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It is called forsaking all others, and yes there are absolutes. HyogaRott Send a noteboard - 13/02/2013 05:58:20 PM
The moment you THINK you are flirting with someone, you should stop. It really is just that simple. Just behave at all times as you would if your wife were right beside you. If that means you change the habits and personality traits you have nurtured for years, then you do it, or you get out of the relationship because your habit patterns are more important than she is.

If you wouldn't do something with her there, then don't do it when she isn't.

***Just some advice from someone who is divorced.
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I am on the verge of having an affair Dark Knight - 11/02/2013 11:41:57 PM 1820 Views
Ditch the wife or stop being a prat. TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:30:30 AM 1076 Views
Great. Helpful advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:33:36 AM 962 Views
What exactly do you want to hear? TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:47:06 AM 938 Views
I don't know, something helpful Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:59:23 AM 1003 Views
The telling you to grow up bit wasn't the advice TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:09:54 AM 967 Views
So there is no situation in which advice helps? Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:23:21 AM 1009 Views
I didn't say nobody could help you at all TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:41:19 AM 995 Views
You're assuming a moral absolute Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM 1173 Views
It is called forsaking all others, and yes there are absolutes. HyogaRott - 13/02/2013 05:58:20 PM 1071 Views
My opinion ... Nate - 12/02/2013 01:21:38 AM 999 Views
That's not really advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:28:42 AM 1010 Views
Why is it obvious? Nate - 12/02/2013 01:42:26 AM 1027 Views
That's exactly what I'm looking for Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:11:51 AM 1186 Views
I don't know if that's realistic. Nate - 12/02/2013 05:46:48 AM 946 Views
Get therapy or get a divorce. Your wife deserves better than the person you're being now. *NM* Ghavrel - 12/02/2013 04:00:38 AM 529 Views
Careful you don't fall off that high horse Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:53:11 AM 1048 Views
You might try 4chan. Their morals seem more in line with the ones you're currently espousing. *NM* Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:29:04 AM 491 Views
What exactly did you want to hear? Dannymac - 12/02/2013 04:31:56 AM 906 Views
More holier-than-thou judgment. Great thanks. *NM* Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:50:36 AM 636 Views
Well, he's a pastor, so he probably is holier-than-thou. *NM* Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:48:55 PM 505 Views
So what you wanted was a high five? Dannymac - 13/02/2013 04:21:57 PM 930 Views
role play. *NM* temeraire - 12/02/2013 04:41:07 AM 516 Views
I appreciate something other than judgment. Thank you! Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:51:56 AM 1031 Views
i was poly for a decade. maybe that's a thing to consider? opening your marriage for both of you? temeraire - 13/02/2013 05:12:06 AM 900 Views
If you don't have kids, then just leave the marriage or have an open relationship. *NM* Tom - 12/02/2013 05:19:27 AM 475 Views
You have 4 options A Deathwatch Guard - 12/02/2013 06:03:43 AM 932 Views
If it isn't about the sex then swinging really won't help *NM* random thoughts - 12/02/2013 12:55:27 PM 490 Views
Number one is not an option, it is a looming and growing disaster. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:57:19 PM 952 Views
So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? MightyYT - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM 934 Views
I'm not sure there's enough context to offer much useful advice, but I'd line up incentives Isaac - 12/02/2013 08:29:41 AM 1029 Views
It's probably the way you phrased it. Rebekah - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM 1147 Views
find another passion random thoughts - 12/02/2013 01:01:10 PM 910 Views
I don't judge you. I am exactly the same way. ironclad - 12/02/2013 01:56:58 PM 1098 Views
I don't give a shit about polyamory. I give a shit about honesty. Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:26:56 AM 947 Views
That's why I told him it's not okay, if he is lying to her. *NM* ironclad - 13/02/2013 10:00:04 AM 494 Views
That was kind of my take. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM 1162 Views
I get where you're coming from Orange - 12/02/2013 01:57:48 PM 1036 Views
Here is my advice. callandor1000 - 12/02/2013 03:49:55 PM 1209 Views
Well said. Joel - 13/02/2013 03:16:13 PM 927 Views
LOL Dragonsoul - 12/02/2013 03:54:46 PM 961 Views
Nice choice of words, there ironclad - 12/02/2013 04:04:15 PM 997 Views
I don't know if I agree that you should talk to her about this. Sareitha Sedai - 12/02/2013 04:30:14 PM 1085 Views
If walking the line is the thrill, then keep walking the line. Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:44:59 PM 1102 Views
Seeing your edit, I'm not sure you'll read this.... Jeordam - 12/02/2013 11:20:46 PM 1003 Views
The thrill of the chase ßelals Girl - 13/02/2013 02:38:59 PM 970 Views
Do you want help making a decision, or validation of one already made? Joel - 13/02/2013 02:47:59 PM 1002 Views
Hehe, love that things are pretty much the same around here. *NM* Nefarious - 14/02/2013 12:29:56 AM 508 Views
I feel sorry for you *NM* Yunalesca - 14/02/2013 01:10:10 AM 555 Views
Best thing you can do is travel around and stay in hostels Sports_Gambler - 14/02/2013 02:24:50 AM 976 Views
Be open to your wife about how you feel. Timthetrolloc - 14/02/2013 10:24:13 PM 859 Views
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