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Re: How old are you? Aeryn Send a noteboard - 28/09/2009 04:07:52 PM


I should say this. I may say I don't not want him, but I do. I can't help but smile around him. Hugging him feels like coming home. But my ego screams in protest.

That last part does not make sense. What does your ego have to say when you feel comfortable and happy around him? Isn't that all that should matter?


When he acts pushy or clingy (like insisting that I want to let him spend the night when I kept saying no), it makes me angry. Like he doesn't believe that I mean what I say, or that I have the willpower to follow through. When he want me to do as he says, despite what I say, even if I'm obviously that I'm conflicted, it bothers me a lot.

If someone has sex with me after less than a week, tells me she loves me, I'd probably be clingy too. Or scared off, depends. But I am not sure what to think of him, multiple marriages sounds terrible, of course.

You gotta think about what exactly you want, and if you want that with him.

Yeah, thinking straight would be a good start. I'm 26 btw.
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