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Well, that's new: I was refused a handshake today Artsapat Send a noteboard - 21/11/2013 09:31:32 PM

For the first time ever, a person refused to shake my hand today, out of religious reason. Of course I immediately noticed the Hijab, but I have lived in Rotterdam, a city with many Muslims and I had never encountered this before. It took me completely by surprise.

And I'm going to be sharing my office with her for the coming time (months? years?). I always try to be very open-minded to other people's customs, quirks, phobias and/or sensitivities, and I'm very willing to respect other people's point-of-view, but I have to admit this does make me feel a bit uncomfortable. Let's just say it'll take some getting used to. But as a friend of mine always says: if you never step out of your comfort zone, you'll never grow.

I already told my other office mate that we may want to stop doing the worst kind of jokes altogether for a while (she's worse than I am, actually), and make sure we do the rest of them in Dutch instead of English... Although you never know how fast other people can learn a new language.

The mystery deepens... I think. *MySmiley*
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Well, that's new: I was refused a handshake today - 21/11/2013 09:31:32 PM 907 Views
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That's a good piece of advice - 25/11/2013 10:06:56 AM 664 Views
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We find our flaws in everyone else, don't we, dear? *NM* - 04/12/2013 06:11:26 AM 280 Views
Yes, love, we do. - 04/12/2013 07:10:04 AM 569 Views
That might be better than the wimpy handshake - 23/11/2013 11:00:45 AM 667 Views

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