As far as I know, that's how it happened and those were the reasons. She felt that the continuing trouble I had with a variety of strong-tasting foods showed a general lack of dedication and a general childishness. She expected me to be able to eat whatever she cooked, and if I didn't like it she didn't want to hear about it. I tried, but I wasn't able to do it. The last argument came when I forced myself without complaint to eat something she had made (it lasted for three meals), and then she wanted to make it again the following week and I told her that I had trouble with it. The next day she left me. If there were other reasons, she didn't talk about them.
I don't want people to affect some sort of anger toward her for my sake, though, even though I'm sure she'll never read this. Despite what happened, I loved her dearly, and outside of her demanding and controlling nature when it came to food she was everything I ever wanted. If she needed someone who can eat anything, then that's a choice she can make (and did make). I don't like that she made it, and I don't like how alone it left me feeling, but she had every right to make it.
I don't want people to affect some sort of anger toward her for my sake, though, even though I'm sure she'll never read this. Despite what happened, I loved her dearly, and outside of her demanding and controlling nature when it came to food she was everything I ever wanted. If she needed someone who can eat anything, then that's a choice she can make (and did make). I don't like that she made it, and I don't like how alone it left me feeling, but she had every right to make it.
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What is/are the biggest issue(s) you've had to work out in your personal life so far?
28/10/2012 07:41:08 PM
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For me, the theme is something like "family: secrets vs. expectations of normality"
28/10/2012 07:51:07 PM
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Whether to register to vote as a Democrat or Republican!
29/10/2012 04:31:00 AM
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I take it you went for the MBA? Career changes are nothing to sneeze at.
29/10/2012 01:42:05 PM
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Well, let's see.
29/10/2012 06:02:00 AM
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Wow, Nate, if eating what you like were something that needed to be earned, then you earned it.
29/10/2012 01:39:06 PM
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Thanks.
29/10/2012 03:30:33 PM
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Was that a metaphor?
29/10/2012 06:07:47 PM
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Re: Was that a metaphor?
29/10/2012 06:34:27 PM
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