Heh, yeah, I guess I slightly mischaracterized what you were saying.
Joel Send a noteboard - 13/02/2013 05:54:05 PM
Although, now I think of it, that still seems odd, because a priest from a different denomination would not have been married in the Roman Catholic Church, so I would not think the latter would recognize the marriage. Obviously we cannot have priests "living in sin" (i.e. with a spouse to which he was married outside the church.)
It DOES seem improbable anyone would be so committed to another church they became ordained, then convert to Roman Catholicism. Of course, if it is reserved for churches already liturgically and doctrinally close to Roman Catholicism, that makes it more likely.
The whole reason for an unmarried clergy was to TRY and prevent family dynasties, and the beleif that the members of the congregation should be the only family that a priest should be concerned for, and a properly engaged preist would be unable to provider for his own family as a husband should. I can see some purpose to it in mideval Europe (much closer to our hunter/gather roots), but not in our modern soiety. It no longer takes half your day just to make sure that there will be food to eat that night.
Honestly, I think the whole idea of a celibate unmarried clergy a tragic mistake; it is the reason my reaction to the whole pedophile scandal was "well, DUH!" Forbidding priests marriage automatically disqualifies the vast majority of well-adjusted heterosexual men, and the increasing social acceptance of gay marriage places many gay men in the same boat: Both can openly live as they wish with no censure simply by foregoing priesthood. Pedophiles, on the other hand, can NEVER be accepted; exposure means disgrace and imprisonment whether or not they are priests, so ordination changes little: They just continue hiding their desires and predation from the world as they always have, hoping to escape detection.
I do not doubt for a moment MANY decent normal men seek the priesthood from sincerely deep devotion to God, despite having to forever sacrifice any hope of a spouse and children. However, I also believe relatively few men who have that hope in the first place are dedicated enough to sacrifice it for the priesthood; they sacrifice the priesthood instead. That restricts the pool of potential priests to a group with a disproportionate number of VERY undesirable candidates. Worse, their habitual, scrupulous and systematic concealment of their behavior makes them difficult to detect.
Meanwhile, I cannot help recalling the scriptural position is Pauls statement a bishop should be "the husband of one wife." If that is good enough for a bishop, it ought to be good enough for any inferior ordination. Then again, there is a reason I identify as a non-denominational Christian, a "small 'c'" catholic.
I'm a "lapsed" catholic as well.
A priest can actually be married, but the circumstances are rather twisted. Essentially they have to be married and ordained in another (i.e. Episcopalian) "Catholic lite" and then convert to Catholicism. It is rare, but there are a few. It is actually not a true "Word of God" tenant prohibition but doctrinal.
1. Priests getting married - possible (this essentially is church policy, but a bible/God's word issue)
A priest can actually be married, but the circumstances are rather twisted. Essentially they have to be married and ordained in another (i.e. Episcopalian) "Catholic lite" and then convert to Catholicism. It is rare, but there are a few. It is actually not a true "Word of God" tenant prohibition but doctrinal.
It DOES seem improbable anyone would be so committed to another church they became ordained, then convert to Roman Catholicism. Of course, if it is reserved for churches already liturgically and doctrinally close to Roman Catholicism, that makes it more likely.
The whole reason for an unmarried clergy was to TRY and prevent family dynasties, and the beleif that the members of the congregation should be the only family that a priest should be concerned for, and a properly engaged preist would be unable to provider for his own family as a husband should. I can see some purpose to it in mideval Europe (much closer to our hunter/gather roots), but not in our modern soiety. It no longer takes half your day just to make sure that there will be food to eat that night.
Honestly, I think the whole idea of a celibate unmarried clergy a tragic mistake; it is the reason my reaction to the whole pedophile scandal was "well, DUH!" Forbidding priests marriage automatically disqualifies the vast majority of well-adjusted heterosexual men, and the increasing social acceptance of gay marriage places many gay men in the same boat: Both can openly live as they wish with no censure simply by foregoing priesthood. Pedophiles, on the other hand, can NEVER be accepted; exposure means disgrace and imprisonment whether or not they are priests, so ordination changes little: They just continue hiding their desires and predation from the world as they always have, hoping to escape detection.
I do not doubt for a moment MANY decent normal men seek the priesthood from sincerely deep devotion to God, despite having to forever sacrifice any hope of a spouse and children. However, I also believe relatively few men who have that hope in the first place are dedicated enough to sacrifice it for the priesthood; they sacrifice the priesthood instead. That restricts the pool of potential priests to a group with a disproportionate number of VERY undesirable candidates. Worse, their habitual, scrupulous and systematic concealment of their behavior makes them difficult to detect.
Meanwhile, I cannot help recalling the scriptural position is Pauls statement a bishop should be "the husband of one wife." If that is good enough for a bishop, it ought to be good enough for any inferior ordination. Then again, there is a reason I identify as a non-denominational Christian, a "small 'c'" catholic.
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So the Pope has resigned
11/02/2013 01:01:59 PM
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11/02/2013 02:29:13 PM
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As a catholic, I am surprised, but please by the Pope's decision.....
12/02/2013 03:05:34 AM
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Re: As a catholic, I am surprised, but please by the Pope's decision.....
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Re: As a catholic, I am surprised, but please by the Pope's decision.....
13/02/2013 01:35:14 AM
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Re: As a catholic, I am surprised, but please by the Pope's decision.....
13/02/2013 03:45:23 PM
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I'm gonna have to disagree with you on this point.
13/02/2013 06:36:03 PM
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Re: I'm gonna have to disagree with you on this point.
14/02/2013 11:12:34 PM
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Hate to jump you again but are you sure you mean Timothy?
14/02/2013 11:54:00 PM
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13/02/2013 06:17:44 PM
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Why wouldn't it still be devinely inspired?
13/02/2013 06:44:07 PM
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13/02/2013 07:42:15 PM
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You're missing a really key point
13/02/2013 09:13:32 PM
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You are using an epistle to say every word of all epistles is divinely inspired?
13/02/2013 10:00:36 PM
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Let us take it full circle: The ecclesiastical authority of women
13/02/2013 10:21:26 PM
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Shouldn't you be able to answer this question from what you just wrote?
13/02/2013 11:02:28 PM
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14/02/2013 01:05:14 AM
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So Roman Catholic priests CAN marry, under tortuous conditions? Interesting....
13/02/2013 03:40:48 PM
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A priest can't marry, but a married person can become a priest.
13/02/2013 03:51:02 PM
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Heh, yeah, I guess I slightly mischaracterized what you were saying.
13/02/2013 05:54:05 PM
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There are a bunch of semi-Catholic denominations that allow priests to marry.
13/02/2013 06:06:13 PM
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Here's my chance. I'm putting in my application.
11/02/2013 04:20:52 PM
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11/02/2013 04:42:25 PM
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11/02/2013 06:10:19 PM
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11/02/2013 06:25:02 PM
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11/02/2013 09:28:39 PM
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11/02/2013 08:00:26 PM
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You give them too much credit.
11/02/2013 11:19:06 PM
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Put on blinders much?
11/02/2013 11:50:01 PM
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12/02/2013 03:35:26 AM
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13/02/2013 01:43:47 AM
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You really don't know how human psychology works, do you?
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12/02/2013 03:41:54 AM
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12/02/2013 06:38:14 PM
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13/02/2013 01:46:28 AM
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13/02/2013 06:27:41 PM
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13/02/2013 06:42:14 PM
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