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Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations snoopcester Send a noteboard - 19/04/2011 02:13:25 PM
My only question there is if it was so important to him to not go, why didn't he say so instead of going with the cop-out "I'll think about it" line? Would you not be more willing to accept an honest answer you didn't like than for your husband to try and dodge the bullet entirely? I know my wife would, with me.


If they have had rows in the past about going to see her family, he might have tried being honest and explaining why he didn't want to go before and learnt that "I'll think about it" works to at least put off the blazing row they'll have.
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What he said about his wife's mother - 19/04/2011 02:59:32 PM 1016 Views
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For now I have *NM* - 19/04/2011 03:08:17 PM 460 Views
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He definitely has a point about realistic expectations - 19/04/2011 01:56:49 PM 919 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations - 19/04/2011 02:07:34 PM 884 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations - 19/04/2011 02:13:25 PM 1022 Views
I should have read this first. - 19/04/2011 02:25:16 PM 965 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations - 19/04/2011 02:23:14 PM 931 Views
The fact that you are referring to a fiancé and comparing it to wife says a lot - 19/04/2011 02:09:27 PM 1024 Views
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How did things change? - 19/04/2011 04:14:56 PM 931 Views
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I know. - 20/04/2011 09:01:11 PM 1141 Views
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