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How upset you get about it is up to you but you really don't need to prove anything random thoughts Send a noteboard - 15/06/2011 01:55:46 PM
Not sure where you live but if it is the US you don't need to prove anything to get a divorce just get one if you feel threatened. If he comes after when you leave get the police involved. If you don't and you just want him arrested you have to ask yourself if you really want the legal expense and to have a husband who has to explain his domestic violence record when he applies for a job. Getting the police and courts involved does nothing for you if you plan on staying.

Personally I think you are over reacting if you end the marriage over it but I don't know what else is going on. O would make sure he is very clear on the idea that is not OK. Maybe start salting his coffee for a while and then claiming it was just a joke.
This message last edited by random thoughts on 15/06/2011 at 01:56:23 PM
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It's still hitting, right? - 14/06/2011 10:07:15 PM 798 Views
Yes. That's not okay. *NM* - 14/06/2011 10:21:53 PM 153 Views
Yes. It's not at all ok, and it is a big deal. - 14/06/2011 10:41:47 PM 495 Views
I know they sound like dumb questions. - 14/06/2011 10:49:47 PM 491 Views
No, it's not dumb. - 14/06/2011 11:03:05 PM 440 Views
Yes, it is. - 15/06/2011 03:12:27 AM 430 Views
He shouldn't hit you but don't overreact. - 15/06/2011 05:00:16 AM 454 Views
That all sounds like very good advice. - 15/06/2011 07:47:06 AM 454 Views
Maybe you should start earning a living. *NM* - 15/06/2011 07:52:39 AM 215 Views
THIS *NM* - 15/06/2011 08:02:00 AM 153 Views
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How upset you get about it is up to you but you really don't need to prove anything - 15/06/2011 01:55:46 PM 440 Views
Is it an event or is it a pattern? - 15/06/2011 02:12:50 PM 416 Views
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