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I know they sound like dumb questions. Postsecret Send a noteboard - 14/06/2011 10:49:47 PM
You don't need visible proof for it to be true. Emotional abuse is invisible, and that's still abuse, and just as wrong. In the gentlest possible way, why is the fact that you can't visibly prove anything a predicament? Do you want to leave him, and feel you need the visible evidence as a justification? Or is it something else? If you want to work things out with your husband, I think the fact that he will not apologise is very worrying - he doesn't seem to think that what he did was wrong.

Do you have support near you? Family or friends? Anyone who truly cares about you won't need to see a black eye to be supportive if you tell them about your situation. Is there someone you can confide in for support?

I frankly was thinking of leaving him before he hit me. It's why I was looking at getting back to work. I guess I want the justification so I can keep the house. Maybe that should be the least of my worries, but I'm going to be raising three kids and dammit I want the house. I don't feel like I need the justification to leave for me, but I do wish I had something to show people so they wouldn't think I was making it up.
I do have a great family close by. My mom has my oldest son camping this week, but my dad is close by and I have friends I can call. Thanks. :)
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It's still hitting, right? Postsecret - 14/06/2011 10:07:15 PM 815 Views
Yes. That's not okay. *NM* Darth_Katie - 14/06/2011 10:21:53 PM 158 Views
Yes. It's not at all ok, and it is a big deal. Morgawse - 14/06/2011 10:41:47 PM 513 Views
I know they sound like dumb questions. Postsecret - 14/06/2011 10:49:47 PM 509 Views
No, it's not dumb. Morgawse - 14/06/2011 11:03:05 PM 454 Views
Yes, it is. Praziquantel - 15/06/2011 03:12:27 AM 450 Views
He shouldn't hit you but don't overreact. Tom - 15/06/2011 05:00:16 AM 471 Views
That all sounds like very good advice. Joel - 15/06/2011 07:47:06 AM 472 Views
Maybe you should start earning a living. *NM* Ectheledhel - 15/06/2011 07:52:39 AM 219 Views
THIS *NM* Urza - 15/06/2011 08:02:00 AM 158 Views
Maybe you and Capt. Industry are the last people who should give me time management advice. Joel - 15/06/2011 08:47:07 AM 423 Views
Ah, still hiding behind this name? Not nice of you to crawl out from under your rock, now go back. *NM* everynametaken - 16/06/2011 12:06:53 AM 147 Views
It's important to protect your boundaries Helene - 15/06/2011 01:35:37 PM 413 Views
How upset you get about it is up to you but you really don't need to prove anything random thoughts - 15/06/2011 01:55:46 PM 455 Views
Is it an event or is it a pattern? Sareitha Sedai - 15/06/2011 02:12:50 PM 435 Views
Have you been able to talk to him about the incident? StarrBecca - 16/06/2011 02:22:24 AM 415 Views
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