THIS!! LISTEN!! the woman is * lightbulb* speaking from a woman's perspective. - Edit 1
Before modification by StarrBecca at 14/06/2011 02:53:41 AM
but this post makes you sound like someone who is not well-traveled at all. It makes me wonder at the American women you've met.
I have some prudish tendencies, but it's partly body issues and partly down to the fact that I don't feel my main role in a relationship is to be some guy's blow-up doll. If that's the only man I can find, I'd rather stay single. I'm not as intelligent as you are, but I do know that "prude" isn't the correct term for that. I agree with the girls about appreciation - if the relationship is solid and equal, I have no problem doing things for my man.
I'm sure there are girls like that, though I only know of them from commercials of "reality shows" I don't watch. Your first line there though, is part of what Helene is try to explain to you. Being "boring or uptight" in bed is frequently not down to prudishness. I'm more than mildly surprised that you don't know how easy most of us are when shown some care and respect.
Fucking Men. They think it is so fucking easy to just let them inside and ramble about like stupid, ignorant rutting pig. And yet we see something AND we do IT. Men are so fucking ...IT HAD NOTHING TO DO w/ outside features..or money. I'm sure for some. sex will last as long as the money does. But there was Never love involved. unless it was love of only oneself in the beginning. you know what. this is stupid. yes, life only concerns men to the extent of their penis. Anything outside the bubble of their penis is a waste of their time. Tom said it. Give us money and we'll just beg to clean your shit, and beg you to fix our shit. (by the way, I can fix my own shit, and clean my own shit and make my own mother fucking money.) And I know how to read a mother fucking recipe book, and tell if something tastes good or not. Fucktard. Go Jerk off in a sink.
I have some prudish tendencies, but it's partly body issues and partly down to the fact that I don't feel my main role in a relationship is to be some guy's blow-up doll. If that's the only man I can find, I'd rather stay single. I'm not as intelligent as you are, but I do know that "prude" isn't the correct term for that. I agree with the girls about appreciation - if the relationship is solid and equal, I have no problem doing things for my man.
I guess what I'm saying is that it's all the girls' fault for being boring in bed and uptight. These are usually the same girls who treat sex like a commodity or a bargaining chip or spout out idiotic phrases to justify being frigid like "who buys the cow if the milk is free?" (which, for the record, is a hideous statement on the woman's sense of self-worth).
I'm sure there are girls like that, though I only know of them from commercials of "reality shows" I don't watch. Your first line there though, is part of what Helene is try to explain to you. Being "boring or uptight" in bed is frequently not down to prudishness. I'm more than mildly surprised that you don't know how easy most of us are when shown some care and respect.