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There's a distinction to be made with eating disorders. Ghavrel Send a noteboard - 08/03/2017 08:31:08 PM

People who suffer from anorexia see themselves in the mirror and believe that they are overweight, even though they are not. They do not accurately perceive external reality.

People who suffer from gender dysphoria look in the mirror and accurately perceives external reality; it is that accurate perception which causes distress. They don't look at themselves and think "I have a female body." They look at themselves and think "I have the wrong body."

That is not what people with anorexia think. Yes, both look at the mirror and don't like what they see, but a person with anorexia doesn't like what they see because they see something that is untrue. A person with gender dysphoria doesn't like what they see because they see things accurately and feel a disconnect with what they are seeing.

"We feel safe when we read what we recognise, what does not challenge our way of thinking.... a steady acceptance of pre-arranged patterns leads to the inability to question what we are told."
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Self-Identification vs. Mental Health Issue *trigger warning* Jeordam - 06/03/2017 08:53:17 PM 804 Views
I have to say I'm very confused about what your question is... and I don't think it's just me. Legolas - 07/03/2017 12:04:27 AM 536 Views
Yes, I'm talking about... Jeordam - 07/03/2017 05:03:18 PM 548 Views
Okay, clear. Legolas - 07/03/2017 06:50:00 PM 544 Views
<3 *NM* nossy - 07/03/2017 06:57:23 PM 253 Views
Mind over Matter? Jeordam - 07/03/2017 09:06:53 PM 519 Views
Mind over body might've been more apt. I believe I did answer your question actually. Legolas - 07/03/2017 10:41:01 PM 598 Views
Let's be clear.... Jeordam - 07/03/2017 11:17:02 PM 502 Views
By all means. Legolas - 07/03/2017 11:58:41 PM 524 Views
Well that's the crux of the topic isn't it.... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 05:48:50 PM 446 Views
That takes us right back to body vs mind, doesn't it? Legolas - 08/03/2017 07:13:32 PM 501 Views
Well that would be the difference... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 08:54:59 PM 549 Views
So do tell me what in fact the purpose of our discussion is, then? Legolas - 08/03/2017 09:40:09 PM 497 Views
What can I possibly say? Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:45:54 PM 493 Views
There's a distinction to be made with eating disorders. Ghavrel - 08/03/2017 08:31:08 PM 502 Views
That brings us all the way back around.... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 09:05:40 PM 543 Views
Because nossy - 08/03/2017 09:30:37 PM 528 Views
Two things... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:50:32 PM 483 Views
you're missing a rather obvious difference, aren't you? damookster - 08/03/2017 09:50:09 PM 514 Views
Yeah, Snoop was just saying the same. nossy - 08/03/2017 10:14:41 PM 556 Views
Well now we are bridging a rather big gap.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 07:12:26 PM 533 Views
Re: Well now we are bridging a rather big gap.... nossy - 09/03/2017 08:52:30 PM 613 Views
So two conversations now..... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:39:55 PM 508 Views
Re: So two conversations now..... nossy - 09/03/2017 10:23:39 PM 494 Views
And this is what you're overlooking.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 10:47:47 PM 528 Views
I could be wrong nossy - 09/03/2017 11:15:22 PM 497 Views
Sex vs Gender Jeordam - 09/03/2017 11:33:54 PM 513 Views
So this is an interesting point..... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:56:12 PM 526 Views
Sure about that? damookster - 09/03/2017 08:53:14 PM 492 Views
It's a mater of persepctive.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:12:09 PM 514 Views
wrong damookster - 09/03/2017 09:41:53 PM 448 Views
Sure. Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:57:48 PM 536 Views
sure, could be damookster - 09/03/2017 11:56:31 PM 469 Views
I feel like this has been said several times already, in several ways Sareitha Sedai - 10/03/2017 04:10:27 PM 506 Views
It has been said, and I understand what is being said... Jeordam - 10/03/2017 06:01:06 PM 515 Views
Re: It has been said, and I understand what is being said... Sareitha Sedai - 10/03/2017 07:58:57 PM 511 Views
I find your wording problematic and agenda driven. damookster - 07/03/2017 11:58:03 PM 522 Views
I appolozie if I offended Jeordam - 08/03/2017 06:18:41 PM 504 Views
no worries damookster - 08/03/2017 06:36:10 PM 516 Views
It always goes from it doesn't hurt anyone to the whole world has to change accommodate me *NM* random thoughts - 10/03/2017 02:46:38 AM 301 Views
That's true - doesn't change the issue as such but certainly there's intolerance on that side too. *NM* Legolas - 10/03/2017 07:45:43 AM 243 Views
Both extremes are dangerous random thoughts - 10/03/2017 12:59:41 PM 546 Views
Take your trigger warnings back to tumblr where they belong ßelals Girl - 07/03/2017 12:21:05 PM 627 Views
*ha* Jeordam - 07/03/2017 05:04:10 PM 536 Views
I self-identify as a deity, so I need you to use My preferred pronouns in reference to Myself Cannoli - 07/03/2017 05:15:56 PM 460 Views
So I could self-identify aerocontrols - 08/03/2017 12:36:39 AM 452 Views
I read through this thread. kazetaran - 10/03/2017 12:44:03 AM 668 Views
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