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So, there's this girl at my Uni. Postsecret Send a noteboard - 10/03/2013 09:46:07 PM

Let me just start by saying that I do infact realise how desperate/young/etc I'm going to sound for posting this (sorry for postsecret, I'm selfconcious, okay? :P ), so now that that's out of the way let's get to the point. So, there's this girl on parallel course that I'm sort of interested in. The thing is, I've never been interested in anyone beoynd the level of "Huh, she looks good" and am rather lost on what to do about this. I don't really know her but we've spoken from time to time. I'd like to get to know her better, but on the social interractions scale of smooth to akward, I fall firmly in latter category, and would prefer to atleast stay at the acquaintance/occasional pal situation even if nothing comes out of it.

Also, due to afore mentioned lack of earlier occasions of similiar nature, I don't know how to proceed. I don't have a crush on her, I'm just... interested. How interested is one supposed to be for any chance of anything coming out of it? How should I approach getting to know her better? This is rather confusing for me since I've just recently realised that I'm interested in her in the first place (I didn't apply for student union orientation for the next year because of work, but I learned I would have been chosen had I applied. [I tried to apply late, but that wasn't possible]. I'm dissapointed a)because it could have been fun and b)because she's in the orientation program.)

And this realisation that atleast as much if not more as I'm bummed because it could have been fun I'm bummed because it would have been a great way to get to know her better.

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So, there's this girl at my Uni. - 10/03/2013 09:46:07 PM 1116 Views
I'm not sure if you sound young, or I'm just old. - 10/03/2013 10:08:35 PM 707 Views
Sounds logical. - 10/03/2013 10:30:53 PM 756 Views
Add her on Facebook - 10/03/2013 11:35:44 PM 712 Views
I'm not sure if I agree with this. - 11/03/2013 10:32:25 PM 731 Views
Fear is a choice, according to the trailer for Will Smith's new movie - 11/03/2013 03:36:29 AM 682 Views
I'll try to help. - 11/03/2013 01:34:55 PM 744 Views
Re: I'll try to help. - 11/03/2013 07:18:45 PM 799 Views
No, it doesn't make sense to me. - 13/03/2013 03:53:10 PM 707 Views
Re: No, it doesn't make sense to me. - 13/03/2013 10:43:59 PM 754 Views
Ah, much better. - 14/03/2013 03:33:50 PM 690 Views
Re: I'll try to help. - 14/03/2013 09:50:26 PM 680 Views
I mostly agree. - 15/03/2013 05:11:19 PM 685 Views
There's a chicken or egg aspect to this, what is fascinating about her? - 13/03/2013 09:10:13 PM 781 Views
Re: There's a chicken or egg aspect to this, what is fascinating about her? - 13/03/2013 10:34:03 PM 790 Views
Well that's not all that abnormal at all - 14/03/2013 02:32:14 AM 816 Views
I... have no idea how to come on to women. - 15/03/2013 01:54:29 AM 931 Views
The chances she'd be interested in you back in a sexual sense are only 1-5% - 15/03/2013 02:49:13 AM 754 Views
just get her talking about herself. chicks dig that *NM* - 15/03/2013 05:07:54 PM 384 Views

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