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I love driving. Avendesora Send a noteboard - 14/12/2011 03:24:59 PM
I will say that I am one to look too hard at the odds that I might get injured while doing something. I have the tendency to start getting really worked up about things. Then I realize that it's all in my head. I bite the bullet, and do it. Experience is the best teacher. My favorite time to freak out is just before driving in the snow. On the highway. With tractor trailers and poor visibility. I have learned to drive in terrible weather fairly well. I have learned that precautions can be taken to reduce your chances of an accident. I have been stuck in the snow, miles from civilization with no cell service. I now have a winter emergency kit in my trunk. Hitting a deer is also a real concern where I live. Shit, I have to get to work and otherwise live my life. I can't not drive.

I really suggest you take a little vacation in the country. Get a farmer to teach you how to drive. Drive tractors, ATV's, lawn mowers, pickup trucks. The car will seem like a piece of cake. Then visit in the winter and do doughnuts in the mall parking lot before the place opens. It's how all my friends' parents taught them to learn how to steer out of a skid. At the time I was glad my dad never did that to me, but now I wish he'd had. :D

If the country driving lesson isn't likely, take a defensive driving class. You'll learn a few tools to help you. Good luck!

Edited to add: I've driven in a few places, and hated driving in NYC the most. It sucks.
*MySmiley*

I believe all news and research that supports my opinion, and dismiss the rest as conspiracy and lies.
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I'm tempted to take this opportunity to poke fun at New Yorkers. - 13/12/2011 05:20:14 PM 1018 Views
Your first instinct was right, trust your instincts. *NM* - 14/12/2011 03:16:51 AM 415 Views
I failed my first test. - 13/12/2011 05:49:58 PM 1137 Views
I would love to drive on empty country roads. - 13/12/2011 10:08:35 PM 916 Views
I had to take the driving test 3 time before I passed (posted at the wrong place ) - 13/12/2011 11:43:44 PM 1006 Views
Congratulations on passing it! - 14/12/2011 12:18:18 AM 934 Views
13 yrs old. - 13/12/2011 06:02:22 PM 1146 Views
I don't blame you at all for not wanting to drive in NYC. - 13/12/2011 06:28:26 PM 1142 Views
Re: I don't blame you at all for not wanting to drive in NYC. - 13/12/2011 10:29:20 PM 1030 Views
It must be harder to overcome that natural fear in NYC. - 13/12/2011 06:44:28 PM 971 Views
Yeah, absolutely. - 13/12/2011 10:32:25 PM 1111 Views
Or drive your drunk sister home from a party. *NM* - 14/12/2011 05:27:01 PM 496 Views
Driving IS overrated. - 13/12/2011 07:01:02 PM 988 Views
Re: Driving IS overrated. - 13/12/2011 10:43:09 PM 813 Views
Isn't it traditional to fail your first test? Or is that just around here? - 13/12/2011 08:14:01 PM 985 Views
I wouldn't think so - 13/12/2011 08:25:36 PM 862 Views
I'm not in any state. - 13/12/2011 08:31:30 PM 941 Views
Re: I'm not in any state. - 13/12/2011 10:56:38 PM 903 Views
I think it depends on where you live - 13/12/2011 09:11:13 PM 882 Views
Re: I think it depends on where you live - 13/12/2011 09:34:30 PM 1059 Views
When I was in New Jersey... - 13/12/2011 11:30:59 PM 981 Views
Maybe they're the ones who couldn't hack driving in NYC? *NM* - 14/12/2011 12:21:09 AM 529 Views
I was even rather nervous about taking lessons and failed my first - 14/12/2011 08:30:25 AM 1087 Views
I love driving. - 14/12/2011 03:24:59 PM 1020 Views
Re: I love driving. - 14/12/2011 05:44:57 PM 851 Views
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I thought it quite clever, actually. - 14/12/2011 06:54:27 PM 833 Views
Me, too. - 18/12/2011 04:31:29 AM 920 Views
Drive safely! - 18/12/2011 04:58:01 AM 1002 Views
Re: Me, three. - 18/12/2011 07:37:55 PM 991 Views
Re: Me, three. - 19/12/2011 06:10:20 AM 873 Views
Welcome home. *NM* - 19/12/2011 04:41:26 PM 434 Views
Did you ever attend a driving school? *NM* - 14/12/2011 05:29:33 PM 429 Views
I don't think so. - 15/12/2011 05:22:09 AM 1031 Views
Oh. - 15/12/2011 08:32:59 AM 1089 Views
Yes, you did. - 15/12/2011 04:44:48 PM 935 Views
Re: Yes, you did. - 16/12/2011 12:25:30 AM 933 Views
Re: Yes, you did. - 16/12/2011 04:42:40 PM 1138 Views
That's not a sign. - 14/12/2011 05:29:36 PM 991 Views
I take exception to this. - 14/12/2011 06:29:40 PM 949 Views
Whoa. - 15/12/2011 07:21:52 AM 1017 Views
Fewer cars on the road. Fewer double-parked cars. *NM* - 15/12/2011 06:25:21 PM 381 Views
Also: you have no fear. *NM* - 15/12/2011 11:59:34 PM 494 Views
LOL! You guys are funny. - 17/12/2011 06:52:22 AM 1009 Views
Also, you can tell when there's someone around the corner, because of the headlights. - 19/12/2011 04:18:26 PM 975 Views
Oooh, that's a good point. - 19/12/2011 05:17:16 PM 1096 Views
For what it's worth NYC takes some getting used to. - 14/12/2011 06:43:38 PM 811 Views
Re: For what it's worth NYC takes some getting used to. - 14/12/2011 07:05:20 PM 879 Views
It's really not that bad - 16/12/2011 01:03:43 AM 986 Views
Amusing (to me) comparison to sex risks. - 17/12/2011 05:50:16 PM 999 Views
That last part: just a joke. - 17/12/2011 06:06:43 PM 1049 Views
Re: Amusing (to me) comparison to sex risks. - 17/12/2011 06:07:51 PM 1044 Views
No. But it is true that my risk aversion coefficient is too high. - 17/12/2011 06:49:33 PM 845 Views
Isn't learning to drive in NYC sort of like - 18/12/2011 04:21:47 AM 957 Views
Finally! The right word. - 19/12/2011 02:19:53 AM 872 Views
Re: Finally! The right word. - 19/12/2011 02:51:51 AM 824 Views
No problem. - 19/12/2011 06:36:59 AM 1256 Views
Don't worry about it it. I'm sure you'll get over it eventually. - 18/12/2011 09:58:59 AM 970 Views

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