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Hrm. Sareitha Sedai Send a noteboard - 15/11/2013 08:30:22 PM

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So here's the sitch:

We own a flat (apartment) with a shared garden where Evelyn plays and we hang out our washing. We share this garden with 16 other flats, although not everyone uses the garden.

One of the flats has recently been sold and the new owner is changing a window into a door that would directly access the garden, which isn't really an issue for us, apart from the fact that building works will likely be dangerous for a very curious toddler.

The issue is that she is also advertising the flat as a holiday let, meaning that strangers will have access to the garden and potentially my daughter. Strangers who do not have to provide any kind of references, unlike long-term renters, and who won't care about the mess they leave since they'll just be there for a couple of days.

We're not happy about this, and will get in touch with the owner to let her know this.

But what would you do?

How far would you take it if you didn't get a good response from the owner?


Do other people in the building have kids? Presumably the new owner is within her rights to sublet it in this way?

I suppose I would make sure I supervised E in the garden, and if people who rent the flat seem sketchy or it gets to be terribly inconvenient, I would sell and move. I wouldn't be happy about it, but I am not sure what else you could do to protect her, which seems like the main concern.

If you are from Betelgeuse, please have one of your Earth friends read what I've written before you respond. Or try concentrating harder.

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What would you do? - 15/11/2013 07:33:08 PM 2767 Views
Hrm. - 15/11/2013 08:30:22 PM 1291 Views
Re: Hrm. - 16/11/2013 09:57:02 AM 1285 Views
Don't they need to apply for planning permission to do that? - 15/11/2013 10:10:35 PM 1323 Views
For the door, yes. For the holiday let, I don't think so. - 16/11/2013 09:58:30 AM 1286 Views
Hm. Tricky, that. - 15/11/2013 10:38:57 PM 1374 Views
Re: Hm. Tricky, that. - 16/11/2013 09:59:57 AM 1352 Views
If there is anything you can do to fight it, do so - 16/11/2013 01:25:28 AM 1379 Views
Yes. - 16/11/2013 10:03:03 AM 1341 Views
The most reasonable thing would be to cut a bitch. - 16/11/2013 02:47:42 AM 1397 Views
this sounds fully reasonable, yeah. - 16/11/2013 03:22:46 AM 1375 Views
Quite. - 16/11/2013 10:06:43 AM 1212 Views
Cutting a bitch is always an answer. *NM* - 20/11/2013 02:20:06 PM 884 Views
Tough. - 16/11/2013 10:15:21 AM 1298 Views
Re: Tough. - 16/11/2013 07:41:49 PM 1236 Views
Perhaps I don't grasp the gravity of the situation. - 16/11/2013 03:52:15 PM 1424 Views
It's more irritating that grave, but I do worry about security to an extent. - 16/11/2013 07:47:02 PM 1181 Views
Re: I hear you. - 17/11/2013 03:50:44 PM 1484 Views
Re: I hear you. - 18/11/2013 05:03:15 PM 1259 Views
do you let your child play unsupervised now? - 16/11/2013 06:46:08 PM 1221 Views
Not precisely. - 16/11/2013 08:01:54 PM 1171 Views
Uh...isn't the nature of ownership that you can do what you want to with your property? - 16/11/2013 10:27:05 PM 1166 Views
Yes, but subject to limitations. - 19/11/2013 07:03:40 PM 1721 Views
I would get the garden monitored with a camera - 17/11/2013 04:00:51 AM 1194 Views
Not a possiblity. *NM* - 18/11/2013 07:17:35 PM 713 Views
I can't see much you can do really... - 19/11/2013 03:01:40 AM 1274 Views
Does the building have a factor? - 19/11/2013 11:38:43 AM 1230 Views
Yes indeed. - 19/11/2013 07:13:06 PM 1175 Views

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