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I don't know, something helpful Dark Knight Send a noteboard - 12/02/2013 12:59:23 AM
What you're doing is wrong, one way or another it has to stop before you hurt your wife.


Maybe you have the same feelings, or you have personal experience with this type of thing, etc. Just telling somebody to grow up is childish and not in the least bit helpful. I'm being serious here. I would like to hear opinions, not snide remarks.
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I am on the verge of having an affair - 11/02/2013 11:41:57 PM 1839 Views
Ditch the wife or stop being a prat. - 12/02/2013 12:30:30 AM 1096 Views
Great. Helpful advice - 12/02/2013 12:33:36 AM 982 Views
What exactly do you want to hear? - 12/02/2013 12:47:06 AM 958 Views
I don't know, something helpful - 12/02/2013 12:59:23 AM 1030 Views
The telling you to grow up bit wasn't the advice - 12/02/2013 01:09:54 AM 987 Views
So there is no situation in which advice helps? - 12/02/2013 01:23:21 AM 1031 Views
I didn't say nobody could help you at all - 12/02/2013 01:41:19 AM 1014 Views
You're assuming a moral absolute - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM 1199 Views
It is called forsaking all others, and yes there are absolutes. - 13/02/2013 05:58:20 PM 1097 Views
My opinion ... - 12/02/2013 01:21:38 AM 1021 Views
That's not really advice - 12/02/2013 01:28:42 AM 1029 Views
Why is it obvious? - 12/02/2013 01:42:26 AM 1050 Views
That's exactly what I'm looking for - 12/02/2013 02:11:51 AM 1216 Views
I don't know if that's realistic. - 12/02/2013 05:46:48 AM 971 Views
What exactly did you want to hear? - 12/02/2013 04:31:56 AM 933 Views
More holier-than-thou judgment. Great thanks. *NM* - 12/02/2013 04:50:36 AM 650 Views
Well, he's a pastor, so he probably is holier-than-thou. *NM* - 12/02/2013 07:48:55 PM 519 Views
So what you wanted was a high five? - 13/02/2013 04:21:57 PM 953 Views
role play. *NM* - 12/02/2013 04:41:07 AM 530 Views
You have 4 options - 12/02/2013 06:03:43 AM 955 Views
If it isn't about the sex then swinging really won't help *NM* - 12/02/2013 12:55:27 PM 504 Views
So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM 959 Views
It's probably the way you phrased it. - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM 1168 Views
find another passion - 12/02/2013 01:01:10 PM 928 Views
I don't judge you. I am exactly the same way. - 12/02/2013 01:56:58 PM 1122 Views
I don't give a shit about polyamory. I give a shit about honesty. - 13/02/2013 09:26:56 AM 967 Views
That's why I told him it's not okay, if he is lying to her. *NM* - 13/02/2013 10:00:04 AM 506 Views
That was kind of my take. - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM 1182 Views
I get where you're coming from - 12/02/2013 01:57:48 PM 1055 Views
Here is my advice. - 12/02/2013 03:49:55 PM 1235 Views
Well said. - 13/02/2013 03:16:13 PM 954 Views
LOL - 12/02/2013 03:54:46 PM 980 Views
Nice choice of words, there - 12/02/2013 04:04:15 PM 1017 Views
I don't know if I agree that you should talk to her about this. - 12/02/2013 04:30:14 PM 1111 Views
If walking the line is the thrill, then keep walking the line. - 12/02/2013 07:44:59 PM 1129 Views
Seeing your edit, I'm not sure you'll read this.... - 12/02/2013 11:20:46 PM 1024 Views
The thrill of the chase - 13/02/2013 02:38:59 PM 994 Views
Hehe, love that things are pretty much the same around here. *NM* - 14/02/2013 12:29:56 AM 521 Views
I feel sorry for you *NM* - 14/02/2013 01:10:10 AM 569 Views
Best thing you can do is travel around and stay in hostels - 14/02/2013 02:24:50 AM 996 Views
Be open to your wife about how you feel. - 14/02/2013 10:24:13 PM 883 Views

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