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I did say I was only speaking for myself random thoughts Send a noteboard - 20/04/2011 01:58:45 PM
How do you know your attitudes would have been that same if you had just been engaged and not married? Also how long have you been married? Newlyweds are not really the same as old married couples. Every couple is different but I find the idea that being married for a few years without having your relationship change odd
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Relationship - positive development or signs of eventual break down? - 19/04/2011 08:48:26 AM 1804 Views
Helene, I want to give you an answer but... - 19/04/2011 08:58:45 AM 960 Views
Fair enough - 19/04/2011 10:01:51 AM 911 Views
inlaws are not always bad - 19/04/2011 02:10:18 PM 873 Views
I spend way more time with my in-laws than with my own family. - 19/04/2011 02:17:41 PM 864 Views
I'm like this with my future in-laws too. *NM* - 19/04/2011 04:47:05 PM 423 Views
I think they are right - 19/04/2011 10:20:39 AM 1089 Views
I see your point - 19/04/2011 10:42:51 AM 1041 Views
Re: I think they are right - 19/04/2011 01:59:57 PM 919 Views
I think that's an unfair assumption. - 19/04/2011 02:16:54 PM 848 Views
What he said about his wife's mother - 19/04/2011 02:59:32 PM 1015 Views
No offense... - 19/04/2011 02:35:53 PM 1001 Views
yes but have you found such a thing? - 19/04/2011 03:05:35 PM 921 Views
For now I have *NM* - 19/04/2011 03:08:17 PM 459 Views
how long has it been? *NM* - 19/04/2011 03:16:32 PM 434 Views
Don't try to corrupt me with your long term pessimism - 19/04/2011 03:34:39 PM 867 Views
sadly I seem attracted to the crazies *NM* - 19/04/2011 04:08:14 PM 428 Views
Could be either - 19/04/2011 10:30:50 AM 962 Views
True enough... - 19/04/2011 10:44:28 AM 940 Views
My opinion is the latter. - 19/04/2011 01:55:00 PM 946 Views
He definitely has a point about realistic expectations - 19/04/2011 01:56:49 PM 918 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations - 19/04/2011 02:07:34 PM 884 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations - 19/04/2011 02:13:25 PM 1021 Views
I should have read this first. - 19/04/2011 02:25:16 PM 965 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations - 19/04/2011 02:23:14 PM 931 Views
The fact that you are referring to a fiancé and comparing it to wife says a lot - 19/04/2011 02:09:27 PM 1024 Views
To be fair, me and my fiance have been together for about as long as they have - 19/04/2011 02:57:03 PM 876 Views
I don't know about everyone but things changed when we got married - 19/04/2011 03:16:11 PM 920 Views
How did things change? - 19/04/2011 04:14:56 PM 931 Views
Like I said I can only speak for myself - 19/04/2011 04:54:04 PM 936 Views
There's already a 10 year old in the picture for us - 19/04/2011 06:52:44 PM 865 Views
My husband and I don't understand why people say this. - 20/04/2011 01:03:31 AM 976 Views
I did say I was only speaking for myself - 20/04/2011 01:58:45 PM 908 Views
I know. - 20/04/2011 09:01:11 PM 1140 Views
Sorry for some reason I thought you had just got married. - 20/04/2011 09:52:24 PM 1378 Views
Good luck to them! *NM* - 22/04/2011 04:25:38 AM 414 Views
From the information that you have presented... - 19/04/2011 03:50:19 PM 1070 Views
Could go either way. - 19/04/2011 04:36:02 PM 874 Views
I get the impression that it's more about her forming toward him than vice versa - 19/04/2011 06:56:37 PM 879 Views
Giving up is one thing, growing past is another. - 19/04/2011 10:00:55 PM 833 Views
Oh, to be fair, he's the friend and she's the wife - 20/04/2011 08:43:12 AM 800 Views
I don't necessarily think it will end in a breakup or divorce. - 19/04/2011 04:44:11 PM 862 Views
I think this is about priorities. - 20/04/2011 01:07:20 AM 1019 Views
Our priorities may shift over time, too. We're still very young and more tied to our families. - 20/04/2011 03:09:54 AM 864 Views
Even when younger, I was independent. - 20/04/2011 05:29:59 AM 769 Views
*nods* - 20/04/2011 06:25:29 AM 949 Views
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Not the former for sure, and maybe not the latter. - 19/04/2011 05:55:03 PM 920 Views
Can't tell. - 19/04/2011 10:04:27 PM 838 Views
I'm with the 'can't tell' crowd. - 19/04/2011 11:37:17 PM 1145 Views
hell, or she could just not care too much at all - 19/04/2011 11:43:21 PM 858 Views
I'm leaning more towards your interpretation. *NM* - 20/04/2011 02:15:22 AM 390 Views
I'm with you on this. *NM* - 20/04/2011 10:00:41 AM 439 Views
*sigh* - 20/04/2011 09:25:02 PM 982 Views
Re: I mean, it's not good. *NM* - 20/04/2011 11:50:21 PM 382 Views

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