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The telling you to grow up bit wasn't the advice TheCrownless Send a noteboard - 12/02/2013 01:09:54 AM
What you're doing is wrong, one way or another it has to stop before you hurt your wife.


Maybe you have the same feelings, or you have personal experience with this type of thing, etc. Just telling somebody to grow up is childish and not in the least bit helpful. I'm being serious here. I would like to hear opinions, not snide remarks.


The advice was the other 90% of the post. What is it in your relationship that's missing that makes you constantly look for cheap thrills? Therein lies the answer, nobody here is going to be able to help you with that one.
Come to the dark side, We have candy!

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I am on the verge of having an affair Dark Knight - 11/02/2013 11:41:57 PM 1765 Views
Ditch the wife or stop being a prat. TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:30:30 AM 1027 Views
Great. Helpful advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:33:36 AM 908 Views
What exactly do you want to hear? TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:47:06 AM 888 Views
I don't know, something helpful Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:59:23 AM 955 Views
The telling you to grow up bit wasn't the advice TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:09:54 AM 914 Views
So there is no situation in which advice helps? Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:23:21 AM 954 Views
I didn't say nobody could help you at all TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:41:19 AM 943 Views
You're assuming a moral absolute Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM 1119 Views
It is called forsaking all others, and yes there are absolutes. HyogaRott - 13/02/2013 05:58:20 PM 1019 Views
My opinion ... Nate - 12/02/2013 01:21:38 AM 954 Views
That's not really advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:28:42 AM 954 Views
Why is it obvious? Nate - 12/02/2013 01:42:26 AM 969 Views
That's exactly what I'm looking for Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:11:51 AM 1142 Views
I don't know if that's realistic. Nate - 12/02/2013 05:46:48 AM 900 Views
Get therapy or get a divorce. Your wife deserves better than the person you're being now. *NM* Ghavrel - 12/02/2013 04:00:38 AM 503 Views
Careful you don't fall off that high horse Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:53:11 AM 993 Views
You might try 4chan. Their morals seem more in line with the ones you're currently espousing. *NM* Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:29:04 AM 468 Views
What exactly did you want to hear? Dannymac - 12/02/2013 04:31:56 AM 856 Views
More holier-than-thou judgment. Great thanks. *NM* Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:50:36 AM 611 Views
Well, he's a pastor, so he probably is holier-than-thou. *NM* Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:48:55 PM 482 Views
So what you wanted was a high five? Dannymac - 13/02/2013 04:21:57 PM 885 Views
role play. *NM* temeraire - 12/02/2013 04:41:07 AM 494 Views
I appreciate something other than judgment. Thank you! Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:51:56 AM 974 Views
i was poly for a decade. maybe that's a thing to consider? opening your marriage for both of you? temeraire - 13/02/2013 05:12:06 AM 850 Views
If you don't have kids, then just leave the marriage or have an open relationship. *NM* Tom - 12/02/2013 05:19:27 AM 449 Views
You have 4 options A Deathwatch Guard - 12/02/2013 06:03:43 AM 885 Views
If it isn't about the sex then swinging really won't help *NM* random thoughts - 12/02/2013 12:55:27 PM 468 Views
Number one is not an option, it is a looming and growing disaster. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:57:19 PM 892 Views
So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? MightyYT - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM 883 Views
I'm not sure there's enough context to offer much useful advice, but I'd line up incentives Isaac - 12/02/2013 08:29:41 AM 976 Views
It's probably the way you phrased it. Rebekah - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM 1096 Views
find another passion random thoughts - 12/02/2013 01:01:10 PM 864 Views
I don't judge you. I am exactly the same way. ironclad - 12/02/2013 01:56:58 PM 1046 Views
I don't give a shit about polyamory. I give a shit about honesty. Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:26:56 AM 899 Views
That's why I told him it's not okay, if he is lying to her. *NM* ironclad - 13/02/2013 10:00:04 AM 473 Views
That was kind of my take. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM 1109 Views
I get where you're coming from Orange - 12/02/2013 01:57:48 PM 984 Views
Here is my advice. callandor1000 - 12/02/2013 03:49:55 PM 1158 Views
Well said. Joel - 13/02/2013 03:16:13 PM 879 Views
LOL Dragonsoul - 12/02/2013 03:54:46 PM 906 Views
Nice choice of words, there ironclad - 12/02/2013 04:04:15 PM 935 Views
I don't know if I agree that you should talk to her about this. Sareitha Sedai - 12/02/2013 04:30:14 PM 1032 Views
If walking the line is the thrill, then keep walking the line. Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:44:59 PM 1052 Views
Seeing your edit, I'm not sure you'll read this.... Jeordam - 12/02/2013 11:20:46 PM 954 Views
The thrill of the chase ßelals Girl - 13/02/2013 02:38:59 PM 921 Views
Do you want help making a decision, or validation of one already made? Joel - 13/02/2013 02:47:59 PM 955 Views
Hehe, love that things are pretty much the same around here. *NM* Nefarious - 14/02/2013 12:29:56 AM 490 Views
I feel sorry for you *NM* Yunalesca - 14/02/2013 01:10:10 AM 530 Views
Best thing you can do is travel around and stay in hostels Sports_Gambler - 14/02/2013 02:24:50 AM 926 Views
Be open to your wife about how you feel. Timthetrolloc - 14/02/2013 10:24:13 PM 807 Views
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