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I am fine with it if all existing parties to the marriage consent to each addition. Tim Send a noteboard - 20/10/2012 10:10:19 AM
Mostly we see "polygamy" as meaning "man is in charge, and can take as many wives as he wants". This is unfair on any wives who aren't willing to share him. And when we hear the word "bigamy", we usually think about a man from a monogamist section of society who has two families, each secret from the other. Both women are then shocked when the man is taken to hospital and they are both called to his bedside. This is obviously not OK.

But if a polygamist family wants legal recognition for an arrangement where additional adults can join the marriage with the consent of all those who are already in it, I don't see why they shouldn't have that recognition. We should only ban things that are harmful.

However, when it comes to the civil consequences of marriage, such as social security benefits and inheritance rights, the legislature would have to be careful not to give unfair advantages to polygamists. To take a simple example, if a state's inheritance law says that the spouse of someone who dies intestate inherits a maximum of $300,000 from the estate, with the remainder going to the deceased's children, that $300,000 should be split equally between all the surviving spouses in a polygamist family. They shouldn't get $300,000 each, as that would unfairly disadvantage the children.

Any state pension payable to widow(er)s should also be split. Over time this will even out, since after spouses 1 and 2 are both dead, spouse 3 will get a widow(er)'s pension (or a fraction of one) in respect of both. And so on. I realise it would get very complicated in some circumstances, but I'm sure the civil servants could work it out.
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For all you supporters of Gay Marriage: What about polygamy? - 20/10/2012 12:02:06 AM 1418 Views
Legal rights. - 20/10/2012 12:14:10 AM 820 Views
It almost sounds like you are saying... - 20/10/2012 12:31:40 AM 795 Views
That is what I'm saying it. - 20/10/2012 01:07:50 AM 776 Views
Technically, privileges, not rights. - 20/10/2012 04:16:45 AM 780 Views
Sure - 20/10/2012 12:35:53 AM 712 Views
All for it... For adults over the age of 18. *NM* - 20/10/2012 01:18:04 AM 422 Views
What about it? - 20/10/2012 01:21:17 AM 777 Views
+1 *NM* - 20/10/2012 01:51:25 AM 449 Views
+2 *NM* - 20/10/2012 11:18:39 AM 397 Views
should be legal, would be nice for poly people. should include polygyny and polyandry. *NM* - 20/10/2012 03:29:05 AM 400 Views
poly people? - 20/10/2012 12:44:01 PM 742 Views
Government needs to stop legislating morality. So yes *NM* - 20/10/2012 03:36:37 AM 386 Views
That's a huge chunk of what government does. - 20/10/2012 04:35:45 PM 748 Views
That's not what I'm saying - 21/10/2012 03:21:08 AM 769 Views
So you're opposed to abortion and gun control then? Welcome aboard! - 21/10/2012 06:14:14 AM 721 Views
Why do you keep talking about gay marriage and polygamy in the same sentence.. - 20/10/2012 03:58:26 AM 786 Views
Get a grip. Your response is just what I tried to avoid. - 20/10/2012 04:33:40 AM 712 Views
The more fool you. - 21/10/2012 05:55:30 AM 807 Views
Ha! Point. *NM* - 20/10/2012 05:40:34 AM 586 Views
Marriage is always a choice, whatever the motive(s.) - 22/10/2012 04:00:40 PM 741 Views
I am fine with it if all existing parties to the marriage consent to each addition. - 20/10/2012 10:10:19 AM 821 Views
I got no opinion on it. - 20/10/2012 12:51:43 PM 839 Views
The idea of a group marriage makes me uncomfortable - 20/10/2012 04:19:48 PM 715 Views
As long as it is equitable - 20/10/2012 05:55:57 PM 712 Views
The state shouldn't even recognize marriage beyond name changes anyway - 21/10/2012 03:52:40 AM 787 Views
Indeed - 21/10/2012 06:04:41 AM 844 Views
I don't give a damn what you call it. That's your business. - 21/10/2012 06:17:40 AM 1116 Views
And so? - 21/10/2012 07:05:08 AM 739 Views
Re: And so? - 21/10/2012 04:10:19 PM 923 Views
Legal contracts must be open to all consenting adults, or none. - 22/10/2012 03:11:55 PM 802 Views
You are correct, yet your reasoning is flawed. - 23/10/2012 03:20:25 PM 718 Views
Again, the Equal Protection Clause has far less force on private entities than on government. - 23/10/2012 03:52:06 PM 658 Views
Much less force, yes. - 23/10/2012 04:15:03 PM 663 Views
The crux is "If it's my business, it's my business." - 23/10/2012 04:43:25 PM 738 Views
+1 *NM* - 23/10/2012 07:36:46 PM 332 Views
No the analogy is not exact, nor legally the same... - 23/10/2012 07:33:25 PM 631 Views
Analogy is not equality, only similarity. - 24/10/2012 04:37:29 PM 835 Views
We aren't asking for something better or different. - 23/10/2012 04:27:04 PM 721 Views
yeah, it is very circular. - 23/10/2012 07:44:33 PM 758 Views

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