We have no way of knowing how much visual attention you lavish on her. But it might be worth a shot to dial it up a little, just to see. Even though I'm not feeling insecure, it still makes me feel good when my fiance ogles me. And I surely give her some visual appreciation of my own every chance I get. It can be especially fun in public.
That might not be the solution to your issue, but there wouldn't be any harm in trying, and it just might do some good.
EDIT - In fact, thinking about it, this is one of the things I love about my own relationship. The way we constantly and shamelessly check each other out, both in public and at home by ourselves.
That might not be the solution to your issue, but there wouldn't be any harm in trying, and it just might do some good.
EDIT - In fact, thinking about it, this is one of the things I love about my own relationship. The way we constantly and shamelessly check each other out, both in public and at home by ourselves.
Nothing to do with insecurity. Some people need to be looked at and admired, or just paid attention to. Doesn't even matter if it's romantic. Even if I'm spending time with someone totally platonically, if someone's not looking at me it's going to bother me. I've even made comments to a few people on non emergency cell phone use when one has the option of interacting with a real live person.
My girlfriend is insane
- 29/06/2011 03:49:38 PM
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I doubt she's trying to push you away. She's just that needy and insecure.
- 29/06/2011 03:57:14 PM
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You are too weak. PUA theory says do the total opposite of what common sense tells you
- 29/06/2011 06:03:09 PM
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Don't apply pua to a long term relationship...
- 29/06/2011 06:11:36 PM
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Dump her. Tell her you never were interested in others, but now are due to her constant nagging. *NM*
- 29/06/2011 06:27:59 PM
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"Baby, you were so insistent when I wasn't doing it that I thought you wanted me too!"
- 29/06/2011 06:32:48 PM
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That sounds so callous. But it is what I would do. I think that someone could get away with calling
- 29/06/2011 11:51:43 PM
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When someone complains about a gf/bf, when is it not the consensus that the relationship should end?
- 30/06/2011 12:13:28 AM
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I am glad you called me on that. I was wrong to jump to jump on the "dump her" bandwagon
- 30/06/2011 03:46:24 AM
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It's just an annoyed rant! Unlikely she's as insane as the consensus in the thread.
- 29/06/2011 09:11:45 PM
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Ogle her constantly.
- 29/06/2011 09:21:41 PM
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^ Danny and Vivien potentially have a point.
- 29/06/2011 11:00:41 PM
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That's right!
- 30/06/2011 12:04:49 AM
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That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know.
- 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM
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Having a need isn't the same thing as being needy.
- 30/06/2011 02:49:12 AM
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Buy sunglasses. *NM*
- 30/06/2011 12:36:31 AM
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The man with the practical advice out of left field while everyone else is arguing at home base. *NM*
- 30/06/2011 01:41:12 AM
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*NM*
Somebody I talked to brought up a valid possibility that I didn't know existed. I was wrong to jump
- 30/06/2011 03:41:53 AM
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Good point--those things really screw up some women and different ones have different effects *NM*
- 30/06/2011 01:53:44 PM
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Tell her you're gay so she doesn't need to worry about you seeming to check them out.
- 30/06/2011 11:30:03 AM
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If you've had the DISCUSSION, and she's still nagging you...I'd find it annoying. *NM*
- 01/07/2011 05:50:00 AM
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