliques in which the members all respond to each other. I can definitely see this, though "clique" might be a bit harsh. Lots of people have busy lives and limited internet time. How can they be faulted for using that time to respond to friends?

Perhaps the splitting of the boards is part of it. I know I've been spending a lot of time at the TV and Movies board. The possible topics for the community board is a bit diluted...

So...again, dunno.

Part of it is we don't know him well yet. In fact, the first time he responded to one of my posts my thoughts were basically, "Cool, man; hey, that's Geniac, Antigones husband!" It's not like he's just your accessory, but if there are less people here than wotmanias heyday, there are still a lot of personalities to juggle, and that's further complicated by having to associate many old friends with brand new SNs.

It's not always a bad thing if half the site doesn't immediately respond to what you post, either. But, like I say (as should not) tell him to keep at it and I'm sure he can count on a dozen flames every time he posts a thread, too (seriously, I got trolled on football? FOOTBALL?!!! :rolleyes: )

EDIT: I forgot to explicitly state my point: Once he's been here a while, sharing his thoughts, experiences and knowledge, he'll make his own indelible impression (for good or ill... :P ) on our crazies (you did warn him it's contagious? ;)) There'll be people who can't stand him (as unlikely as it seems, there's always a few, except for me; I can at least tolerate pretty much everyone, even if lose it on a few occasionally) and people who can't imagine the place without him. Just because he hasn't fully defined his role in everyone elses minds yet doesn't mean he won't, but much like the formation of RAFO (as with wotmania) it will take time, but be worth the effort. :) Best of luck to him with that, and to ya'll with everything.
Honorbound and honored to be Bonded to Mahtaliel Sedai
Last First in wotmania Chat
Slightly better than chocolate.

Love still can't be coerced.
Please Don't Eat the Newbies!

LoL. Be well, RAFOlk.
This message last edited by Joel on 09/10/2009 at 09:53:18 PM
Reply to message
So, Community - 08/10/2009 07:42:22 PM 635 Views
Re: So, Community - 08/10/2009 07:54:05 PM 383 Views
I guess I've got some thoughts. - 08/10/2009 08:06:31 PM 433 Views
Re: So, Community - 08/10/2009 08:36:38 PM 393 Views
Re: So, Community - 08/10/2009 09:56:18 PM 411 Views
I think Community should be about everything. - 08/10/2009 10:19:24 PM 395 Views
That was the first xkcd I ever say, courtesy of moondog. - 09/10/2009 09:36:53 PM 457 Views
To be serious for a sec - 08/10/2009 10:22:41 PM 418 Views
Re: So, Community - 08/10/2009 11:01:45 PM 381 Views
I thought you were making some kind of acronym here. - 08/10/2009 11:03:58 PM 405 Views
Edited just for you! - 08/10/2009 11:13:19 PM 373 Views
I love it! *NM* - 08/10/2009 11:14:27 PM 150 Views
Talk about the Creationist nutters. - 08/10/2009 11:23:52 PM 399 Views
Talk about the Evolutionist nutters. - 09/10/2009 12:03:58 AM 425 Views
Talk about the Debater neuters. - 09/10/2009 09:38:26 PM 381 Views
Re: So, Community - 09/10/2009 01:40:52 AM 379 Views
Tell him to keep at it. - 09/10/2009 09:47:37 PM 377 Views
What about it? *NM* - 09/10/2009 01:56:16 AM 169 Views
figure out ways to promote more varied posting, for instance the writing board we used to have ... - 09/10/2009 05:19:47 AM 369 Views
Oh, more subtopics, a 'Music' topic, an 'Art' topic, a 'poetry' topic, etc ... - 09/10/2009 05:22:26 AM 380 Views
That would be cool, and where is the Literature that is not scifi or fantasy going? - 09/10/2009 07:21:45 AM 373 Views
On the SF/F board for now. *NM* - 09/10/2009 07:54:19 AM 157 Views
Re: Community, So? - 09/10/2009 09:15:59 PM 549 Views

Reply to Message