My husband will frequently smack me on the ass playfully, but last night he did it hard, in anger, and because I challenged him. I didn't realize what it was at first because he does do it playfully, but when I turned around I saw the fire in his eyes, and all because I joked around about not wanting him to add something to the dinner I was cooking.
I told him what he did wasn't okay but he didn't apologize. I think we all know the only place it can go from here. The only thing is he hit me on the ass. It's not like I can go to the ER with a black eye. That's my predicament...that I can't prove anything. He's been more and more controlling lately and I'm not easily controlled so we've been butting heads.
It is still hitting, and it is still a big deal, right?
I told him what he did wasn't okay but he didn't apologize. I think we all know the only place it can go from here. The only thing is he hit me on the ass. It's not like I can go to the ER with a black eye. That's my predicament...that I can't prove anything. He's been more and more controlling lately and I'm not easily controlled so we've been butting heads.
It is still hitting, and it is still a big deal, right?
This message last edited by Postsecret on 14/06/2011 at 10:18:47 PM
It's still hitting, right?
- 14/06/2011 10:07:15 PM
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Yes. It's not at all ok, and it is a big deal.
- 14/06/2011 10:41:47 PM
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He shouldn't hit you but don't overreact.
- 15/06/2011 05:00:16 AM
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That all sounds like very good advice.
- 15/06/2011 07:47:06 AM
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Maybe you should start earning a living. *NM*
- 15/06/2011 07:52:39 AM
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Maybe you and Capt. Industry are the last people who should give me time management advice.
- 15/06/2011 08:47:07 AM
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Ah, still hiding behind this name? Not nice of you to crawl out from under your rock, now go back. *NM*
- 16/06/2011 12:06:53 AM
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How upset you get about it is up to you but you really don't need to prove anything
- 15/06/2011 01:55:46 PM
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