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I thought so too. nossy Send a noteboard - 13/06/2012 08:27:45 PM
I talked to another friend about this this morning, and she is very Christian. Very. I was surprised to find out that she agrees with me, rather than the black/white, cut and dried opinion of the first friend. Her response when I mentioned this surprise: "I got old. I realized that the world isn't what we want it to be, it is what it is." )

Good for her. The spirit of what she said resonates with how Christians ought to interact with others. I'm also pro-life, but assuming that pro-choicers take delight in ending unborn lives is simply callous. Just as I have some deeply-held moral and personal points for my view, I have to believe that opposing views are just as nuanced. It doesn't mean that I have to agree with them, or that we're both somehow magically right. What it does mean is that we can talk about it like human beings and not freak out upon discovering an opposing worldview or point of view.

That last part is important. I woke up to the concept about a decade ago, that if my beliefs can't take some knocking and still come up strong, there is probably something I'm missing. I think it is important to have the difficult conversations, but that respectful behavior towards each other is paramount.

One of my cousins comes to mind. He's a very vocal atheist and posts things about it. I don't block him or his posts, and I'll often check the link. He's family, so I show him love regardless of disagreements. Same goes with my other friends that I disagree with, even on big issues. Being reasonable with people of opposing/different worldviews is part of growing up. So, good for you, too! (for not picking a fight ... I'm sure that was tempting)

I didn't pick a fight, but I did put my foot down. I do not let people talk to me in such a way, and I explained my feelings and how we were going to move forward (in an email).
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Facebook eye-openers.(partially NSSP) - 13/06/2012 05:10:53 AM 1225 Views
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*NM* - 13/06/2012 08:51:04 PM 380 Views
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You complain about football comments, and then you post things like that? - 13/06/2012 10:31:10 PM 688 Views
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Maybe you can clarify... - 13/06/2012 02:01:58 PM 754 Views
Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 04:55:28 PM 869 Views
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Hm. - 13/06/2012 09:52:58 PM 778 Views
Did I mention - 21/06/2012 07:35:14 AM 741 Views
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Yes. - 13/06/2012 05:06:02 PM 728 Views
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Once upon a time, I was good at that, prided myself on it. - 13/06/2012 09:27:11 PM 695 Views
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Hahaha yeah - 13/06/2012 04:21:11 PM 769 Views
Or big girl pants? - 13/06/2012 05:11:09 PM 771 Views
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I've been thinking about that. - 13/06/2012 05:02:17 PM 724 Views
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I thought so too. - 13/06/2012 08:27:45 PM 726 Views
Re: I thought so too. - 13/06/2012 09:22:38 PM 798 Views
Very well said, and done. - 13/06/2012 09:18:37 PM 756 Views
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I think you might have missed what my point was. - 13/06/2012 11:51:15 PM 725 Views
Looks that way; sorry. - 14/06/2012 12:47:16 AM 654 Views
usually hide them if it annoys me for longer than a week *NM* - 13/06/2012 04:51:56 PM 306 Views
Most folks I can tolerate. - 13/06/2012 05:55:31 PM 766 Views
My Facebook friends tend to be tolerable. - 13/06/2012 07:31:59 PM 732 Views
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Facewhat? *NM* - 14/06/2012 02:37:47 AM 287 Views
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I find a lot of interesting news on Facebook - 14/06/2012 01:37:59 PM 789 Views
Same on the replacing much of what I once received from this community. - 14/06/2012 09:48:15 PM 652 Views
For me, if it's everyone once in a while, I'll let it slide. - 14/06/2012 01:53:58 PM 724 Views

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