Because - Edit 1
Before modification by nossy at 08/03/2017 09:33:17 PM
View original postWe take measures to help the anorexic person understand that they aren't overweight. What they are seeing is normal and healthy. That their mind is not aligned with what their body needs. That they are loved and valued.
View original postWhy don't we take the measures to help the transgender person to understand that the gender they see is correct? That they are that gender. That their body is correct, and instead it is their mind that is not aligned with their body, and that they are loved and valued.
View original postWhy the disparity between the two? Why are we willing to help one person become mentally healthy and gain weight back, but we are not telling the other person to become mentally healthy and see their body as being correct? And in fact, we are taking the direct opposite pathway....
I would imagine that "we" do work with many people who don't feel as though they are properly matched with their body. If it's about helping them feel safe, happy, health, comfortable (whatever!), and the "treatment" that works best is allowing them to choose the body that best suits them, who are the rest of us to say "no, you can't have that because you're "wrong"? I'm sure there are many in therapy who make the other choice as well.