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that was funny *NM* random thoughts Send a noteboard - 15/06/2011 02:42:13 AM
You know, where the participants are out out of shape and the camera guy likes assholes too much and the cunnilingus goes on too long and the woman is spitting on the penis (which she thinks is cool for lubing it up but just looks disrespectful and hateful) and everyone is speaking German or Italian or something and the guy is uncircumcised so it alienates me cause it doesn't look enough like my penis to get me into it and the one girl is like a 7 or 8 but her well intentioned friend is a 4 and you're like "out of all your friends, why did you invite her? so he'll last longer?"...

I mean, so I've heard Never watch the stuff, myself.

American girl porn. Oh yeah!

Hey, they may be manipulative prudes, but they know how to make good porn. At least, that's what Tim tells me. Personally, I just use the internet for Facebook, World of Warcraft and discussing TV, movies and books.
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He’s Just Not That Into Anyone (an article about watching porn and men's changing libidos). - 11/06/2011 10:52:10 PM 3187 Views
I disagree with the whole last third or fourth of the article. - 12/06/2011 02:01:40 AM 969 Views
Re: I disagree with the whole last third or fourth of the article. - 12/06/2011 08:49:39 PM 1248 Views
A lot of guys who get hooked on porn don't know how to approach women - 12/06/2011 10:55:17 PM 1189 Views
Funny - 13/06/2011 01:22:28 AM 1159 Views
You obviously never had a fulfilling long term sexual relationship with a woman. - 13/06/2011 10:43:23 AM 929 Views
Oh My - 13/06/2011 03:29:34 PM 965 Views
*giggle* - 13/06/2011 03:46:28 PM 998 Views
What did I do to put a bee in your bonnet? *NM* - 13/06/2011 06:23:01 PM 439 Views
Bee? - 13/06/2011 06:24:35 PM 959 Views
Oh, I tend to be loving and appreciative - 13/06/2011 05:08:56 PM 924 Views
That isnt fair, Helene *NM* - 13/06/2011 06:22:25 PM 483 Views
What isn't fair? - 13/06/2011 08:07:08 PM 1139 Views
I'm not looking for someone to fix, but the not fair bit I was refering to was little irony dig *NM* - 13/06/2011 10:10:11 PM 501 Views
You don't need to be broken to enjoy being appreciated - 13/06/2011 10:17:01 PM 924 Views
No, Helene, You repeatedly attempt to sidetrack discussion with attacks against my person - 13/06/2011 10:20:01 PM 1060 Views
But it makes me feel good - 13/06/2011 10:45:07 PM 933 Views
I'm not a hedonist - 13/06/2011 10:57:25 PM 1089 Views
So indignant! - 13/06/2011 11:53:41 PM 1092 Views
I don't believe that at all. - 13/06/2011 04:48:26 AM 1077 Views
Entirely agree *NM* - 13/06/2011 04:33:04 PM 526 Views
Showing appreciation is a losing strategy. - 13/06/2011 04:55:09 AM 1038 Views
So you don't know how to open a woman up sexually - 13/06/2011 10:51:17 AM 1041 Views
Oh how clever of you! - 13/06/2011 09:59:01 PM 1129 Views
Not to gang up on you or anything, but... - 13/06/2011 10:15:57 PM 1057 Views
It's that the prudishness is indicative of a more general sense of entitlement and manipulativeness. - 13/06/2011 11:02:20 PM 1130 Views
Yes. And "passive-aggressive behavior" is another one I'd add. *NM* - 13/06/2011 11:18:40 PM 390 Views
So far in this debate, you've only displayed your feelings of entitlement - 14/06/2011 12:05:16 AM 935 Views
Guys have their own problems, but the conversation is revolving around women at the moment. *NM* *NM* - 14/06/2011 01:23:20 AM 497 Views
The conversation did start being about MEN's problems. - 14/06/2011 03:36:36 AM 1007 Views
Be good, Ana. - 14/06/2011 03:40:12 AM 787 Views
You may be mistaken. - 14/06/2011 03:54:28 AM 1009 Views
Thats unfortuanate, Ana - 14/06/2011 03:58:50 AM 906 Views
I am introspecting, yes. - 14/06/2011 04:02:32 AM 911 Views
No, I wasnt attempting to do so - 14/06/2011 04:09:29 AM 1066 Views
Re: You may be mistaken. - 15/06/2011 01:21:16 AM 1066 Views
The only reason the conversation is revolving around women is because Tom laid all the blame at - 14/06/2011 07:35:34 AM 1098 Views
Let's be clear: I was speaking about American women *NM* - 14/06/2011 02:10:10 PM 394 Views
Oh, that part is quite clear. *NM* - 14/06/2011 08:25:08 PM 514 Views
Wow.. all the misogynists came out to play - 13/06/2011 11:57:05 PM 1110 Views
I'm glad you're in here. - 14/06/2011 12:04:03 AM 1055 Views
Seconded *NM* - 14/06/2011 04:46:38 PM 464 Views
I don't see a lot of misogyny. - 14/06/2011 12:59:06 AM 874 Views
You are blind to misogyny because you lack awareness in that area - 14/06/2011 07:38:48 AM 938 Views
Okay, so I'm a date rapist and a misogynist...real classy - 14/06/2011 02:11:40 PM 869 Views
I neither called you a date rapist nor a misogynist - 14/06/2011 03:10:46 PM 908 Views
Why misogynist? Why not Anti-American? - 14/06/2011 01:32:17 AM 1428 Views
So, which women are better than American women? - 14/06/2011 03:38:38 AM 1085 Views
Re: Haha - 14/06/2011 04:18:46 AM 970 Views
You seem very intent on coming off as the smartest guy in the room. - 14/06/2011 04:40:26 AM 1068 Views
I think that's an unfair characterization of the RP board - 14/06/2011 04:58:29 AM 966 Views
Ha! I'm just fucking around. - 14/06/2011 05:14:20 AM 1001 Views
Re: Ha! I'm just fucking around. - 14/06/2011 05:42:37 AM 823 Views
Who are you, again? - 14/06/2011 05:07:04 AM 818 Views
Tsk. I need to be more memorable. - 14/06/2011 05:16:33 AM 1141 Views
Well, try to be more openminded. - 14/06/2011 05:22:52 AM 1040 Views
Fair enough. I do quite like Gaps. - 14/06/2011 05:31:05 AM 1039 Views
Why all this vitriol? - 14/06/2011 05:18:16 AM 1000 Views
Book clubs? Bullshit! women shouldn't be reading at all!!! - 15/06/2011 01:28:41 AM 1019 Views
Re: Oh wow, nice. - 14/06/2011 12:25:53 PM 809 Views
Perhaps one day I'll get a Chinese husband. - 14/06/2011 04:41:59 AM 1116 Views
Spain, Norway, Japan? - 14/06/2011 04:38:43 AM 1072 Views
Norway is the only one that passes. - 14/06/2011 01:14:54 PM 915 Views
I really like the Netherlands - 14/06/2011 01:29:08 PM 988 Views
Re: I really like the Netherlands - 14/06/2011 04:51:11 PM 883 Views
Why did I pick that one? Because you completely ignore men's part in a culture that sexually - 14/06/2011 07:54:39 AM 1071 Views
Helene, you're also not an American woman. - 14/06/2011 01:03:23 PM 1081 Views
You're not American either. *NM* - 14/06/2011 02:26:34 PM 350 Views
I didn't ignore it at all. I just bracketed it. It's quite possible, you know. - 14/06/2011 08:49:03 PM 1058 Views
You have strange expectations and ideas of me. *NM* - 14/06/2011 08:52:09 PM 437 Views
Likewise. BFF? *NM* - 14/06/2011 09:08:53 PM 376 Views
Nice! /me high Fives Helene!! *NM* - 14/06/2011 02:32:27 AM 357 Views
Oh, but I can do any and all of these things! - 14/06/2011 12:06:41 AM 1058 Views
I said there were exceptions. - 14/06/2011 03:50:27 AM 920 Views
True. - 14/06/2011 09:03:46 PM 884 Views
hey! I really like your poem "name" - syllables knowing other lovers - excellent. - 15/06/2011 01:49:06 AM 859 Views
Thanks! *NM* - 15/06/2011 09:44:18 PM 499 Views
I agree. - 13/06/2011 01:23:51 PM 1022 Views
Obviously inside the bedroom. - 13/06/2011 05:17:31 PM 1103 Views
Inside the bedroom? Sure. I could agree. But you're not American anyway. - 13/06/2011 08:52:42 PM 976 Views
You're basically just saying that American attitudes toward sex results in repressed women - 13/06/2011 09:03:47 PM 1058 Views
Theoretically they can be "unrepressed". But why waste the time and effort? - 13/06/2011 10:06:52 PM 1112 Views
How can you tell it's because she cares, instead of because that's what's traditionally expected - 13/06/2011 10:48:12 PM 1033 Views
That's a good point! *NM* - 15/06/2011 04:49:11 AM 481 Views
The answer is that it doesn't matter. - 16/06/2011 05:35:47 PM 1109 Views
I agree that the answer doesn't matter - 16/06/2011 07:09:44 PM 796 Views
It's funny - 13/06/2011 02:51:03 PM 1180 Views
Well of course you can't see the faults of American women. You're American. - 13/06/2011 08:51:35 PM 1072 Views
I'm sure that American women, along with all other women on earth - 13/06/2011 09:00:33 PM 1095 Views
It's not my job to make a girl comfortable about her sexuality. - 13/06/2011 10:03:27 PM 989 Views
THIS *NM* - 13/06/2011 10:09:14 PM 466 Views
If the sex is all there is, then yes, makes sense. - 13/06/2011 10:18:15 PM 1079 Views
Who willingly goes into a relationship knowing the sex will be bad? - 14/06/2011 03:52:43 AM 995 Views
You and your friends? - 14/06/2011 05:46:53 AM 969 Views
And you don't think that the men in these relationships contributed to the current situation at all? - 14/06/2011 07:59:15 AM 784 Views
In this particular aspect, absolutely not. - 14/06/2011 02:19:33 PM 969 Views
Of course I consider that you might be right - 14/06/2011 03:59:50 PM 1086 Views
I'm not ignoring any complexities - 14/06/2011 05:00:04 PM 1035 Views
Loads of people, if that's compensated by other things? - 14/06/2011 08:38:45 PM 1139 Views
I would rather be in a good marriage with bad sex than the other way around *NM* - 14/06/2011 10:33:27 PM 545 Views
I suspect that you are in a good marriage with good sex. - 16/06/2011 01:55:29 AM 1062 Views
Of course it is your job as a sex partner to make your partner feel comfortable about being with you - 13/06/2011 10:50:52 PM 914 Views
THIS. *NM* - 13/06/2011 11:49:28 PM 442 Views
I was going to say the same. - 14/06/2011 12:11:18 AM 1103 Views
Like fucking Hell it is. - 14/06/2011 12:18:02 AM 873 Views
You're totally cracking me up in here. - 14/06/2011 12:30:39 AM 1010 Views
You think you're offending me? - 14/06/2011 01:10:56 AM 1011 Views
No. - 14/06/2011 08:01:45 PM 1043 Views
Have you ever been accused of date rape? - 14/06/2011 12:46:30 AM 828 Views
No. And that's an absurd question. - 14/06/2011 01:08:13 AM 908 Views
No, the point you were arguing was absurd. I just pointed out what you were arguing. - 14/06/2011 08:03:13 AM 1085 Views
Let's cut the sophistry - 14/06/2011 02:24:52 PM 1071 Views
What's the definition of prude anyway? - 14/06/2011 03:58:03 PM 944 Views
If that's what you wanted to say, it would have helped for you to be more explicit. - 14/06/2011 04:10:43 PM 1005 Views
"Why do these women use sex as a manipulative tool?" - 14/06/2011 05:06:33 PM 1045 Views
It seems to me there is a very simple answer to that question. - 14/06/2011 05:26:09 PM 949 Views
I don't think it works at all. - 14/06/2011 05:48:48 PM 914 Views
Your anecdotal evidence suggests otherwise. - 14/06/2011 06:31:28 PM 1181 Views
I don't think so. - 15/06/2011 03:50:25 AM 932 Views
I agree with every single thing you just said. *NM* - 15/06/2011 05:03:05 AM 372 Views
Oddly enough, I do too - 15/06/2011 02:00:39 PM 1035 Views
I agree with Sareitha. Women do that because it (apears to) works for them, in the short term - 14/06/2011 08:28:11 PM 883 Views
I can't see that I would put up with that either - 14/06/2011 10:32:09 PM 970 Views
Right - 14/06/2011 10:59:10 PM 953 Views
mode was a typeo but I guess it still works - 14/06/2011 11:23:11 PM 1056 Views
A fairly self-aware American. With many female friends, even - 13/06/2011 11:59:34 PM 1052 Views
Yeah I don't buy that "most American girls are prudes" concept - 14/06/2011 04:10:37 PM 677 Views
A moment - 14/06/2011 05:01:05 PM 915 Views
Camilla, I'm trying to keep this at arm's length a bit. - 14/06/2011 05:42:18 PM 921 Views
But you started it. - 14/06/2011 08:43:47 PM 985 Views
I did start it, yes. - 16/06/2011 03:32:54 PM 957 Views
You should have quit before this. - 16/06/2011 03:46:01 PM 1036 Views
No, I shouldn't have. - 16/06/2011 04:03:21 PM 982 Views
The problem with your list is that it's performance-oriented. - 16/06/2011 10:45:22 PM 931 Views
Of course it's performance-oriented. - 16/06/2011 10:54:22 PM 881 Views
This really made me laugh - 16/06/2011 04:26:32 PM 955 Views
Re: I did start it, yes. - 16/06/2011 03:46:06 PM 856 Views
Yes, we do! - 16/06/2011 04:04:02 PM 1046 Views
Having now looked over the smileys - 16/06/2011 04:09:55 PM 1026 Views
See what I'm talking about? - 16/06/2011 07:09:10 PM 944 Views
That may have been the worst pun ever! *NM* - 17/06/2011 12:47:50 AM 478 Views
I try *NM* - 17/06/2011 09:57:32 AM 466 Views
Take is up the ass or you are a prude? - 16/06/2011 04:09:54 PM 1164 Views
You didn't read the list very well. - 16/06/2011 07:08:19 PM 989 Views
It appears I didn't read it very well. I apologize for that - 16/06/2011 10:16:02 PM 941 Views
No problems. - 16/06/2011 10:57:46 PM 875 Views
Re: The idea that If it hurts it's not being done right - Not neccessarily. - 17/06/2011 01:13:18 AM 983 Views
It just requires more preparation. - 17/06/2011 04:49:52 AM 1348 Views
I have to say, I actually find this list reasonable. - 16/06/2011 04:35:40 PM 958 Views
I agree - 16/06/2011 05:10:07 PM 873 Views
Exactly! It's the "nexus of activity" sort of idea. - 16/06/2011 07:18:33 PM 821 Views
If I weren't such a prude (3), I would post this list to facebook. - 16/06/2011 05:08:05 PM 1047 Views
In other words, you aren't a prude on that scale. - 16/06/2011 07:20:35 PM 852 Views
Eh - 16/06/2011 08:17:31 PM 1051 Views
You mixed up prudishness and sexual compatibility with you - 16/06/2011 05:21:31 PM 1069 Views
This. *NM* - 16/06/2011 06:18:41 PM 512 Views
No I didn't. - 16/06/2011 07:14:27 PM 962 Views
Calling my response a knee jerk reaction is just silly, and in itself, a knee jerk response. - 16/06/2011 07:38:28 PM 1171 Views
Okay. I'm going to just stop replying. - 16/06/2011 08:28:02 PM 765 Views
Your world view is just too self referential to be - 16/06/2011 08:36:39 PM 982 Views
As is yours. *NM* - 16/06/2011 08:44:10 PM 357 Views
That makes no sense. You have the narrower view. *NM* - 16/06/2011 09:07:37 PM 463 Views
So you say. *NM* - 16/06/2011 09:09:21 PM 451 Views
Question - 16/06/2011 07:42:37 PM 966 Views
Ha Ha, who cares about the guy? It is only female sexuality that is on trial. - 16/06/2011 08:06:33 PM 897 Views
That is an incorrect assumption. - 16/06/2011 08:30:08 PM 929 Views
Awww you didn't take my bait! - 16/06/2011 08:44:16 PM 852 Views
There's very little I haven't been willing to do - 16/06/2011 08:52:31 PM 966 Views
Hehehe, But *I* recall it! - 16/06/2011 09:22:40 PM 996 Views
Wait, I think I know what you're talking about. - 16/06/2011 09:27:20 PM 958 Views
Damn, I was going to guess "in a coffin". - 16/06/2011 09:31:36 PM 1157 Views
Seriously? - 16/06/2011 09:50:20 PM 981 Views
The girl was never a girlfriend or a sexual partner. - 16/06/2011 11:06:38 PM 961 Views
I'm reminded of an ex of mine - 16/06/2011 08:32:34 PM 777 Views
That's really awful. - 16/06/2011 09:16:33 PM 1056 Views
Of course. - 16/06/2011 08:29:11 PM 814 Views
Fair enough *NM* - 17/06/2011 07:20:38 PM 465 Views
THIS!! LISTEN!! the woman is * lightbulb* speaking from a woman's perspective. - 14/06/2011 02:52:26 AM 1069 Views
Your way out of line - 14/06/2011 02:55:46 AM 855 Views
Wondering why we're still single, are we? Try a minimum of politeness first. - 14/06/2011 03:21:15 AM 814 Views
What B/c i sank you YOUR level? Piss Off. AS if I give 2 shits what you think about me. - 16/06/2011 02:19:04 AM 1150 Views
I read this. - 16/06/2011 03:40:51 AM 1042 Views
The name-calling is uncalled for, Rebecca - 16/06/2011 11:10:04 AM 1010 Views
Given the vehemence of your response, you do care. - 16/06/2011 03:19:42 PM 1042 Views
I appreciate the support, - 14/06/2011 10:37:20 PM 1016 Views
Your journal entry is revealing. You sound bitter and hurt. I hope you find the healing you need. - 15/06/2011 01:40:23 AM 1022 Views
You know what? not called for. *NM* - 15/06/2011 02:05:14 PM 335 Views
Why not? - 15/06/2011 11:59:36 PM 921 Views
The first portion of what you said, isn't yours to say. - 16/06/2011 03:43:57 PM 743 Views
I'm with Anastasia on this. - 16/06/2011 06:39:56 PM 1078 Views
Re: It's funny - 14/06/2011 03:50:13 AM 1044 Views
Re: It's funny - 14/06/2011 10:28:32 PM 1089 Views
On a completely unrelated note - 14/06/2011 11:03:58 PM 958 Views
Re: On a completely unrelated note - 14/06/2011 11:14:18 PM 994 Views
Bummer *NM* - 14/06/2011 11:20:24 PM 442 Views
TMJ is right. - 15/06/2011 02:11:57 PM 1027 Views
Re: TMJ is right. - 16/06/2011 12:22:10 AM 1089 Views
Yes. - 16/06/2011 03:41:05 PM 898 Views
Re: Yes. - 17/06/2011 01:51:11 AM 837 Views
Gee thanks. - 17/06/2011 05:04:37 AM 1279 Views
Didn't suit you. - 18/06/2011 12:58:53 AM 1039 Views
On a totally unrelated note... - 15/06/2011 01:43:23 AM 978 Views
Excuse me while I go hit something. A journalism major perhaps. *NM* - 12/06/2011 09:09:26 PM 453 Views
Stunning rebuttal!!! *NM* - 12/06/2011 10:07:39 PM 341 Views
Theres nothing there I really need to refute.... - 13/06/2011 01:20:43 AM 903 Views
Well, thanks for contributing nothing to the discussion. *NM* - 13/06/2011 04:41:56 AM 349 Views
Is there a reason you feel the need to jump up my ass? *NM* - 13/06/2011 05:16:53 AM 499 Views
Your winning personality? - 13/06/2011 03:45:09 PM 995 Views
I'd say 'endearing' is the proper term. - 13/06/2011 10:43:01 PM 924 Views
Nice name new. - 15/06/2011 01:44:25 AM 951 Views
Wow. Interesting. *NM* - 13/06/2011 07:04:08 AM 432 Views
Giving up porn (a male perspective) - 13/06/2011 04:29:52 PM 1049 Views
Thanks for sharing. ^_^ *NM* - 13/06/2011 09:05:51 PM 494 Views
Re: It's a sexy topic, but all these generalizations are becoming wet blankets. - 14/06/2011 02:13:31 AM 1038 Views
I think you are spot on with the seal theory. - 14/06/2011 05:16:59 PM 1090 Views
[something less snarky] - 14/06/2011 10:17:18 PM 1120 Views
Re: What? - 15/06/2011 12:01:36 AM 1084 Views
Re: What? - 15/06/2011 12:20:56 AM 1037 Views
Re: How come your 1st edit is not at all what was originally posted? - 15/06/2011 03:06:02 AM 1069 Views
About time to reevaluate Tom's claims, I think, eh? *NM* - 15/06/2011 03:59:31 AM 468 Views
my turn: what? - 15/06/2011 04:12:51 AM 1097 Views
Wow, well speaking as a prude... - 14/06/2011 03:36:23 AM 1067 Views
Funny how so many fault lines rupture in the comments to posts like this - 14/06/2011 04:23:23 AM 1158 Views
To quote Cat Valente: - 14/06/2011 04:37:39 AM 878 Views
It is a two-way street, unfortunately - 14/06/2011 04:40:58 AM 997 Views
so the problem is southern women are just not good enough for you? - 14/06/2011 01:51:30 PM 977 Views
No, more like not similar enough - 14/06/2011 04:13:52 PM 1006 Views
Some people aren't cut out to be in a relationship - 14/06/2011 04:25:09 PM 1019 Views
True - 14/06/2011 04:56:05 PM 847 Views
As someone who has never lived under the same roof more than five consecutive years - 14/06/2011 06:06:10 PM 1096 Views
Job. Always a job matter. - 14/06/2011 11:22:33 PM 1144 Views
Try south Texas, you may not notice you are not in South America - 15/06/2011 02:44:21 AM 936 Views
Ha! I used to live in the metro Miami area, so I know what you mean - 15/06/2011 03:20:41 AM 988 Views
sweet jesus you are crazy - 15/06/2011 04:38:28 AM 838 Views
Maybe, but it certainly drains me of being involved much elsewhere - 15/06/2011 05:29:21 AM 1062 Views
Why all this vitriol? - 14/06/2011 05:19:47 AM 966 Views
It started there here: - 14/06/2011 01:06:32 PM 1035 Views
Tom made an untenable comment - 14/06/2011 01:21:06 PM 942 Views
Book clubs are scary places - 14/06/2011 05:03:03 PM 763 Views
Chocolate, wine, books. Also tea? - 14/06/2011 09:00:06 PM 1070 Views
Maybe without the wine? - 15/06/2011 05:06:53 AM 944 Views
I don't feel particularly vitriolic. - 14/06/2011 10:18:44 PM 968 Views
I didn't mean you... - 15/06/2011 05:24:56 AM 963 Views
We haven't had one of these in a while! - 14/06/2011 06:36:18 AM 1008 Views
Agreed. I laughed, I cried, it was touching. *NM* - 14/06/2011 08:49:40 AM 342 Views
This post got more abused than a nasty Japanese bukkake! Lol. *NM* - 15/06/2011 10:07:04 AM 530 Views
I started to read this but got bored and looked at porn. - 14/06/2011 03:15:28 PM 1019 Views
Re: I started to read this but got bored and looked at porn. - 14/06/2011 03:27:51 PM 1092 Views
Oh yeah. - 14/06/2011 03:31:42 PM 1056 Views
- 14/06/2011 08:48:55 PM 1051 Views
I think I've read pretty much all of it. I think it's better than porn. Well, bad porn. - 14/06/2011 11:01:20 PM 1027 Views
that was funny *NM* - 15/06/2011 02:42:13 AM 348 Views
Bad porn is the worst! - 15/06/2011 02:13:59 PM 881 Views
You know what Tom, it occurs to me that this is very American thinking. - 15/06/2011 03:07:00 AM 957 Views
Actually, my Russian guy friends tend to be more vehement than I am on this point. - 15/06/2011 05:12:51 AM 1283 Views
Huh, could it be because most Russians are atheist? - 15/06/2011 05:36:47 AM 1066 Views
That could be a major part of it - 16/06/2011 09:06:21 PM 915 Views
Ah, you've seen EuroTrip, too. *NM* - 17/06/2011 01:52:27 AM 458 Views

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