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Be good, Ana. Urza Send a noteboard - 14/06/2011 03:40:12 AM
And somehow it turned into discussion of women's faults? Hmm.


If we're being honest the original post was at best about an issue and how it effects relationships.

I know that reading this thread a part of you is dying to dive into this argument and I know on which side. This would be a good time for reason to prevail.
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He’s Just Not That Into Anyone (an article about watching porn and men's changing libidos). everynametaken - 11/06/2011 10:52:10 PM 3155 Views
I disagree with the whole last third or fourth of the article. Tom - 12/06/2011 02:01:40 AM 940 Views
Re: I disagree with the whole last third or fourth of the article. everynametaken - 12/06/2011 08:49:39 PM 1218 Views
A lot of guys who get hooked on porn don't know how to approach women Helene - 12/06/2011 10:55:17 PM 1156 Views
Funny Urza - 13/06/2011 01:22:28 AM 1130 Views
You obviously never had a fulfilling long term sexual relationship with a woman. Helene - 13/06/2011 10:43:23 AM 899 Views
Oh My Urza - 13/06/2011 03:29:34 PM 947 Views
*giggle* Camilla - 13/06/2011 03:46:28 PM 969 Views
What did I do to put a bee in your bonnet? *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 06:23:01 PM 429 Views
Bee? Camilla - 13/06/2011 06:24:35 PM 933 Views
Oh, I tend to be loving and appreciative Helene - 13/06/2011 05:08:56 PM 893 Views
That isnt fair, Helene *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 06:22:25 PM 472 Views
What isn't fair? Helene - 13/06/2011 08:07:08 PM 1098 Views
I'm not looking for someone to fix, but the not fair bit I was refering to was little irony dig *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:10:11 PM 495 Views
You don't need to be broken to enjoy being appreciated Helene - 13/06/2011 10:17:01 PM 898 Views
No, Helene, You repeatedly attempt to sidetrack discussion with attacks against my person Urza - 13/06/2011 10:20:01 PM 1032 Views
But it makes me feel good Helene - 13/06/2011 10:45:07 PM 906 Views
I'm not a hedonist Urza - 13/06/2011 10:57:25 PM 1063 Views
If you really wanted to debate the actual issue, you would have. *NM* Helene - 13/06/2011 11:51:53 PM 369 Views
So indignant! Novo - 13/06/2011 11:53:41 PM 1063 Views
I don't believe that at all. everynametaken - 13/06/2011 04:48:26 AM 1047 Views
Ok, perhaps I can't talk from experience... as that group of men has self selected out of the game Helene - 13/06/2011 10:47:59 AM 971 Views
Entirely agree *NM* ironclad - 13/06/2011 04:33:04 PM 517 Views
Showing appreciation is a losing strategy. Tom - 13/06/2011 04:55:09 AM 1007 Views
So you don't know how to open a woman up sexually Helene - 13/06/2011 10:51:17 AM 1014 Views
Oh how clever of you! Tom - 13/06/2011 09:59:01 PM 1101 Views
Not to gang up on you or anything, but... Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:15:57 PM 1027 Views
If you'ld actually read his post Tom gave reasons beyond lack of sexual adventuressness *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:17:11 PM 501 Views
Of which the "letting you do your own thing" was the only one I can take seriously. Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:30:10 PM 890 Views
So rather than adress your disagreement on the facts you just pretended he didn't say them? *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:34:02 PM 469 Views
Seriously? You're trying to debate now? Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:37:21 PM 915 Views
Your disregard for rationality offends me. Urza - 13/06/2011 10:40:29 PM 1075 Views
I'm sure that there are Eastern European women who will fulfill the "traditionally female role"? Helene - 13/06/2011 10:43:43 PM 983 Views
It's that the prudishness is indicative of a more general sense of entitlement and manipulativeness. Dan - 13/06/2011 11:02:20 PM 1105 Views
Yes. And "passive-aggressive behavior" is another one I'd add. *NM* Tom - 13/06/2011 11:18:40 PM 379 Views
So far in this debate, you've only displayed your feelings of entitlement Helene - 14/06/2011 12:05:16 AM 908 Views
I give to the relationship. I give a shitload of money. Tom - 14/06/2011 12:13:47 AM 918 Views
Bringing in money does not a relationship make. The rest, however, sounds a lot better Helene - 14/06/2011 12:38:45 AM 982 Views
So Let me understand what you are saying... StarrBecca - 14/06/2011 02:40:50 AM 1022 Views
I'm not sure, based on that response, you're capable of understanding anything at all. Tom - 14/06/2011 03:17:37 AM 1037 Views
I can see why you might have trouble finding an American woman who would agree with that random thoughts - 14/06/2011 02:00:49 PM 1023 Views
Guys have their own problems, but the conversation is revolving around women at the moment. *NM* *NM* Dan - 14/06/2011 01:23:20 AM 487 Views
The conversation did start being about MEN's problems. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:36:36 AM 975 Views
Be good, Ana. Urza - 14/06/2011 03:40:12 AM 757 Views
You may be mistaken. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:54:28 AM 986 Views
Thats unfortuanate, Ana Urza - 14/06/2011 03:58:50 AM 882 Views
I am introspecting, yes. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 04:02:32 AM 886 Views
No, I wasnt attempting to do so Urza - 14/06/2011 04:09:29 AM 1044 Views
Re: You may be mistaken. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:21:16 AM 1036 Views
The only reason the conversation is revolving around women is because Tom laid all the blame at Helene - 14/06/2011 07:35:34 AM 1070 Views
Let's be clear: I was speaking about American women *NM* Tom - 14/06/2011 02:10:10 PM 385 Views
Oh, that part is quite clear. *NM* nossy - 14/06/2011 08:25:08 PM 504 Views
Wow.. all the misogynists came out to play Helene - 13/06/2011 11:57:05 PM 1078 Views
I'm glad you're in here. nossy - 14/06/2011 12:04:03 AM 1028 Views
Seconded *NM* Camilla - 14/06/2011 04:46:38 PM 451 Views
I don't see a lot of misogyny. Tom - 14/06/2011 12:59:06 AM 844 Views
You are blind to misogyny because you lack awareness in that area Helene - 14/06/2011 07:38:48 AM 908 Views
Okay, so I'm a date rapist and a misogynist...real classy Tom - 14/06/2011 02:11:40 PM 843 Views
I neither called you a date rapist nor a misogynist Helene - 14/06/2011 03:10:46 PM 880 Views
Why misogynist? Why not Anti-American? Dan - 14/06/2011 01:32:17 AM 1401 Views
So, which women are better than American women? Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:38:38 AM 1048 Views
Re: Haha Gaps - 14/06/2011 04:18:46 AM 947 Views
You seem very intent on coming off as the smartest guy in the room. Dan - 14/06/2011 04:40:26 AM 1046 Views
I think that's an unfair characterization of the RP board Isaac - 14/06/2011 04:58:29 AM 931 Views
Ha! I'm just fucking around. Dan - 14/06/2011 05:14:20 AM 969 Views
Re: Ha! I'm just fucking around. Isaac - 14/06/2011 05:42:37 AM 792 Views
Who are you, again? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:07:04 AM 782 Views
Tsk. I need to be more memorable. Dan - 14/06/2011 05:16:33 AM 1114 Views
Well, try to be more openminded. Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:22:52 AM 1012 Views
Fair enough. I do quite like Gaps. Dan - 14/06/2011 05:31:05 AM 1007 Views
Why all this vitriol? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:18:16 AM 974 Views
Book clubs? Bullshit! women shouldn't be reading at all!!! everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:28:41 AM 990 Views
Re: Oh wow, nice. Gaps - 14/06/2011 12:25:53 PM 783 Views
Perhaps one day I'll get a Chinese husband. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 04:41:59 AM 1086 Views
Er, see my post withe country names in it. I hate this messageboard layout. *NM* *NM* Dan - 14/06/2011 04:50:31 AM 459 Views
Spain, Norway, Japan? Dan - 14/06/2011 04:38:43 AM 1041 Views
Norway is the only one that passes. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 01:14:54 PM 887 Views
I really like the Netherlands Helene - 14/06/2011 01:29:08 PM 957 Views
Re: I really like the Netherlands Camilla - 14/06/2011 04:51:11 PM 857 Views
Why did I pick that one? Because you completely ignore men's part in a culture that sexually Helene - 14/06/2011 07:54:39 AM 1043 Views
Helene, you're also not an American woman. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 01:03:23 PM 1053 Views
It's the people who make sweeping generalisations about American women who need to defend themselves Helene - 14/06/2011 01:18:43 PM 888 Views
You're not American either. *NM* Tom - 14/06/2011 02:26:34 PM 339 Views
I didn't ignore it at all. I just bracketed it. It's quite possible, you know. Dan - 14/06/2011 08:49:03 PM 1028 Views
You have strange expectations and ideas of me. *NM* Helene - 14/06/2011 08:52:09 PM 424 Views
Likewise. BFF? *NM* Dan - 14/06/2011 09:08:53 PM 367 Views
I don't exactly expect to influence your opinion, just to voice my own. Helene - 13/06/2011 10:40:39 PM 900 Views
The last part summed it up nicely. That was all I thought you meant anyway. Tashmere - 14/06/2011 03:17:45 AM 906 Views
Nice! /me high Fives Helene!! *NM* StarrBecca - 14/06/2011 02:32:27 AM 348 Views
Oh, but I can do any and all of these things! Novo - 14/06/2011 12:06:41 AM 1032 Views
I said there were exceptions. Tom - 14/06/2011 03:50:27 AM 893 Views
True. Novo - 14/06/2011 09:03:46 PM 862 Views
hey! I really like your poem "name" - syllables knowing other lovers - excellent. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:49:06 AM 829 Views
Thanks! *NM* Novo - 15/06/2011 09:44:18 PM 489 Views
I agree. Aeryn - 13/06/2011 01:23:51 PM 994 Views
Obviously inside the bedroom. Helene - 13/06/2011 05:17:31 PM 1077 Views
Inside the bedroom? Sure. I could agree. But you're not American anyway. Tom - 13/06/2011 08:52:42 PM 952 Views
You're basically just saying that American attitudes toward sex results in repressed women Helene - 13/06/2011 09:03:47 PM 1031 Views
Theoretically they can be "unrepressed". But why waste the time and effort? Tom - 13/06/2011 10:06:52 PM 1088 Views
How can you tell it's because she cares, instead of because that's what's traditionally expected Helene - 13/06/2011 10:48:12 PM 1005 Views
That's a good point! *NM* Vivien - 15/06/2011 04:49:11 AM 472 Views
The answer is that it doesn't matter. Vivien - 16/06/2011 05:35:47 PM 1078 Views
I agree that the answer doesn't matter Helene - 16/06/2011 07:09:44 PM 768 Views
It's funny nossy - 13/06/2011 02:51:03 PM 1155 Views
Well of course you can't see the faults of American women. You're American. Tom - 13/06/2011 08:51:35 PM 1051 Views
I'm sure that American women, along with all other women on earth Helene - 13/06/2011 09:00:33 PM 1069 Views
It's not my job to make a girl comfortable about her sexuality. Tom - 13/06/2011 10:03:27 PM 962 Views
THIS *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 10:09:14 PM 454 Views
If the sex is all there is, then yes, makes sense. Legolas - 13/06/2011 10:18:15 PM 1050 Views
Who willingly goes into a relationship knowing the sex will be bad? Tom - 14/06/2011 03:52:43 AM 958 Views
You and your friends? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:46:53 AM 939 Views
And you don't think that the men in these relationships contributed to the current situation at all? Helene - 14/06/2011 07:59:15 AM 753 Views
In this particular aspect, absolutely not. Tom - 14/06/2011 02:19:33 PM 944 Views
Of course I consider that you might be right Helene - 14/06/2011 03:59:50 PM 1057 Views
I'm not ignoring any complexities Tom - 14/06/2011 05:00:04 PM 1005 Views
^ And this response immediately above is my last. This is eating into a real workday now. ^ Tom - 14/06/2011 05:53:43 PM 944 Views
Loads of people, if that's compensated by other things? Legolas - 14/06/2011 08:38:45 PM 1111 Views
I would rather be in a good marriage with bad sex than the other way around *NM* random thoughts - 14/06/2011 10:33:27 PM 534 Views
I suspect that you are in a good marriage with good sex. Tashmere - 16/06/2011 01:55:29 AM 1031 Views
Of course it is your job as a sex partner to make your partner feel comfortable about being with you Helene - 13/06/2011 10:50:52 PM 890 Views
THIS. *NM* globug0822 - 13/06/2011 11:49:28 PM 432 Views
I was going to say the same. nossy - 14/06/2011 12:11:18 AM 1078 Views
Like fucking Hell it is. Tom - 14/06/2011 12:18:02 AM 845 Views
You're totally cracking me up in here. nossy - 14/06/2011 12:30:39 AM 979 Views
You think you're offending me? Tom - 14/06/2011 01:10:56 AM 986 Views
No. nossy - 14/06/2011 08:01:45 PM 1015 Views
Have you ever been accused of date rape? Helene - 14/06/2011 12:46:30 AM 807 Views
No. And that's an absurd question. Tom - 14/06/2011 01:08:13 AM 879 Views
No, the point you were arguing was absurd. I just pointed out what you were arguing. Helene - 14/06/2011 08:03:13 AM 1053 Views
Let's cut the sophistry Tom - 14/06/2011 02:24:52 PM 1042 Views
What's the definition of prude anyway? Vivien - 14/06/2011 03:58:03 PM 916 Views
If that's what you wanted to say, it would have helped for you to be more explicit. Helene - 14/06/2011 04:10:43 PM 974 Views
"Why do these women use sex as a manipulative tool?" Tom - 14/06/2011 05:06:33 PM 1015 Views
It seems to me there is a very simple answer to that question. Sareitha Sedai - 14/06/2011 05:26:09 PM 918 Views
I don't think it works at all. Tom - 14/06/2011 05:48:48 PM 888 Views
Your anecdotal evidence suggests otherwise. Sareitha Sedai - 14/06/2011 06:31:28 PM 1156 Views
I don't think so. Tashmere - 15/06/2011 03:50:25 AM 908 Views
I agree with every single thing you just said. *NM* Tom - 15/06/2011 05:03:05 AM 362 Views
Oddly enough, I do too Sareitha Sedai - 15/06/2011 02:00:39 PM 1007 Views
I agree with Sareitha. Women do that because it (apears to) works for them, in the short term Helene - 14/06/2011 08:28:11 PM 855 Views
I can't see that I would put up with that either random thoughts - 14/06/2011 10:32:09 PM 940 Views
Right nossy - 14/06/2011 10:59:10 PM 925 Views
mode was a typeo but I guess it still works random thoughts - 14/06/2011 11:23:11 PM 1031 Views
I haven't tried it either. Seems to me like that is closely related to The Silent Treatment. Tashmere - 15/06/2011 03:43:45 AM 1028 Views
A fairly self-aware American. With many female friends, even nossy - 13/06/2011 11:59:34 PM 1027 Views
Yeah I don't buy that "most American girls are prudes" concept random thoughts - 14/06/2011 04:10:37 PM 646 Views
I think most of it depends on the "type" of girl a guy goes for. nossy - 14/06/2011 11:09:34 PM 963 Views
some times there is a fine line between kinky and perverted sometimes there isn't random thoughts - 14/06/2011 11:32:17 PM 1065 Views
A moment Camilla - 14/06/2011 05:01:05 PM 886 Views
Camilla, I'm trying to keep this at arm's length a bit. Tom - 14/06/2011 05:42:18 PM 892 Views
But you started it. nossy - 14/06/2011 08:43:47 PM 960 Views
I did start it, yes. Tom - 16/06/2011 03:32:54 PM 933 Views
You should have quit before this. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 03:46:01 PM 1010 Views
No, I shouldn't have. Tom - 16/06/2011 04:03:21 PM 950 Views
The problem with your list is that it's performance-oriented. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 10:45:22 PM 909 Views
Of course it's performance-oriented. Tom - 16/06/2011 10:54:22 PM 852 Views
This really made me laugh Sareitha Sedai - 16/06/2011 04:26:32 PM 924 Views
Re: I did start it, yes. Camilla - 16/06/2011 03:46:06 PM 827 Views
Yes, we do! Tom - 16/06/2011 04:04:02 PM 1018 Views
Having now looked over the smileys Camilla - 16/06/2011 04:09:55 PM 995 Views
See what I'm talking about? Tom - 16/06/2011 07:09:10 PM 917 Views
That may have been the worst pun ever! *NM* Tashmere - 17/06/2011 12:47:50 AM 465 Views
I try *NM* Camilla - 17/06/2011 09:57:32 AM 454 Views
Take is up the ass or you are a prude? random thoughts - 16/06/2011 04:09:54 PM 1137 Views
Maybe Tom will make allowances for preferences instead of an unwillingness because it's "wrong"? *NM* Helene - 16/06/2011 04:22:45 PM 447 Views
You didn't read the list very well. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:08:19 PM 958 Views
It appears I didn't read it very well. I apologize for that random thoughts - 16/06/2011 10:16:02 PM 914 Views
No problems. Tom - 16/06/2011 10:57:46 PM 853 Views
Re: The idea that If it hurts it's not being done right - Not neccessarily. Tashmere - 17/06/2011 01:13:18 AM 961 Views
It just requires more preparation. Tom - 17/06/2011 04:49:52 AM 1323 Views
I have to say, I actually find this list reasonable. Sareitha Sedai - 16/06/2011 04:35:40 PM 930 Views
I agree nossy - 16/06/2011 05:10:07 PM 851 Views
Exactly! It's the "nexus of activity" sort of idea. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:18:33 PM 795 Views
If I weren't such a prude (3), I would post this list to facebook. nossy - 16/06/2011 05:08:05 PM 1019 Views
In other words, you aren't a prude on that scale. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:20:35 PM 824 Views
Eh nossy - 16/06/2011 08:17:31 PM 1027 Views
You mixed up prudishness and sexual compatibility with you Helene - 16/06/2011 05:21:31 PM 1036 Views
This. *NM* Camilla - 16/06/2011 06:18:41 PM 501 Views
No I didn't. Tom - 16/06/2011 07:14:27 PM 937 Views
Calling my response a knee jerk reaction is just silly, and in itself, a knee jerk response. Helene - 16/06/2011 07:38:28 PM 1141 Views
Okay. I'm going to just stop replying. Tom - 16/06/2011 08:28:02 PM 735 Views
Your world view is just too self referential to be Helene - 16/06/2011 08:36:39 PM 955 Views
As is yours. *NM* Tom - 16/06/2011 08:44:10 PM 344 Views
That makes no sense. You have the narrower view. *NM* Helene - 16/06/2011 09:07:37 PM 454 Views
So you say. *NM* Tom - 16/06/2011 09:09:21 PM 441 Views
Question ßelals Girl - 16/06/2011 07:42:37 PM 943 Views
Ha Ha, who cares about the guy? It is only female sexuality that is on trial. Vivien - 16/06/2011 08:06:33 PM 870 Views
That is an incorrect assumption. Tom - 16/06/2011 08:30:08 PM 896 Views
Awww you didn't take my bait! Vivien - 16/06/2011 08:44:16 PM 822 Views
There's very little I haven't been willing to do Tom - 16/06/2011 08:52:31 PM 931 Views
Hehehe, But *I* recall it! Vivien - 16/06/2011 09:22:40 PM 971 Views
Wait, I think I know what you're talking about. Tom - 16/06/2011 09:27:20 PM 927 Views
Damn, I was going to guess "in a coffin". Sareitha Sedai - 16/06/2011 09:31:36 PM 1129 Views
She's significantly younger than O'Donnell, and was better looking. Tom - 16/06/2011 09:33:51 PM 945 Views
Seriously? Vivien - 16/06/2011 09:50:20 PM 947 Views
The girl was never a girlfriend or a sexual partner. Tom - 16/06/2011 11:06:38 PM 930 Views
I'm reminded of an ex of mine Helene - 16/06/2011 08:32:34 PM 748 Views
That's really awful. Vivien - 16/06/2011 09:16:33 PM 1029 Views
When you're with a person who appreciates you, it's not like that at all Helene - 16/06/2011 09:29:32 PM 724 Views
Of course. Tom - 16/06/2011 08:29:11 PM 787 Views
Fair enough *NM* ßelals Girl - 17/06/2011 07:20:38 PM 454 Views
THIS!! LISTEN!! the woman is * lightbulb* speaking from a woman's perspective. StarrBecca - 14/06/2011 02:52:26 AM 1043 Views
Your way out of line Urza - 14/06/2011 02:55:46 AM 830 Views
Wondering why we're still single, are we? Try a minimum of politeness first. Tom - 14/06/2011 03:21:15 AM 791 Views
Where did I insinuate you can't please women? *NM* Helene - 14/06/2011 08:05:14 AM 326 Views
I refer you to "So you don't know how to open a woman up sexually" *NM* Tom - 14/06/2011 02:09:40 PM 387 Views
That's not about pleasing, that's about making someone feel confident and safe Helene - 14/06/2011 04:13:24 PM 989 Views
What B/c i sank you YOUR level? Piss Off. AS if I give 2 shits what you think about me. StarrBecca - 16/06/2011 02:19:04 AM 1120 Views
Becca, can you pinpoint the moment you became a bitter worndown shell of a woman? *NM* Urza - 16/06/2011 03:21:21 AM 461 Views
I read this. Ectheledhel - 16/06/2011 03:40:51 AM 1012 Views
The name-calling is uncalled for, Rebecca ironclad - 16/06/2011 11:10:04 AM 985 Views
Given the vehemence of your response, you do care. Tom - 16/06/2011 03:19:42 PM 1015 Views
I appreciate the support, nossy - 14/06/2011 10:37:20 PM 984 Views
Your journal entry is revealing. You sound bitter and hurt. I hope you find the healing you need. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:40:23 AM 992 Views
You know what? not called for. *NM* Aeryn - 15/06/2011 02:05:14 PM 324 Views
Why not? everynametaken - 15/06/2011 11:59:36 PM 897 Views
The first portion of what you said, isn't yours to say. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 03:43:57 PM 714 Views
I'm with Anastasia on this. Legolas - 16/06/2011 06:39:56 PM 1044 Views
Re: It's funny Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:50:13 AM 1015 Views
Re: It's funny nossy - 14/06/2011 10:28:32 PM 1063 Views
On a completely unrelated note ironclad - 14/06/2011 11:03:58 PM 932 Views
Re: On a completely unrelated note TaskmasterJack - 14/06/2011 11:14:18 PM 966 Views
Bummer *NM* ironclad - 14/06/2011 11:20:24 PM 432 Views
TMJ is right. Aeryn - 15/06/2011 02:11:57 PM 1000 Views
Re: TMJ is right. TaskmasterJack - 16/06/2011 12:22:10 AM 1059 Views
Yes. Aeryn - 16/06/2011 03:41:05 PM 874 Views
Re: Yes. TaskmasterJack - 17/06/2011 01:51:11 AM 810 Views
Gee thanks. Aeryn - 17/06/2011 05:04:37 AM 1256 Views
Didn't suit you. TaskmasterJack - 18/06/2011 12:58:53 AM 1008 Views
On a totally unrelated note... everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:43:23 AM 953 Views
Excuse me while I go hit something. A journalism major perhaps. *NM* Urza - 12/06/2011 09:09:26 PM 443 Views
Stunning rebuttal!!! *NM* everynametaken - 12/06/2011 10:07:39 PM 330 Views
Theres nothing there I really need to refute.... Urza - 13/06/2011 01:20:43 AM 874 Views
Well, thanks for contributing nothing to the discussion. *NM* everynametaken - 13/06/2011 04:41:56 AM 337 Views
Is there a reason you feel the need to jump up my ass? *NM* Urza - 13/06/2011 05:16:53 AM 491 Views
Your winning personality? Camilla - 13/06/2011 03:45:09 PM 969 Views
I'd say 'endearing' is the proper term. Novo - 13/06/2011 10:43:01 PM 897 Views
Nice name new. everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:44:25 AM 919 Views
Wow. Interesting. *NM* globug0822 - 13/06/2011 07:04:08 AM 424 Views
Giving up porn (a male perspective) Postsecret - 13/06/2011 04:29:52 PM 1017 Views
Thanks for sharing. ^_^ *NM* globug0822 - 13/06/2011 09:05:51 PM 485 Views
of course looking at tons of porn all the time is going to affect men random thoughts - 13/06/2011 11:15:02 PM 1095 Views
You make a lot of sense, thanks for posting and adding your perspective. *NM* Helene - 14/06/2011 12:11:03 AM 326 Views
Re: It's a sexy topic, but all these generalizations are becoming wet blankets. Gaps - 14/06/2011 02:13:31 AM 1005 Views
I think this and the replies by Post Secret and random thoughts all kind of get at my ideas here. Sareitha Sedai - 14/06/2011 02:30:52 PM 1015 Views
There is way too much crap in this thread, but I give this reply my seal of approval. *NM* Nate - 14/06/2011 05:02:04 PM 476 Views
I think you are spot on with the seal theory. Camilla - 14/06/2011 05:16:59 PM 1057 Views
Dirty motherfuckers! We need to lift all bans on whaling immediately to stem this momentum! *NM* everynametaken - 15/06/2011 01:56:30 AM 469 Views
[something less snarky] nossy - 14/06/2011 10:17:18 PM 1094 Views
Re: What? Gaps - 15/06/2011 12:01:36 AM 1051 Views
Re: What? nossy - 15/06/2011 12:20:56 AM 1008 Views
Re: How come your 1st edit is not at all what was originally posted? Gaps - 15/06/2011 03:06:02 AM 1027 Views
About time to reevaluate Tom's claims, I think, eh? *NM* Dan - 15/06/2011 03:59:31 AM 460 Views
my turn: what? nossy - 15/06/2011 04:12:51 AM 1071 Views
Wow, well speaking as a prude... Isaac - 14/06/2011 03:36:23 AM 1032 Views
Funny how so many fault lines rupture in the comments to posts like this Larry - 14/06/2011 04:23:23 AM 1128 Views
To quote Cat Valente: Aeryn - 14/06/2011 04:37:39 AM 853 Views
It is a two-way street, unfortunately Larry - 14/06/2011 04:40:58 AM 970 Views
so the problem is southern women are just not good enough for you? random thoughts - 14/06/2011 01:51:30 PM 951 Views
No, more like not similar enough Larry - 14/06/2011 04:13:52 PM 975 Views
Some people aren't cut out to be in a relationship Helene - 14/06/2011 04:25:09 PM 992 Views
True Larry - 14/06/2011 04:56:05 PM 818 Views
As someone who has never lived under the same roof more than five consecutive years random thoughts - 14/06/2011 06:06:10 PM 1067 Views
Job. Always a job matter. Larry - 14/06/2011 11:22:33 PM 1116 Views
Try south Texas, you may not notice you are not in South America random thoughts - 15/06/2011 02:44:21 AM 898 Views
Ha! I used to live in the metro Miami area, so I know what you mean Larry - 15/06/2011 03:20:41 AM 958 Views
sweet jesus you are crazy random thoughts - 15/06/2011 04:38:28 AM 810 Views
Maybe, but it certainly drains me of being involved much elsewhere Larry - 15/06/2011 05:29:21 AM 1040 Views
Why all this vitriol? Vivien - 14/06/2011 05:19:47 AM 941 Views
It started there here: Aeryn - 14/06/2011 01:06:32 PM 1009 Views
Tom made an untenable comment Helene - 14/06/2011 01:21:06 PM 914 Views
Interestingly, the article talked about men being prudish in their real lives. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:27:00 PM 999 Views
I figure this may be true, but I can't speak from a lot of experience. Helene - 14/06/2011 04:23:08 PM 870 Views
I was writing a lengthy reply to disagree, but then I ended up rather close to where you stand. Legolas - 14/06/2011 09:17:55 PM 948 Views
I think men do worry if their wife is to focused on sex random thoughts - 14/06/2011 10:26:56 PM 1037 Views
Re: I think men do worry if their wife is to focused on sex Macharius - 15/06/2011 02:26:30 PM 895 Views
Book clubs are scary places Camilla - 14/06/2011 05:03:03 PM 732 Views
Chocolate, wine, books. Also tea? Novo - 14/06/2011 09:00:06 PM 1040 Views
Maybe without the wine? Vivien - 15/06/2011 05:06:53 AM 917 Views
I don't feel particularly vitriolic. nossy - 14/06/2011 10:18:44 PM 938 Views
I didn't mean you... Vivien - 15/06/2011 05:24:56 AM 936 Views
We haven't had one of these in a while! ßelals Girl - 14/06/2011 06:36:18 AM 977 Views
Agreed. I laughed, I cried, it was touching. *NM* Ghavrel - 14/06/2011 08:49:40 AM 330 Views
Yes, it takes a good flame war to get the engines firing on all cylinders. Stephen - 14/06/2011 02:00:20 PM 857 Views
This post got more abused than a nasty Japanese bukkake! Lol. *NM* everynametaken - 15/06/2011 10:07:04 AM 520 Views
I started to read this but got bored and looked at porn. Tigr - 14/06/2011 03:15:28 PM 995 Views
Re: I started to read this but got bored and looked at porn. Aeryn - 14/06/2011 03:27:51 PM 1053 Views
Oh yeah. Tigr - 14/06/2011 03:31:42 PM 1029 Views
nossy - 14/06/2011 08:48:55 PM 1027 Views
I think I've read pretty much all of it. I think it's better than porn. Well, bad porn. TaskmasterJack - 14/06/2011 11:01:20 PM 1000 Views
that was funny *NM* random thoughts - 15/06/2011 02:42:13 AM 335 Views
Bad porn is the worst! Tigr - 15/06/2011 02:13:59 PM 853 Views
You know what Tom, it occurs to me that this is very American thinking. Vivien - 15/06/2011 03:07:00 AM 931 Views
Actually, my Russian guy friends tend to be more vehement than I am on this point. Tom - 15/06/2011 05:12:51 AM 1255 Views
Huh, could it be because most Russians are atheist? Vivien - 15/06/2011 05:36:47 AM 1038 Views
That could be a major part of it Tom - 16/06/2011 09:06:21 PM 889 Views
Well, there's no question that a prior consultation with me could strengthen any argument. *NM* Vivien - 16/06/2011 10:36:12 PM 415 Views
Ah, you've seen EuroTrip, too. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 17/06/2011 01:52:27 AM 445 Views
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