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That's right! Vivien Send a noteboard - 30/06/2011 12:04:49 AM
We have no way of knowing how much visual attention you lavish on her. But it might be worth a shot to dial it up a little, just to see. Even though I'm not feeling insecure, it still makes me feel good when my fiance ogles me. And I surely give her some visual appreciation of my own every chance I get. It can be especially fun in public.

That might not be the solution to your issue, but there wouldn't be any harm in trying, and it just might do some good.

EDIT - In fact, thinking about it, this is one of the things I love about my own relationship. The way we constantly and shamelessly check each other out, both in public and at home by ourselves.


Nothing to do with insecurity. Some people need to be looked at and admired, or just paid attention to. Doesn't even matter if it's romantic. Even if I'm spending time with someone totally platonically, if someone's not looking at me it's going to bother me. I've even made comments to a few people on non emergency cell phone use when one has the option of interacting with a real live person.
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My girlfriend is insane - 29/06/2011 03:49:38 PM 1403 Views
I doubt she's trying to push you away. She's just that needy and insecure. - 29/06/2011 03:57:14 PM 550 Views
Is this just a rant or do you want advice? *NM* - 29/06/2011 03:59:37 PM 280 Views
Sounds to me ... - 29/06/2011 04:08:07 PM 716 Views
Nate is advocating a calm, reasonable approach. - 29/06/2011 11:55:54 PM 572 Views
You need to have a very serious discussion about this with her - 29/06/2011 04:53:37 PM 611 Views
Run. - 29/06/2011 05:28:38 PM 608 Views
I'm with Amy... Run! - 29/06/2011 05:52:08 PM 581 Views
If she's worth it in other ways, I wouldn't run. - 29/06/2011 05:58:46 PM 653 Views
You are too weak. PUA theory says do the total opposite of what common sense tells you - 29/06/2011 06:03:09 PM 677 Views
Don't apply pua to a long term relationship... - 29/06/2011 06:11:36 PM 673 Views
It should work here too - 29/06/2011 06:25:23 PM 650 Views
Seriously, stop buying into pua - 29/06/2011 06:41:56 PM 569 Views
Honestly, check into her for cheating. - 29/06/2011 06:13:15 PM 744 Views
Agreed. - 29/06/2011 06:21:06 PM 565 Views
This is a possibility. *NM* - 29/06/2011 11:49:03 PM 236 Views
A possibility. *NM* - 30/06/2011 04:53:03 AM 235 Views
How old are you both? - 29/06/2011 06:20:02 PM 563 Views
Insane chicks are hot...for an hour at a time. - 29/06/2011 07:05:50 PM 596 Views
Decide which part of the Crazy/Hot Scale she is on... - 29/06/2011 08:37:37 PM 601 Views
I agree with what Nate said - 29/06/2011 07:53:27 PM 571 Views
Does that mean you're getting her a premie? - 29/06/2011 09:03:18 PM 639 Views
Ogle her constantly. - 29/06/2011 09:21:41 PM 647 Views
^ Danny and Vivien potentially have a point. - 29/06/2011 11:00:41 PM 687 Views
That's right! - 30/06/2011 12:04:49 AM 598 Views
That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know. - 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM 518 Views
I did not use the word constant. - 30/06/2011 12:36:29 AM 585 Views
*shrug* I'm just saying - 30/06/2011 01:45:49 AM 522 Views
Having a need isn't the same thing as being needy. - 30/06/2011 02:49:12 AM 672 Views
Yeah, I'm not trying to say (either of them) are bad people - 30/06/2011 03:33:59 AM 523 Views
Yes - 30/06/2011 05:16:23 PM 623 Views
Buy sunglasses. *NM* - 30/06/2011 12:36:31 AM 267 Views
*NM* - 30/06/2011 01:53:13 AM 274 Views
Re: There's no telling if... - 30/06/2011 02:11:27 AM 554 Views
Somebody I talked to brought up a valid possibility that I didn't know existed. I was wrong to jump - 30/06/2011 03:41:53 AM 556 Views
I can't use them. They turn me into the Mega Bitch. - 30/06/2011 08:21:17 PM 1025 Views
You are wise. - 04/07/2011 12:02:35 PM 925 Views
We're all just a little bit insane. - 30/06/2011 05:20:22 PM 538 Views
Tell her every thing you said here emphasis the last sentence - 04/07/2011 01:38:43 AM 593 Views

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