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So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? MightyYT Send a noteboard - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM
Anyways, when I was married, I had a couple of chances to cheat. I didn't,but that is me. That is who I am. I made a commitment. I gave a vow that took seriously. Sometimes, it was really hard to keep that vow, especially when the ex stopped having sex. But I still could nor do it. There is no enjoyment for me in that situation.

But you are not me. Live your life how you like, just be prepared for the consequences.
Castle: This is so weird. I dressed up as him for Halloween.

Beckett: Me too.

~When Castle and Beckett met Gene Simmons.
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I am on the verge of having an affair Dark Knight - 11/02/2013 11:41:57 PM 1830 Views
Ditch the wife or stop being a prat. TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:30:30 AM 1087 Views
Great. Helpful advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:33:36 AM 971 Views
What exactly do you want to hear? TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:47:06 AM 948 Views
I don't know, something helpful Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:59:23 AM 1015 Views
The telling you to grow up bit wasn't the advice TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:09:54 AM 975 Views
So there is no situation in which advice helps? Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:23:21 AM 1022 Views
I didn't say nobody could help you at all TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:41:19 AM 1004 Views
You're assuming a moral absolute Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM 1184 Views
It is called forsaking all others, and yes there are absolutes. HyogaRott - 13/02/2013 05:58:20 PM 1081 Views
My opinion ... Nate - 12/02/2013 01:21:38 AM 1012 Views
That's not really advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:28:42 AM 1019 Views
Why is it obvious? Nate - 12/02/2013 01:42:26 AM 1040 Views
That's exactly what I'm looking for Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:11:51 AM 1201 Views
I don't know if that's realistic. Nate - 12/02/2013 05:46:48 AM 959 Views
Get therapy or get a divorce. Your wife deserves better than the person you're being now. *NM* Ghavrel - 12/02/2013 04:00:38 AM 534 Views
Careful you don't fall off that high horse Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:53:11 AM 1060 Views
You might try 4chan. Their morals seem more in line with the ones you're currently espousing. *NM* Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:29:04 AM 497 Views
What exactly did you want to hear? Dannymac - 12/02/2013 04:31:56 AM 917 Views
More holier-than-thou judgment. Great thanks. *NM* Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:50:36 AM 643 Views
Well, he's a pastor, so he probably is holier-than-thou. *NM* Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:48:55 PM 511 Views
So what you wanted was a high five? Dannymac - 13/02/2013 04:21:57 PM 943 Views
role play. *NM* temeraire - 12/02/2013 04:41:07 AM 523 Views
I appreciate something other than judgment. Thank you! Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:51:56 AM 1043 Views
i was poly for a decade. maybe that's a thing to consider? opening your marriage for both of you? temeraire - 13/02/2013 05:12:06 AM 910 Views
If you don't have kids, then just leave the marriage or have an open relationship. *NM* Tom - 12/02/2013 05:19:27 AM 483 Views
You have 4 options A Deathwatch Guard - 12/02/2013 06:03:43 AM 943 Views
If it isn't about the sex then swinging really won't help *NM* random thoughts - 12/02/2013 12:55:27 PM 496 Views
Number one is not an option, it is a looming and growing disaster. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:57:19 PM 960 Views
So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? MightyYT - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM 950 Views
I'm not sure there's enough context to offer much useful advice, but I'd line up incentives Isaac - 12/02/2013 08:29:41 AM 1038 Views
It's probably the way you phrased it. Rebekah - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM 1159 Views
find another passion random thoughts - 12/02/2013 01:01:10 PM 919 Views
I don't judge you. I am exactly the same way. ironclad - 12/02/2013 01:56:58 PM 1110 Views
I don't give a shit about polyamory. I give a shit about honesty. Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:26:56 AM 957 Views
That's why I told him it's not okay, if he is lying to her. *NM* ironclad - 13/02/2013 10:00:04 AM 499 Views
That was kind of my take. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM 1173 Views
I get where you're coming from Orange - 12/02/2013 01:57:48 PM 1043 Views
Here is my advice. callandor1000 - 12/02/2013 03:49:55 PM 1220 Views
Well said. Joel - 13/02/2013 03:16:13 PM 940 Views
LOL Dragonsoul - 12/02/2013 03:54:46 PM 971 Views
Nice choice of words, there ironclad - 12/02/2013 04:04:15 PM 1008 Views
I don't know if I agree that you should talk to her about this. Sareitha Sedai - 12/02/2013 04:30:14 PM 1100 Views
If walking the line is the thrill, then keep walking the line. Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:44:59 PM 1114 Views
Seeing your edit, I'm not sure you'll read this.... Jeordam - 12/02/2013 11:20:46 PM 1013 Views
The thrill of the chase ßelals Girl - 13/02/2013 02:38:59 PM 983 Views
Do you want help making a decision, or validation of one already made? Joel - 13/02/2013 02:47:59 PM 1016 Views
Hehe, love that things are pretty much the same around here. *NM* Nefarious - 14/02/2013 12:29:56 AM 513 Views
I feel sorry for you *NM* Yunalesca - 14/02/2013 01:10:10 AM 560 Views
Best thing you can do is travel around and stay in hostels Sports_Gambler - 14/02/2013 02:24:50 AM 986 Views
Be open to your wife about how you feel. Timthetrolloc - 14/02/2013 10:24:13 PM 875 Views
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