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My husband and I don't understand why people say this. rebelaessedai Send a noteboard - 20/04/2011 01:03:31 AM
I know everything is different for everybody, but we were married in our hearts the day we met. We just knew. Our expectations have changed, true, but not any differently than they would have if we had been engaged still and not married.

I didn't get the feeling he was talking bad about his spouse, just that he was happy she finally understood this wasn't a thing worth arguing over. You learn what to accept by not sweating the small stuff, I think.

In other news, the top line of my window says "Community Messageboard: I don't know about everyone but things changed when we got married by random thoughts". And that sounds very silly without the comma.
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