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I love driving. Avendesora Send a noteboard - 14/12/2011 03:24:59 PM
I will say that I am one to look too hard at the odds that I might get injured while doing something. I have the tendency to start getting really worked up about things. Then I realize that it's all in my head. I bite the bullet, and do it. Experience is the best teacher. My favorite time to freak out is just before driving in the snow. On the highway. With tractor trailers and poor visibility. I have learned to drive in terrible weather fairly well. I have learned that precautions can be taken to reduce your chances of an accident. I have been stuck in the snow, miles from civilization with no cell service. I now have a winter emergency kit in my trunk. Hitting a deer is also a real concern where I live. Shit, I have to get to work and otherwise live my life. I can't not drive.

I really suggest you take a little vacation in the country. Get a farmer to teach you how to drive. Drive tractors, ATV's, lawn mowers, pickup trucks. The car will seem like a piece of cake. Then visit in the winter and do doughnuts in the mall parking lot before the place opens. It's how all my friends' parents taught them to learn how to steer out of a skid. At the time I was glad my dad never did that to me, but now I wish he'd had. :D

If the country driving lesson isn't likely, take a defensive driving class. You'll learn a few tools to help you. Good luck!

Edited to add: I've driven in a few places, and hated driving in NYC the most. It sucks.
*MySmiley*

I believe all news and research that supports my opinion, and dismiss the rest as conspiracy and lies.
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I'm tempted to take this opportunity to poke fun at New Yorkers. - 13/12/2011 05:20:14 PM 1027 Views
Your first instinct was right, trust your instincts. *NM* - 14/12/2011 03:16:51 AM 418 Views
I failed my first test. - 13/12/2011 05:49:58 PM 1147 Views
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I had to take the driving test 3 time before I passed (posted at the wrong place ) - 13/12/2011 11:43:44 PM 1014 Views
Congratulations on passing it! - 14/12/2011 12:18:18 AM 945 Views
13 yrs old. - 13/12/2011 06:02:22 PM 1155 Views
I don't blame you at all for not wanting to drive in NYC. - 13/12/2011 06:28:26 PM 1151 Views
Re: I don't blame you at all for not wanting to drive in NYC. - 13/12/2011 10:29:20 PM 1038 Views
It must be harder to overcome that natural fear in NYC. - 13/12/2011 06:44:28 PM 984 Views
Yeah, absolutely. - 13/12/2011 10:32:25 PM 1120 Views
Or drive your drunk sister home from a party. *NM* - 14/12/2011 05:27:01 PM 499 Views
Driving IS overrated. - 13/12/2011 07:01:02 PM 1002 Views
Re: Driving IS overrated. - 13/12/2011 10:43:09 PM 823 Views
Isn't it traditional to fail your first test? Or is that just around here? - 13/12/2011 08:14:01 PM 996 Views
I wouldn't think so - 13/12/2011 08:25:36 PM 873 Views
I'm not in any state. - 13/12/2011 08:31:30 PM 951 Views
Re: I'm not in any state. - 13/12/2011 10:56:38 PM 914 Views
I think it depends on where you live - 13/12/2011 09:11:13 PM 892 Views
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When I was in New Jersey... - 13/12/2011 11:30:59 PM 988 Views
Maybe they're the ones who couldn't hack driving in NYC? *NM* - 14/12/2011 12:21:09 AM 533 Views
I was even rather nervous about taking lessons and failed my first - 14/12/2011 08:30:25 AM 1097 Views
I love driving. - 14/12/2011 03:24:59 PM 1027 Views
Re: I love driving. - 14/12/2011 05:44:57 PM 858 Views
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I thought it quite clever, actually. - 14/12/2011 06:54:27 PM 845 Views
Me, too. - 18/12/2011 04:31:29 AM 929 Views
Drive safely! - 18/12/2011 04:58:01 AM 1012 Views
Re: Me, three. - 18/12/2011 07:37:55 PM 1004 Views
Re: Me, three. - 19/12/2011 06:10:20 AM 884 Views
Welcome home. *NM* - 19/12/2011 04:41:26 PM 437 Views
Did you ever attend a driving school? *NM* - 14/12/2011 05:29:33 PM 433 Views
I don't think so. - 15/12/2011 05:22:09 AM 1041 Views
Oh. - 15/12/2011 08:32:59 AM 1098 Views
Yes, you did. - 15/12/2011 04:44:48 PM 945 Views
Re: Yes, you did. - 16/12/2011 12:25:30 AM 943 Views
Re: Yes, you did. - 16/12/2011 04:42:40 PM 1146 Views
That's not a sign. - 14/12/2011 05:29:36 PM 1000 Views
I take exception to this. - 14/12/2011 06:29:40 PM 957 Views
Whoa. - 15/12/2011 07:21:52 AM 1028 Views
Fewer cars on the road. Fewer double-parked cars. *NM* - 15/12/2011 06:25:21 PM 386 Views
Also: you have no fear. *NM* - 15/12/2011 11:59:34 PM 498 Views
LOL! You guys are funny. - 17/12/2011 06:52:22 AM 1015 Views
Also, you can tell when there's someone around the corner, because of the headlights. - 19/12/2011 04:18:26 PM 986 Views
Oooh, that's a good point. - 19/12/2011 05:17:16 PM 1107 Views
For what it's worth NYC takes some getting used to. - 14/12/2011 06:43:38 PM 820 Views
Re: For what it's worth NYC takes some getting used to. - 14/12/2011 07:05:20 PM 889 Views
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Amusing (to me) comparison to sex risks. - 17/12/2011 05:50:16 PM 1013 Views
That last part: just a joke. - 17/12/2011 06:06:43 PM 1058 Views
Re: Amusing (to me) comparison to sex risks. - 17/12/2011 06:07:51 PM 1052 Views
No. But it is true that my risk aversion coefficient is too high. - 17/12/2011 06:49:33 PM 853 Views
Isn't learning to drive in NYC sort of like - 18/12/2011 04:21:47 AM 966 Views
Finally! The right word. - 19/12/2011 02:19:53 AM 883 Views
Re: Finally! The right word. - 19/12/2011 02:51:51 AM 834 Views
No problem. - 19/12/2011 06:36:59 AM 1273 Views
Don't worry about it it. I'm sure you'll get over it eventually. - 18/12/2011 09:58:59 AM 979 Views

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