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Thanks for the support Dark Knight Send a noteboard - 01/02/2012 08:01:27 PM
I enjoyed your post. It was very clear that these were your personal opinions, born out of experience & preference. People reacted to the phrasing I think "Do this. Don't do this." rather than what you actually meant. And I'd rather people share their own opinions/experiences with as much honesty as you did, than criticize you. And the personal attacks are entirely uncalled for.

It did spark some interesting side conversations, I'll be sure to chime in later.


Yeah in hindsight I shouldn't have said "Do this. Don't do this." I should have just related it to my own personal observations instead of making it sound like a set of instructions. I guess some people don't like to even be quasi-told want to do.
Formerly Mat Bloody Cauthon on Wotmania, blessed be its name
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Uncomfortable sex facts (because this board needs more spice) Dark Knight - 31/01/2012 04:56:13 PM 2736 Views
there's nothing wrong with laughter in general LadyLorraine - 31/01/2012 05:14:23 PM 1493 Views
There is a reason it is uncomfortable. Narg - 31/01/2012 05:43:22 PM 1656 Views
What, are we going to get stupid clichés about geeks on a geek site? Legolas - 01/02/2012 09:59:41 PM 1471 Views
Wait, wait, wait! Rebekah - 01/02/2012 10:08:38 PM 1530 Views
I didn't exactly think this was a mystery... Legolas - 01/02/2012 10:15:57 PM 1419 Views
It was to me! Rebekah - 01/02/2012 10:19:15 PM 1599 Views
I see. Legolas - 01/02/2012 10:24:47 PM 1384 Views
Re: I see. Rebekah - 01/02/2012 10:28:50 PM 1468 Views
Come back when you're an adult. *NM* Tom - 31/01/2012 05:59:52 PM 768 Views
Ok I'm back *NM* Dark Knight - 31/01/2012 06:03:57 PM 882 Views
Oh please. *NM* Aeryn - 01/02/2012 07:02:10 PM 824 Views
It's pretty clear that the poster is hypersensitive and immature. Tom - 01/02/2012 07:54:55 PM 1429 Views
It's called anger. Call it immaturity if it suits you. Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 08:04:23 PM 1521 Views
You also act as if I actively insulted you... which I haven't. *NM* Helene - 01/02/2012 09:35:48 PM 855 Views
Actively? Maybe, maybe not. Passively? Definitely Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 09:57:02 PM 1421 Views
I think her point is that she's not using that phrase as an insult LadyLorraine - 01/02/2012 10:01:13 PM 1283 Views
I like your list. Orange - 31/01/2012 06:00:28 PM 1430 Views
Oh for goodness sake I don't even know where to start, there's so much wrong with this. Morgawse - 31/01/2012 07:02:34 PM 1576 Views
How old are you? Dark Knight - 31/01/2012 07:36:33 PM 1388 Views
26. Not that I can see how it matters. Morgawse - 31/01/2012 07:40:43 PM 1656 Views
Re: 26. Not that I can see how it matters. Dark Knight - 31/01/2012 08:04:52 PM 1669 Views
Someone tells you to grow up and this your response? Narg - 31/01/2012 09:51:31 PM 1554 Views
Yes, it is a mature, reasonable angry response Dark Knight - 31/01/2012 10:10:08 PM 1582 Views
Re: Yes, it is a mature, reasonable angry response Morgawse - 31/01/2012 10:43:16 PM 1464 Views
No, I was filling in the blank Dark Knight - 31/01/2012 10:52:30 PM 1427 Views
I think you'll find the arrow was supposed to point at the quote of your post below. Legolas - 31/01/2012 11:11:15 PM 1340 Views
It's not so much that what you write is "wrong", but it shows you are a bit naive and inexperienced Helene - 31/01/2012 07:28:09 PM 1588 Views
Jesus Christ people Dark Knight - 31/01/2012 07:35:28 PM 1577 Views
LOL... I'm not a prude. Let me elaborate. Helene - 31/01/2012 08:19:22 PM 1565 Views
aah ah aha your last paragraph made me laugh LadyLorraine - 31/01/2012 08:26:12 PM 1509 Views
and yet another advantage of marriage Ray - 02/02/2012 04:45:41 PM 1486 Views
Re: LOL... I'm not a prude. Let me elaborate. Dark Knight - 31/01/2012 09:47:23 PM 1470 Views
Just to jump in for a second. heartbreak - 31/01/2012 10:50:12 PM 1589 Views
People seem to be missing my point Dark Knight - 31/01/2012 10:58:42 PM 1528 Views
'Weird' is a loaded word. It carries a judgment. Morgawse - 31/01/2012 11:03:12 PM 1450 Views
Goodness, people, they are not "rules." He clearly states these are his PERSONAL opinions. Aeryn - 01/02/2012 07:10:27 PM 1379 Views
#3 is really not an option. Not with this crowd, anyways *NM* Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 08:06:25 PM 810 Views
I point you to the title of his post: "Uncomfortable sex FACTS" (caps mine). Rebekah - 01/02/2012 09:36:00 PM 1358 Views
Facts for me *NM* Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 09:44:43 PM 769 Views
*NM* Rebekah - 01/02/2012 09:46:06 PM 777 Views
....That is not the definition of a fact. *NM* LadyLorraine - 01/02/2012 09:48:10 PM 780 Views
Wow, you really want to do this? Just let it go Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 09:53:52 PM 1392 Views
I wasn't about to pick a fight with you about it LadyLorraine - 01/02/2012 09:56:42 PM 1456 Views
Quote: "Here are some musings from my personal experience". Context matters. Nitpicking is annoying. *NM* Aeryn - 02/02/2012 01:27:00 AM 826 Views
He made hard and fast rules??? callandor1000 - 01/02/2012 05:00:30 AM 1499 Views
This board takes itself very seriously at times, it's weird *NM* beetnemesis - 01/02/2012 02:00:04 PM 858 Views
Thank you! Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 03:25:57 PM 1373 Views
I'm still pretty confused. Many of the people who are acting immature towards you callandor1000 - 02/02/2012 05:27:49 AM 1390 Views
Different strokes for different folks Helene - 01/02/2012 04:38:45 PM 1468 Views
Please stop questioning my sexual experience Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 04:49:28 PM 1339 Views
You just complained that you don't have sex often enough to laugh during sex... and now claim to Helene - 01/02/2012 05:15:21 PM 1377 Views
I did? Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 05:37:55 PM 1270 Views
*snort* I don't think anyone should have jumped down your throat... LadyLorraine - 01/02/2012 05:49:27 PM 1413 Views
Anybody who hasn't jumped down my throat hasn't replied with anything I can respond to Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 06:04:53 PM 1368 Views
To me, that just sounds like you're looking for agreement, not discussion LadyLorraine - 01/02/2012 08:07:19 PM 1373 Views
I didn't call you a virgin...? Helene - 01/02/2012 08:23:25 PM 1357 Views
Man you just don't get it Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 08:43:21 PM 1447 Views
since you asked... LadyLorraine - 01/02/2012 09:14:44 PM 1260 Views
Re: since you asked... Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 09:44:03 PM 1602 Views
Helene has yet to actually insult you LadyLorraine - 01/02/2012 09:55:32 PM 1368 Views
I am overreacting a little bit Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 10:00:09 PM 1375 Views
see dude, here's part of the problem LadyLorraine - 01/02/2012 10:03:27 PM 1281 Views
The caps really aren't going to help your case, you do realize... Legolas - 01/02/2012 09:16:50 PM 1383 Views
It was my last resort, man. I was talking to a brick wall *NM* Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 09:37:20 PM 873 Views
You're a real piece of work. *NM* Narg - 01/02/2012 09:20:45 PM 788 Views
How so? Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 09:45:41 PM 1322 Views
You sure get worked up Helene - 01/02/2012 09:29:34 PM 1297 Views
I suppose asking if "you're a bit of a twat" isn't an insult, but just a reasonable hypothesis? Dan - 02/02/2012 12:41:50 AM 1349 Views
So after someone uses the online equivalent of yelling at me Helene - 02/02/2012 12:58:06 AM 1391 Views
Yes, the twat comment wasn't okay either. ironclad - 02/02/2012 09:02:15 AM 1335 Views
And here I was about to write another post about hardcore pornography *NM* beetnemesis - 31/01/2012 07:31:14 PM 803 Views
While I agree with the ladies... ironclad - 31/01/2012 11:42:25 PM 1480 Views
One thing I learned this past year... MightyYT - 01/02/2012 05:48:51 AM 1404 Views
ironclad - 01/02/2012 08:26:05 AM 1567 Views
I think he does... Great Lord of Chaos - 01/02/2012 03:30:58 PM 1347 Views
I can't recall the scene. What was it again? *NM* Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 08:05:28 PM 782 Views
Not having to shave my balls is just anohter reason to be glad I am married *NM* Ray - 01/02/2012 04:56:19 PM 932 Views
well if the damn system is going to double post then add no condom required as another reason *NM* Ray - 01/02/2012 04:56:20 PM 781 Views
Don't know why everyone jumped on you like they did. Aeryn - 01/02/2012 07:07:14 PM 1546 Views
Thanks for the support Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 08:01:27 PM 1307 Views
Perhaps they don't read enough "sex advice" articles online? Every list is phrased that way. *NM* Aeryn - 02/02/2012 01:29:12 AM 774 Views
Admittedly, I tend to find online sex tips articles to be pretty juvinile too *NM* Helene - 02/02/2012 01:36:08 AM 812 Views
Ya don't say. Joel - 02/02/2012 11:21:45 PM 1307 Views
It means I'm not part of the target demographic for these articles. *NM* Helene - 03/02/2012 08:53:49 AM 814 Views
You linked me to one of them once upon a time. Joel - 03/02/2012 09:11:58 AM 1266 Views
The article I linked you to was wholly different from the type of article Aeryn was referring to Helene - 03/02/2012 03:03:50 PM 1507 Views
Ah, then I do not feel as bad (just maybe a bit guilty for the comparison.) Joel - 03/02/2012 03:22:52 PM 1312 Views
This thread cracks me up. *NM* Rebekah - 01/02/2012 09:34:52 PM 806 Views
It got out of hand, sadly Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 09:50:46 PM 1314 Views
That perennial issue of tone on the internet, huh? Rebekah - 01/02/2012 09:59:29 PM 1453 Views
ignoring things is usually the best way to keep them from squiggling out of hand LadyLorraine - 01/02/2012 09:59:35 PM 1251 Views
True, true. I let my anger get the best of me. Lessons learned. Dark Knight - 01/02/2012 10:02:57 PM 1370 Views
that's because it's gross LadyLorraine - 01/02/2012 10:05:36 PM 1511 Views
I'm kind of upset by it and wishing I hadn't posted at all, to be honest. Morgawse - 01/02/2012 10:58:51 PM 1922 Views
Uh huh, that discussion completely went south Stephen - 02/02/2012 12:27:02 AM 1336 Views
So full of shit. Dan - 02/02/2012 12:33:32 AM 1577 Views
Man, if I had a nickel for everytime THAT has happened.... Joel - 02/02/2012 11:16:07 PM 1400 Views
Agreed. Joel - 02/02/2012 11:19:41 PM 1204 Views
Helene and Morgawse are worthless and pedantic nothings. Ignore them next time. Thread was fine. *NM* Dan - 01/02/2012 10:40:53 PM 870 Views
....well thanks, buddy. *NM* Morgawse - 01/02/2012 10:57:07 PM 867 Views
Uncalled for and completely untrue ironclad - 01/02/2012 11:03:52 PM 1490 Views
Right. Really? Dan - 02/02/2012 12:36:28 AM 1546 Views
I referred to you making a rude and general statement about people I doubt you know very well ironclad - 02/02/2012 08:52:09 AM 1341 Views
I don't know what bone you have to pick with me, but I doubt I deserve it Helene - 02/02/2012 12:38:45 AM 1373 Views
And people complain about the political arguments. *NM* ranagrande - 02/02/2012 12:31:06 AM 771 Views
Just what I was thinking. Joel - 02/02/2012 11:17:16 PM 1252 Views
I laughed at this thread. Hard. *NM* Ghavrel - 02/02/2012 02:51:45 AM 725 Views
Heh-heh, heh-heh, you said "hard"! Macharius - 02/02/2012 04:06:43 AM 1310 Views
Man, there was some piling on in this thread. I didn't think your post was that bad. everynametaken - 02/02/2012 06:06:02 AM 1889 Views
LOL ironclad - 02/02/2012 09:01:22 AM 1455 Views
Re: LOL Macharius - 02/02/2012 04:36:10 PM 1401 Views
You misunderstood ironclad - 02/02/2012 06:20:15 PM 1403 Views
I think the board has PMS this week ßelals Girl - 02/02/2012 02:13:58 PM 1286 Views
Re: Uncomfortable sex facts (because this board needs more spice) j-whitt987 - 02/02/2012 02:47:45 PM 1557 Views
Too crass. For real spice try the hot sex in this video Sports_Gambler - 03/02/2012 12:30:21 PM 1356 Views
The cuts to a woman cleaning her kitchen kinda ruin it for me *NM* ironclad - 03/02/2012 12:36:25 PM 836 Views
Lets search for more hot sex scenes then *NM* Sports_Gambler - 03/02/2012 12:53:00 PM 786 Views
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